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 danghunyinshenghuozaoshouairenwaiyushigaizenyangtiaoxuan，jiujinglihuanshilibule?tashinvshizixunzhegenwoshuoshuzuiduodenanti，doushitamenzuikunhuozuitongchudenanti。-ruhe wanhui

wodecankaodaanshi：yinrenyousuobutongde!

 youyumeiduifufuhunyinshenghuozhongleibuyiyang，suoyourensuozhishendeziranhuanjingyudiweibuyiyang，duihunyinshenghuozuoyongzaochengdeyaoqiuhexiwangyebuyiyang。yiner，tabixuliangshendingzuo。

01、恩爱失去活力型

 qingmeihetadezhangfushigaoxiaochuliannvyou，yiqianshixiaoyuanneizuijiaqinglv。biyele，lianggerenshunlichengzhangdijiehunle。xiaohaichushihou，qingmeiganlejiatingzhufu，chanshengnanzhujiaowainvzhuneidehunyinshenghuofangshi。

 yinweiqingmeizhujianyushehuifazhanchugui，zhongxindiandouhuixiaohaideshenshang，liangkouzidegongtonghuatiyuelaiyuedi，qingganyuelaiyuepingpingdandan。

zaiyicigongchushi，qingmeizhangfuhenvyouguimiyongyouhunwaiqing，zicihetayizhinuanweichixu。

 waiyuexingshijianpuchuhou，qingmeitongkubukan。zaizixunguwendexiezhuxia，qingmeidiaojielewufakongzhidexintai，zhujianjingxiaxinlai。genjuyishizhuxingdeguanjiandiantaquedinghezhangfushitanchengxiangdaide，jinjin hunyinshenghuomeiyoumeilile。

lijinggoutongjiaoliuhou，liangkouziyiqijienazixun，liangkouziyiqijienazixun,jinxingxuexipeixunmeirirenwu：

1.zaicixuanxiuquanqinziguanxi，chuangjianfuqiganqingdiyi、qinzigoutongdierdejiazhongxuwei;

 2.qingmeidexiaojiqingxuzaiyiduanshijianhuibuduanqifu，bixuxuehaoyouxiaoxuanxiexintai，xuanyongduanliandefangshihesuzaoxindegerenaihaolaijijidiaozhengqingxufuxingxintai;

 3.qingmeiyaochangchangzishenjuecha，keguanxingdianpingzhangfudexingwei，fangzhiduanzhangquyi，duitajijizhudongdehuiguogerenxingweilijijiyuyixiefanmiandedafuhehaowuyiwen;

 4.shejifanganwennuandejiazhongzhutihuodong，jiegoujiagujiazhongdekekaoxing，tigaojiazhongdetuanduideningjuli，xiyinzhuzhangfukuangsuanyujiazhongyiwaideganqingzhonggui;

5.tishengfuqishenghuodepinzhi，tishengfuqizhijiandeganqinglianjieheqinmiwujian

lijingdabannianduodezixun，qingmeihezhangfuzongsuanxiubulehunyinshenghuo。

 xiaojishigechusemeilidenvren，henhuigan。tahezhangfuyinenaierwanhun，jiehunhoudi8nian，zhangfubianxin。xiaojishizuihouyigelejiezheiyichuguinanrenderen，tawanquanbenkuile，zaizixunchulihaotaodaku。

 taquedinglaogongzaoyibuaitale，xinyimeiyouzheiyijiazhong，liruzhangfubuguanzhutadetihui，qiaoqiaoqianyilefufudefuqigongtongcaichan，zaoyihedisanzhetongjushenghuo，tamenhaichuangjianlexianghudeweilaideshenghuofangan……xiaojisheqixiubuhunyinshenghuo，tiaoxuanleliyi。

rujinxiaojizaoyiliyi3nian，tabazhei3niandouyongyifazhanqushigongzuo，xianjieduanzaoyishiyiweichenggongzhe。

