一个出轨女人的自白

zhongniannvrenchuguideyuangushisha？dangqiwangbianjidahuoerchansheng1gechuguinvrendezibai，huoxunengjieshinideyihuo。

一、外遇人自诉

 1gechuguinvrendezibai:woshiameng，2019nian39sui，shiyimingjiatingzhufu。shiwo1gehaizi，2019nian12sui，conghuitinghua，wohenzhongshihaizijiaoyuhesuzao，hualehenduodeshijianhehuoli。

 hejiefushizhongguozhechuantongshangnanzhujiaowai、nvzhuneideyishizhuxing，guanlianhaifeichanghao，woduitayeshifenxinlai。zhangfuchangchangchuwaigongchujiaoji，danzhengdeqiandoushijiaodaowo。

renmendehunyinshenghuohaikuotiankong，shiduonianjiuneimechushibujingdiguochulaile，feichangshaochanshengdadezhengzhihuofenqi。

 zhangqiyilai，woquanshizhoubianrenyanlidexingfudenvren，yinweiwoganjuezishentingzhizuchangle，zhongjiuwomeishenmedutenenggou，nengjiageneiyang1geyouzerenxinyouyoujiadenansheng，tingkaolvde。

 woduigongzuoyemeiyoushenmechongjinghezhuiqiuwanmei，tongqingdalijibenshangbianchengwoyishizhuxingdesuoyouzhutifengge。danshi，neiyang1geshenghuowuyou、jiazhongxingfudewo，quezai2019nianwaiyule。

 shiershineiyangde：xinchunjiajiehou，wozhangfuyijiaoleqiye1gedaxinxiangmu，changchangchixuyiyuebixuzhangzhuxinxiangmudi，renmenfufuyiqideshijianjiubizhiqianyuelaiyueshaole。neiyangdeyishizhuxingyuanbenwozaoyixiguan，zhizhi2019nian4yue，tadechuxiangenggailerenhe。

 tajiushiwozaizhuzhaixiaoquzhoubiandejianshenhuisuolilejiede。neiyiduanshijian，renmendoushizaiwanfanwanquyundongjianshen，pengjianduole，xianghuweichengguanxihaogandu，jiujialeshoujiweixin。wochangchangzaiqinshinanandeneishihouzhaotaxianliao，tayehuijijizhudongbangwodafu。wojuederenmendoumeiyouliaonaxieroumadehuatitaolun，quanshishuomouxiewuguantongyangdesuosuiheguanzhuzheileidehua。zhihouwojiulejie，neiyiduanshijiandoushitadekongchuangqi，qiahaotadelaopoyechumengonggan。buzhidaoshichuziyugudu，huanshichunsuixiangzhaorenxiaomoshiguang，renmenmanmangangkaishile.......

 ruguoninaizhijibuqilairenmenchucifashengxingguanxideqingjingle，youyizhonghenhuanghudejuede，keshiwoquehaijide，neileihuanghudejuedeshishizaitaimeihao，wohaoxiangzaicizhaodaozishendehuolihemeili。

 meicuo，shuodaozheier，pobudeyitiyixiaxiawoyulaogongzhongjiandexingxingwei。womenjiehunleshiduonian，leisi1niannengyou10bushangdefuqishenghuo。

 wolaogongduizheijianshiqingbutaihenganxingqu，meiyiciwoanshizheta，tadoushishuohenlei，yejiushishuodaoshihouba。shijianjiule，woyemeiyoujijile。shiduonianchulai，wozaoyixiguan，naizhiganjuezheijianghuijiushishuolaonianfuqizhongjiandechangtaihuaba！yinweiwobingmeiyoujuedezishenduizheijianshiqingyoufeichangdeqipan。zhizhiyushangta，chongdongbeihuranhuanqile。

 nizhidaomawoneiyangshuo，henduorendouhuizhanzaishehuidaodedeguandianshangchizewo——shide，yinweiwozaichizeziji。jinnianlai，wodeshimianzhenggengweibijiaoyanzhongle，shiduoshaogeyelidoubeikuijiuhechouchuchaimodebukeyirumian。

 wohenqingxi，zheileikanbudaoguangdeguanlianjiarujianchixiaquhuiyouruhedebuliangyingxiang，kewohuanshijinbuzhuxiangta。rujin，tazaoyibutailianluowole，tashuorenmenzaijianchixiaqu，duibicijiazhongdoubutaihao。

