陷入出轨的已婚女人，到底图的是什么

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 wenxuejiazhouguopingzaixinlangweiboshangshuoguoyijuhua：renwangwangqipanganqing，zaitingdashuipingshangyouyugudan，yaoxianggenjuganqinglaihuanjiehuoshijiejuegudan。keshi，woyizhijuede，gudanshibutaikenengchedijiejuede，bingqiedoubuyingdang，duobigudanhuishirenyuelaiyueqianbo。-ruhe wanhui

 zheihuayingyongdaohunwailianzhong，yibufenwaiyuderendaohunneichuguiquxunzhaoaiqing，yeyouyuhunyinshenghuotaiguopingpingdandanxiangjiejuegudan，tamenhuiganjuezishendehunyinshenghuochulenanti，suihouyaoxiangxunzhaoyigexintaizhuangtaijiyu。keshitamentongchanghushilezishenbenzhibutaikenengjiejuegudan，bingqietumoubuguidegerenxingweizongshibashierhejushinongdegengjiacaogao。

tanjihunwailian，renmenxiantantaoyigenanti：chuguinanrenhechuguinvrenzaitexingshangyoushenmequbie?

 zhihuwendashangdaiyigecankaodaanshineimeshuode：chuguinanrendeneishihou，daliangkaolvdaodeshi，tangruobeixifufajuedehuagaizenyangwanliu，zenyangyuanhuang，zenyanghonghaoqizi;erchuguinvrendeneishihou，tongchangxiangdeshi，tangruobeizhangfufajuedehua，lihunzhihouzishenyigerengairuheyishizhuxing，nagezishenhunneichuguishenaiderenjiujingshifouhuiquta?

 yibanlaishuo，yiduanhunyinshenghuolijiarushichuguinanren，ernvxingduobanhuitiaoxuankuanrong;jiaruoshichuguinvren，nanshengjuedabufenburongyikuanrong，zheiyedaozhichuguinvrendechengbenfeijiaoweigao。

weihechuguinvren，nanshengburongyikuanrong?

 youyuzaiyiduanhunyinshenghuoli，nanshengzaiqianyishizhongli，yizhichangyoubanvxingkanzuoduxiangwudexintaizhuangtaiquxiang，yidanlaopochanshenghunwailian，jiudaibiaonanshengdesiyouquanbeishilian，zheihenvxingguidingnanshengzhuanyihaibutaiyiyang，zainixinzhongzhong，laopobeibieren“moguo”，shishifenlingrenwufajienadeshi。bingqiezheizhenduiyigenanrenlaijiangshijudadewuru。

 zhongsuozhouzhinvxingyidanyongyouhunwailianhuiyounaxiecantongdebuliangyingxiang?nvxingyaonulidefuchudaijiahaowuyiwenhuibinanshengdahenduo。zheilirenmenhaiyaoyanjiuyigenanti，zenmehuiyounvxingminglejieyouneimadadefengxianxingdanhaihuiyiyiguxing，tamenzaihunwailianzhongjiujingzaixunzhaonaxie?

 wozheierxianshenming，wulunshinanxingaishangyoufuzhifuhuanshinvxingaishangyoufuzhifu，worenweiquanshibukeyongde。hunyinshenghuobutaihao，jiaruonigenairennanyijiejuenenggouliyi，keshirenheshikedoububidianjizhepanbian。

 yidanpanbianleduiairendaozhisunhai，dajiadehunyinshenghuoyouzenyangnengkaizhanxialai?shubuzhihenduorendanghuozaiweicengshaoqideneishihou，tamenzongganjuebuzaihu，yidanhunwailiandongchuangshifa，guanniandaobuzhengquebunengwanliu，tamencaihuihouhuibuyi，cishengdouhuizhuihuizhongduguo。

 wodeguandianziranshichizewaiyudegerenxingwei，keshiyinweiwoqiwangnenggoubangshangdaliangxianruzaihunwailianzhongderen，qiwangtamennenglijiwuweiyanzhibuyu，mituzhifan，qiewuzaicimilian，yifabukeshoushi。womenjiehunlezhihouduibierenyouhaoganduzheihenyiqiezhengchang，keshinikeyiqingxidelejiezheileihaogandujueduibunengfazhanqushiweilianqing，buranbuliangyingxiangjiangwufayuliao。

 zheipianwendemudishixiangranggengduoderenrenshiziji，qingxihunwailiandeshiqinghesuoxunulidefuchudaijia，zaifenbiedehunyinshenghuozhongneixinhuanshiyaoyougancheng。zhongshishizhongshihunyinshenghuodedaodedixian，bielaodianjizhekaixin，nisuozhihunwailianyidandongchuangshifahuirangnichanshengnaxiebijiaoyanzhongdebuliangyingxiang。

shenxianhunwailiandejihunnvxing，jiujingzaixunzhaonaxie?wojianggenju2gexiaogushilaiweidahuoerjieshi。