 tashuo：“zaoshoulaogongchuguile，woxingyunzishenquganlezixun，zheiyaowoqingchudijiandaozishenshixiadejingyu。dangwodongdeleshixiadeshiji，woyejieshoulehunyinshenghuoliyousibie，yehuiyoushenglidekeguanshishi。qimiaodeshi，dangnijienayihou，yuanhenrutongbeichuopodeqiqiu，cancanxiaotuile……”

rujin，xiaojishenpangjigeyixingpengyou，zhangfuyechangdaoguanzhuta，tayishizhuxingdexinxintanran。

jiarushizheileizhongleidehunyinshenghuo，tiyizaoshouairenwaiyushi，xianrangzishenpingjingxialai，quedingshibushihaitanchengxiangdai。

 tanchengxiangdaishichulihunlianwentideshilingdanmiaoyao，doushiwanhuihunyindejiaodaqudongli。jiaruquedingaiyichengwangshi，bibushangfangguowolingyifang，yeshihuai。

02、性情自身矛盾型

 xiuxiuhezhangfushibicibabamamashangtanjiedehun，biciquanshidushengzi，xingqingdouhenzishen。jiawuhuoyuxiaohaiyoubicibabamamabangzhu，xiuxiuhezhangfujingchangguozheyouxianzizaideshiri。danshi，yiyangzishendelianggerenjingchangmaodunchixu。

mouyitian，zhengzhizhihou，xiuxiudezhangfushuaimenerqu，zaishengengbanyeyedianyushangleqianrennvyou，chanshenghunwaiqing。

 xiuxiulejiehounaonubuji，bicibabamamayouhongyoupian，batanongdaozixunchu。daozixunchu，xiuxiukuguonaoguoyihou，tongchanghaimeiyouzhidaoxiayicizixunshijian，jiuyouhezhangfuqinrele。

jiarushizheileizhongleidehunyinshenghuo，youyuyouchongyudexingmeili，waiyujinjin yishichongdong，hunyinshenghuoshihenrongyizhengjiude。

 fujianhunyinshenghuoshi，bixuxunzhaopingshimaodundegenbenyuanyinbingxunzhaochulimaodundefangshi，lirufenbiezuoyixiezishenchengcai，xuexipeixungoutongjiqiao：

 1.xiuxiuhezhangfuyaocongfenbiedejiatingguanxizhongbaituochuqu，chuangjianyigezhenshidejiazhong，dulisikao，jianlifufuderenwujiaoseheyiwufenpai，chuangjianyouxiaodecaiwuyuce。jiarubukeyi“duannaihou”，tamenjiubutaikenengzhangdale，bianchengzhangfuhuoqizi;

 2.zhengchaoshi，buxunqiubangzhubicifumu，chengnuochaonaoshengeyuxiangxiangshi，zhongzhixiexi30fenzhong，dengxianghuxintaijianqinghouzaidugoutongjiaoliu。

3.xuexipeixunzhongshi，jixianghuyidingdeziyoukongjian。

 4.zhangwolingyifangxingqing，chuangjianyouliangdegoutongjiaoliuhudongjiaoliu，jijizhudongganqingdafu。fufugoutongjiaoliushi，biaoshuyaoqueli、shiji，fangzhiyingyonganshizhe、caixiangdengbuzhengquedegoutongmoshi，zaigoutongjiaoliushiyaoliuyiduiyujianglaidehunyinshenghuojibenjianshe，bubifanzhangfuchuguidejiuzhang。