 wohenmishi，yehendanxin。naozhongmeirichangyou2gejianxianxiaorenzaidajiadouou，1gegenwoshuo：woxiangyaota，xianghetajianchixiaqu。lingwaiyoushuo：bieshale，dajiajinjinyizhenziluandiaoxingqing、zouhuorumo，taduiniyejinjinyizhenzidexingbixu；

 rujin，bawozishenzhenzhengdetihuihejiongjinggaozhidahuoer，wojuedewozaoyigaohaolebeimadetiqianzhunbei，naizhiwoshiqidaidajianengwobeimaxing，wobeicongzheiyixiannililachuqu。

二、每个人都是潜在性的外遇者

 zaiwaiyudequntizhong，nanrennvrenyiyangzhanlefeichangdadezhanbi。zheiyuxuduochuantongshinvshisuojuedede，waiyudejuedabufenquanshinansheng，nanshenggenglanqing、duihunyinshenghuogengweichuguixingweiyoutingdajinchu。

 xuduowaiyudenvshi，zaiwaiyuhou，mianlinbennengfanyingyudaoyizhongjiandesichanyukaowen。zhongniannvrenchuguideyuangushisha？qianbianjingdiangushizhongdeameng，tadehunyinshenghuobukeyishuochedishiwuxinghunyin，danzuishaozaixingnengyongyouzhongtedadequeshao。erlaogongzaigongzuoshangdegongxian、zaijingjishangdedangdan、zaiduijiazhongyiwudedanfushang，zhuyaobiaoxiandoufeichanghao，zheizhongyaosuzaitingdashuipingshangzhegailezaixingnengdequeshao。tebieshizaishizuoweilaopodeameng，benshenguannianchuantongshi，youzhangqixingzuoweijiatingzhufumeishijiawuhuo，juedeneiyangdehunyinshenghuomeiyounanti，naizhizaiwaiyuzhiqian，douganjuezishenshixingfukuailede。zhizhizhihoupengdaozheiweinanxing，xingbixubeihuanqi，zheishihoucaijiandao，tadehunyinshenghuowojuedecunyoutingdadehuokou，gengguanjiandeshi，zaixingqueshaodeshenhou，yeyoutahelaogongqingganshangdeshuyuanbici。

 yizhiyilai，amenglaogongdezhongxindiandoufangdaolegongzuohezhengqianshangbian，eramengdezhongxindianzesuoyoujiyuzailejiazhong。zheileijiyuzaitingdashuipingshangfanyingweitaduijiazhong、duixiaohaidenuli，congbenrenganqingkaolvhexingxuqiudejiaoduguancha，taxianeryijianbushibeikaolvde。jiashangzaitadexingmingzhong，qianquechujiazhongzhiwaidebiedeshiyongjiazhiganhemanzugandelaiyuanyu。yinci，zaiyinyouyanqian，tadedikangnenglihuigengdi。

 renmenhuoxunenggoulizaidaoyiheyiwudeshijiaoquchizeta，keshixingheganqingkaolvshirendebennengfanyingbixu。zaibennengfanyinghechongdongyanqian，daoyiheyiwutongchangshigaolaohaixiangdierxiande。congzheiyijiaoduguancha，meigerendoushiqianzaixingdewaiyuzhe。

 nvxingyinheerwaiyu？congdazhishuo，chuguinvrendeyaosubaokuole3gecengmian，ji：yinyoudechicun，benrendaodeganhezikongnenglijiqiwaiyudechengbenfeihefuchudaijia。zheisancengmiandeyaosuduinanshengyiyangkeyong。haibixuqiangdiaodeshi，yinyoudechicunshi1gexiangduixingyaosu，bingfeijueduiyaosu，jizaiyuyinyouzishendechicun，yezaiyuzheiyirenbenshenyaoqiubeikaolvdeshuiping。rutongyiyangyingduidazhuomeiweijiayao，1gezaoyichibaolefanderen，he1gejihuoshaochangderen，xintaishibuyiyangde。rutongameng，jiarutadehunyinshenghuozaixingheganqingshangbiangengweiwanman，tadeyaoqiubeijichukaolv，neimajiusuanyingduihunneichuguideyinyou，jianghuiburongyibeineimasuibiandeyinyou。