女人出轨对吗？能不能原谅？

 nvxingnengwaiyuma？cankaodaanshihaowuyiwenbukeyide。gengwuxuwenchuguinvrenduibuduineiyangdenanti。haijideyiqianyiweiwangminneiyangwen：“chuguinvren，duinanshengshiyibeizideemeng，keshichuziyuliangzhihetongxi，nengfoukuanrongtamen，zaijitamenjihui？”

 wodehuiyingshi：“bukeyi”，rutonghuiyingnvxingnengwaiyumaneiyangdenantixiangtong。waiyumeishenmechuxianyiwaishizheizhongyuejiedegerenxingwei，tasunhaileairenjiandeguanlian、kaixinhexinlai。zhibuguoshi，duiyuxianjieduanzheiyiyufapubiancunzaidelejiequeshifenbuzu，jingchanghushilewaiyudeshenhoushisha。

 waiyunvrendexintaiwojuedeshichuziyuzheizhongqiangpodeqipanerwaiyu，waiyuzaimouzhongyiyishang，shizheizhongmeifazidonghuakongzhideqiangpogerenxingweifangshi，tamenbixuchixude“relianqi”huoshixinxiandexingdecijixing，laikaolvzishenxingxuqiuheaideqipan。erzaidaliangdeneishihou，waiyushichuziyugeshigeyangde、biededeqipan。qipanbeiguanxin，qipanshiqizixinxin，qipanbeibierenbixu……waiyudanshishizheizhongfangshi，shiyibianchuliwaiyuzhiwaidenanti，shizijizairichangshenghuozhongdebiedenantizaochengdetongyixingdonghefumianxinxibiaoshu。

 woshenpangdeyouyigepenyoushizuomaimaidehenfuyou，jixifumailaiaodichekailezaijiazhongkanxiaohainianshu，lianggehaizi1geguinv，jieguozheiyinvxinggensuibierenpaoleduoci，zheixiongdiyeshixixinchixuzhaodaoduoci。

 yikuaieryinjiushuota，xiongdizanyoudianerdouzhihaome，jieguotahuiyinghuiliang，shuowofuyounenggouzhao1genianqingmeilidenvren，keshizheiyinianqingmeilidenvrenburongyitengwodeerzi，liangrenyikuaierlehuiyouyuxiaohaizhengchao……

 wowangwangzhaodaoguoshenghuo，youyuxiaohaizhongjiushitashoushangwangxiadiaoderou，tahuitengxiaohai，aizheixiongdiyelebuqi，xiangzhetashuoderenshengdadaoli

 duia，zishendechuguinvrenle，zuoweilaogong，neixinbixushinanjijiena。jiaruyongyouxiaohai，nijiugengdanxin。wojuede，yaoshijingxialai，lizhidekaolvkaolv，hengliangyixiaxiayouquedian，zaigenlaopohaohaodigoutongjiaoliujifan，xunzhaonantidejiezheng，neibanhuigengqiang，qima，burongyijibiciliuyouquehan。

 jiarunvxingbusihuigai，bunianjiuqing，zaicitadehongxingchuqiang，nanshengqingzhiyijin，neiyangdenvxing，sheqiyehao。jiaruqiangzhiwanhui，zuihouhuishibicigengtongchu。bukeyijitaxingfukuaile，jiujitaziyouba！nanshengxionghuaiyingkuanchangyidianer，yesuanzuoduizishenhebierenshidechengdanba。

 wanhunneichuguidenvxing，yaoxiangqudechenggongdiwanbihunneichuguideqinggan，wanquanzhongguijiazhong，haibixuyouchengdanrenhefuchudaijiadechongfenzhunbei。

 zaoyixiguanhunwailiandecijixingdenvxing，zhenduichangtaihuadehunyinshenghuoshimeibanfaturanzhijianrongrude。yiner，zhongguijiazhongdegangkaishihuanjiezhenduinvxingshigengweitongchu，doushizuiduriruniande。zheiyihuanjiedenvxingshimeibanfadedaohemudefuqixingshenghuode。

 haijideyiqianyiweiyonghuzaihoutaiguanlineiyangliuyanbanliuyanbangwoshuo：“wodelaopoyewaiyule，bingqiehaihuaileyun，shineigerendexiaohai，tajialichiliuchanyaoyibuxiaoxinfajue，yinweiwoxiangqileliyi，keshikanliangxiaohai，guoduodeshiwukenaihe！　　huoxuyinweiwoyouyiwuba！jianghuijiushiwopingchangduitadeguanzhubuzu，kewojiushidachesiji，shiwo2gexiaohai，yibianjiazhongxiaohai，weidenengrangtamenhaohaoguorizi，womeibai，meiheidezaiwaibiankugan，wanwanxiangbudao，tahuineiyangdeduiwomen。”

 nvxinga，bixuyaoaixizishen，qianwanbiesuiyidewaiyu。chuguinvrenduibudui？chuguinvrenzhonghuihailezishen，keshihuayoushuohuijia，chuguinvrenguoyihui，jibianlaogongyuanliangle，tadexinzhongjiuyehuibushangjiazhong，meiyoutalaogongshoushangle。

 nvxingyaoshixiabianguoyihui，tajiuhuiyouzaici。waiyunvrendexintairutongtouguoxingdemao，changdaomeiweikekou，ruguozaixiudaozheileiweier，jiusuanmingzhishitarenbuxiadequantaohaiyaotoushi。yincinvxingjinliangbuyaozuojianziji，younicaixingfu。