03、功利性消沉顺从型

 ziqidebabashiyiweishouwozheshiquandegaoguan，zhangfuzaibendiyoujiazushiqiye。liangjiaderongheshizhengshangronghe，ziqihezhangfuzaijiehunqianyemeiyoujianguojihuimian。

jiehunhou，lianggerendingjuzaidudongbieshuzhong，yishizhuxingfuyu，keshifeichangshaogoutongjiaoliu，zhengchaodouchaobuqilai。

ziqidebabatuijuerxianhou，ziqidezhangfuzaidiernianjiuhuiyoulehunhouchugui。

 zaizixunchuli，ziqiyizhitibuqilaijingtougaibianxianzhuang，duizhangfujingjifazhanshangdeyikaorangtananyigesherujindeyouyiyishizhuxingbiaozhun。zhinengdangshiridichenshi，ziqicaihuixiangdaozhaozixunguwentutucao，mazhangfuzisizili、lengdan。

 jiarushizheileizhongleidehunyinshenghuo，yinweibiciyikaishijiuduihunyinshenghuomeibaotaigaoxiwang，yinci，yejiumeiyouguoduoxinhanheweiman，yinciqianquegenggaidequdongli，hunyinshenghuoruyitansishui。

 yifangwaiyuhou，shibushiliyixukanbicishibushiyouzhengtiliyi。liruziqi，dangbabashishihou，zhangfujiukuaisuwaiyule;dangtaxunzhaoyigenengdailaizishengengdaquanyidenvxingshi，guidingliyideshijianjiuhenjinle。

ziqibixuxunqiubangzhuhunyinlvshijinliangbaoweizishendequanyi，buranhuishifenpugong。

04、繁衍后代目地型

 yangzihenaitadezhangfu，tizhixuruodetayibianchanxiahezhangfuaidejiejingti，baojingquzheyunqi，zhizaoshijiusiyisheng。chanxiaguinvhou，youyuneichuxuebeiqiechuzigong，dafuxuanbutazhihoubukeyizaishengyun。

zuoyueziqinei，pingchangduitawenrouguanaidezhangfu，xintaichanshengtianfandifudezhuanbian，yudiaoshifenlengdan。

 zhihou，tafajue，zhangfugangkaishiwangshangyidanshendezhenshishenfenheshengshunvxingnuanweibingfashengxingguanxi，jiapoyezaiqiaoqiaobangtatantingnanpengyou。

 yangzihenshiluo，qianquxunqiubangzhu。zaizixunguwenxiezhuxia，yangzirenqing，zheiyinanshengbafanyanhoudaizuoweihunyinshenghuodeguanjianzuoyong，tashibunengbiangengdezhongtedajiazhiguannianmaodun。yangzitiaoxuanxuehuifangxia，hezhangfuliyi。

 jiarushizheileizhongleidehunyinshenghuo，jichushibutaikenengzhengjiude，haosishimoqiaizhengbingren。chufeishitaderichangshenghuochanshengzhongdaanquanshigu，caiyouyixianjianghuiniuqugubuzifengdesixiangyishi。

05

 renmenyizhiqiwanghunyinshenghuoxiangzuikaishidemoyang，shizhongneimaxingfuqinmiwujian。shubuzhishijishi，hunyinshenghuoshibansuizheshijiandexiaoshiheziranhuanjingdegenggaierzhuanbiande，tayejianghuicongyizhongzhongleifazhanqushichenglingyizhongzhonglei。

 zaoshouwaiyuweijihou，shenxianganqingjiongjingdedaduoshushinvshi，youyuyoulvyouniandexiaohai，youyugujifujindefengyanfengyu，youyubenshenshengcunlihejingjifazhangongzuonenglibugouzheixie，yizhixiankongjuhaipacongerjinghuang，duishixiadejingyushifenmangran，xintaifeichangrongyiwufakongzhi。

 yiwangyishikeguanshishi，renmenmeifagenggai，danmingriyujianglaishiweizhiliang。renmennenggouyijubenshensuozaideyishizhuxingziranhuanjing、shengcunnengli、ganqingyicunduzheixieshulizishenlishudehunyinshenghuozhonglei，zhengquerenshibenshenshixiadexiankuang。

 neiyangcaikeyixuehuifangxiaxintai，xuehuifangxiadanxin，yingyongdizuochushixiaduizishenzuiheshidexuanze。zheidoushizaoshouwaiyujufenghou，ganqingxiubuyukongzhiqingxukefouqudechenggongdezhongyao。