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 yueduzhezimofalailaisiliao，tashuozishenzhengchuzaihunwailiandekunhuodangzhong，tagennageyoudianernuanweidepengyouyipiankongbaichansheng，keshitaqueyouyuciyuelaiyueyoudianerxinshenbuanle。

 zimozaoyiwanhun6nian，you2gexiaohai，shijishangtadehunyinshenghuoyehenpingpingdandanxingfukuaile，zhibuguoshizheileipingpingdandanxingfukuaileshaoledianganqing。zimodelaogongyouyugongzuozhongdeguanlianshijianbudaojia，zimocongtadeshenshangtihuibushangwennuanheaideguanai，caihuiganjueshaolediannaxie?

 yigehenbujingyidejiyu，zimodeqiyexinlailayigeyixingpengyou，bitaxiao4sui，renyezhangdeshifendekushuai。zimobuzhiweishenme，yixiazibeitajixiyinzhule，bingqietagenzimoshuohuadefangfashifenwenrou。yikaishichupeng，xinkuangshenyi，zimodexincunyidiandianzaodongbuanle。

suanbushangshenmeaiqing，daliangshiyizhonghaoganduheshangxi。

 keshizimohuranfajueyigexiaoguanjiandian，jiushishuotafadeshoujiweixinxinpengyoudoushijitaguanzhu。zimojiuzaixiang，zheileiguanzhushifouyizhongxiai。

 tahaisixiabizhao，kantayoumuyoujibiedenvyouguimiguanzhu，dangfajuetameiyoujibiedenvyouguimiguanzhuzhizanletadeweixinpengyouquanshi，zimojuededaoyisidexinxi，taganjuezishenyouneimayigechusedenanshengxiaita，neixinhuodeleyizhongnanyixiangxiangdechengjiugan。

keshirenmenlaijiexiyixia，zimoshifouxiangdetaiduo?

pengyouquandianzanshiyizhonghenpubiandeshejiaomeitigerenxingwei，keshibingbudengyujiushishuoyizhongxiai。

 wojingchangshuaweixinpengyouquan，wulunnandenvdedoushidian，keshigen“xiai”buxianggan，woguanzhudeniantoufeichangjiandan，jiushishuokansheifadeweixinpengyouquanquweibianjitamenzanyixia，shifenjiandan。jiaruoshilianggeguanzhudoubeiwuyiwei“xiai”，neimaguoduanzhihoububiguanzhule。

 jiquanbunanrennvrenyigegaojie：bubijiangnideganqingtishenglegezhonggeyangxiangxiang，chenjinyuzai“shoujiweixinshilianqingzhong”，niyinciweide“shoujiweixinshilianqing”zuiyoujianghuijiushinizishenxiangdetaiduo。

 zimocaiyixinpengyouduitayouqu，yeyoujiushishuoxintongshilaopozhizaoneiwan，xinpengyouhaifashoujiweixinjizimowengongzuozhongdeshi，rangtagengweiwurenweitaxiaita。zimoxiangdeshi“nilaopodouzhizaoleniyaofalaishoujiweixin，nijiujingshiduoxiaiwo”。shifouhenhaoxiao，zheizaidaliangneishihoujinjin yizhongzigaozidadexiangxiang。

 tamenliangsidixiajianguoyicimian，yipiankongbaichansheng，xinpengyouyangedihuijuelezimo，shuotamenliangzhijianghuishipengyouguanlian，suihoucongjinyihouhetadoumeiyouzaijinyibudewanglai。keshizuibianneiyangshuo，xinpengyouzaiyinjiuyihouyouyuelezimo，liangrenzaiyiqile，daliangshiyizhongnuanweideguanlian。

zimogenwoshuotayinggaizenmeban?

 henxianeryijian，zheiyiduanqingganburongyiyounaxiehaodejieguo，lijiwuweiyanzhibuyucaisuanshidejieju。liangrenchangyoujiazhong，yedoufenbieyou2gexiaohai，jianchixiaquhuiyounaxiejieguo?dajiazongshibashieryuelaiyuegengjiazhicaogao，yidanhunwailiandongchuangshifashidui2gejiazhongyeshiduixiaohaideyizhongsunhai。

 woshuozimo，niyaoliyima?tashuobuyuan，youyuzishenyou2gexiaohai。wochixiao：“niyaolejiejini2gexiaohai，niduizheiyijiazhongdeyiwuni?zhongyaoneishihouyidingdeguanliziji，nikeyichongfenkaolvbuliangyingxiang，erbingbushibuguhouguo，siwujidan。”

 zimopale，tashuozishenjiushishuohunyinshenghuotaipingpingdandanle，meirenguanzhuzishen，dangyigechusedenanshengchuxianshi，yishijianbeimengbile。bazheixieshuobailedewenroudangzuoleganqing，danyouweichangbingbushiyizhongzishenmengpian。

03

wutongyeyouyuhunwailiandeshizhaoguowo。

 tashiyige40suidezhongnianfunv，danyouyuweihubaoyangqiadangrengranhennianqingmaomei，tadelaogongbijiaomangyitiandaowangubudeta，guinvnidaoleputonggaozhong，wutongyoudabadeshijianquanshimeishizuode。gongzuofangmiandoumeiyouguoduofanshi，wutongyeshinaoxindeneishihou，tazhaobuzhehaoguimishushuo，ganjuezishentaigudanle，zheiyineishihouyouyigehenduoniandeyixingpengyoupengyouguanzhuta，wutongjiubazheileiguanzhudangzuoleganqing。

 wutongxianlejinlai，tagenneiweiyixingpengyoupengyouyiqiyongcan、kandianshiju、xianliao，zhangciyiwang，yixieshieryejiuhenshunlichengzhangchanshengle。keshitamenliangzhongjiansuanganqingma?suanbushang，dangwutongshuozishenxiangliyideneishihou，nanshenglijihuijueleta。yishijianwutongshouzuwucuo，taganjuezishenzaizheiyiduanqingganzhongzijintouruleguoduo，yandixiaquebuzhidaochuluzainali?

 henxianeryijian，wutongyouyutaiguogudanxianglaihunneichuguixunzhaoaiqing，danshitahuodededanshishiyishidewenrou，quemeiyouchongfenkaolvjiweibijiaoyanzhongdebuliangyingxiang。

 jiaruwutongdeshibeitazhangfulejie，tasuoxunulidefuchudaijiashisha?liyi，laogonghezhongqinpenghaoyoudechize，naizhiguinvyehuibuyuanliang。bingqiewutongzaihunneichuguizhaoxundaodecongshizhishangeryanbenzhijiubingbushiganqing，youyuzheileiganqingzhinenghuanaimeiyouyiwu，woxiangwenyixiashishenmeganqing?

ganqingyidingshiyouyiwude，erbingbushinibuguhouguodefangsi。

 womendoushichengren，kandaizishendeqingganyaoyouyigebaochiqingxingdelejie，dangnidehunyinshenghuojiniganjuetongchuqienanyiziba，ninengliyikeshijueduibukeyiwaiyu。yidanwaiyudaibiaomengpian，ninengsunhaidaoairengenghuiyouyizhongxiuchigan，niyehuisunhaidaoxiaohai。jiaruonicongweixiangguoliyideshi，neimaqingcaozongzhuzishendechongdong。biebahunneichuguidehaoganduzuoweishiganqing。

neisuanzuoshenmeaiqing?danshishiyishidehuanjue，danshijiushinidezishenmengpian，nishuobailedeganqingjingbuzhuyidianyudafengchui。

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shenxianhunwailiandejihunnvxing，jiujingzaixunzhaonaxie?zuoyoude2gexiaogushidouduinishuoyigecankaodaan：

 tamenyouyuzishenhunyinshenghuoshangdeganqingyihan，suihoujiqiwangconghunwailianzhonghuodeyishidekuanwei。ninenghuodeduanzanxingdekuanwei，keshisuochanshengdebuliangyingxiangjiweicantong。ruguonishijihunrenyuan，nizuoshierhaiyaochongfenkaolvbuliangyingxiang。jihunrenyuanyaoxuehaoguanlizijideqinggan，youyizhongzikongnengli，erbingbushizhigaoqiang。

 lingwaidangliangrenmeileshihedelianqingzhenshishenfen，dajiazhongjiandeganqingdanshishiyizhongzishenmengpian。queshishiganqingma?danshiyouyuhunyinshenghuotaikuzaofaweiqiwangnengcongzheidangzhonghuodeyixiehuanai，keshinihuodedebingbushihuanai，zhishihuibabicidejiazhongdounongdejiqicaogao。

 bubiquzuoneiyangyueguideshier，ruguonijielehunyouxiaohai，niduijiazhongdeshimingganyidingshizaiganqingqianbian。zuorenheshikebixuchongfenkaolvbuliangyingxiang。

 huanshizheijuhua：buxihuanshirihuodehaolei，danenggouxiaosaliyi，qianwanbieyongwaiyudefangfalaijiejuekunnan。yidansunhaiyidanpanbian，changjingyifabukeshoushi，yexuhuiyouxiuchigan。

haoziweizhi，huanshiyaoduihunyinshenghuoxincunjingwei。