对感情负责，对感情宁缺毋滥

 guanyuaiqing，yourenshuoyaoquzhao，yourenshuoyaodeng。danmeigerendoubutong，zhudingmeiyiduanganqingdoubuxiangleitong。yourenzhaolaile，yourendenglaile，erzhiyuni，zaimeiyouyujianneigeduiderenzhiqian，yiqiedoushijinghunweiding。duiganqingningquewulanshiduizijidefuzeren。

一、你已经过了轰轰烈烈去爱一场的年纪

 ningquewulanshenmeyisi?xuanbarencaihuotiaoxuanshiwu，ningkeshaoyixie，yebuyaobuguzhiliangtanduocoushu。shenbiansuoyouderen，doukaishitanhunlunjia，jiehunshengzi。feichangzhiduoderenzaiquanni，chenzhehainianqing，zhaoyigehaorenjiale，buyaocuotuonianhua。zhangbeimenzaiyebuxiangxinnisuoweidelixiangheshiyexin，yinweiniyijingdaorangtamenzhejiyouyigewendingjiatingdenianling。yuqinigentamenchangkaixinfeiwaxintaofeideshuozijihongweidemengxiang，haiburuchenqibubeidemouyitian，daihuiyigemeilideguniang。

 liannishenbianderendoukaishibuzailijiehexinrenni，tamenbuzhidaonizaixiangshenme，zaijianchishenme，yebuzhidaonizaitiaotishenme，zaidengdaishenme。ningquewulanshenmeyisi？nizongshixiangxinbuguanshenmenianji，douhuiyouzhengdanghaoderen，erdangsuoyourendoukanxiangjiating，baozhehaizishiyibaniaobadeshihou，nisuoyoudexinnian，doubiandecangbaiwuli，kongkouwuping。

二、如果我不喜欢，百万富翁我也不嫁

 duiganqingningquewulan，sanmaoshuo：“ruguowobuxihuan，baiwanfuwengwoyebujia，ruguowoxihuan，qianwanfuwengyejia。”suoyitajiajilehexi，bingqiezaizuihousuitaerqu。

 shide，zheishijianhaoxiangsuoyouzhenzhidiaiqinggushi，doufashengzaibierendeshijieli。nijuedezijibubitamenchahenduo，danshijiushibunengrutamenneiyangqingeryide。bushishuo，meigerendoushiyigebanyuanma，ermeigerendouyoulingyigebanyuanlaigenzijizhonghe；bushishuo，meigerendouyouyigeduiderenzaidengdaizhezijima，tazhengbashansheshui，bucilaokuerlai；bushishuo，zheishijianyidinghuiyouneimeyigerenchuanyuerenhai，zoudaonishenbianma，zhuajinni，wennuanni。danshidoumeiyou。

三、最难的不是放弃或者坚持，而是在放弃和坚持之间摇摆不定。

 nishierxiangfangqi，suibianzhaogerenlequeyisheng，shierhenjianchi，yidingyaozhaoyigexihuanderen，gongduyusheng。liannizijidouxianruzheiyangxunhuanwangfudeshenyuanli，nigengwufaqushuofutaren，rangtamenxiangxinnishiduide，erbushijiduan，nishiyouxiu，erbushizaitiaoti。

 xiangxinwomendouzheiyangcuoguohebeicuoguoguo，huoxuyinweitahenyouxiu，womenhaiwangchenmoji，huoxuyinweitahaibugouyouxiu，womenyuqishizhijiaobei。jidesuxiaolancengshuoguo“ruguoyijianshiqingbunengrangniqufenbugushen，taweibishiyijianhaoshi。”zheijuhua，yongzaiaiqingli，zaiheshibuguo。duiganqingningquewulan，dangniyouyouyuyu，paihuaibuding，dangniqiansihouxiang，zhanzhuanfance，yaobuyaozaiyiqi，nengbunengjieshou，daozuihoudaduoshiyigeposuidejieju。

 suishuolianggerenzaizuichu，doushishitanhekaoyandeguocheng，danshiruguobicimeiyounaixinhexinxin，meiyouyidianfenbugushen，hejujuetingxinliuyanfeiyudeyongqi，zheiduanganqinghennankaishi。

四、不论何时，我们都可以奋不顾身的去爱一个人。

 tabingbushiyizhonglumanghechongdong，yebushiyizhongmangmudezhuiqiuhexisheng。aiqingbenshiyijianqianhuibaizhuandeshiqing，yidanyujianle，haizhenshihuiyaolerendexingming。

 ershiduosuideshihou，nixiangzhezijihaihennianqing，keyidapinshiye，zhiyuganqing，suiyueran。yujianlejiuzhenxi，yubujianyebujihuogongxin。houlai，sanshiduosuile，nishiyexiaoyouchengjiu，danshiyiranmeiyoushihedebanlv。nihaixiangshunqiziran，danshiyekaishianzhongshijing。sanshisuizhihou，womenyinggaiyijingwanquanlejieleaiqing，bingqiedongdelejiantoudezeren，hesuoweijiatingdezhongyaohefuzaxing，zheishidenianji，bazijijiaofuchuqu。

 yexunichangshiguohenduonicongqianfeichangbuxiebuyuanyiquchangshideshiqing，biruxiangqin，pengyoujieshao，canjiajuhui。yinweiyouhenduorenshizaizheiyangdechanghexiangyu、jieshi，erqiehaiyipaijihe。nibaozhejiaoxingdexinli，xiwangzijinenggouyujianzheiyangdeyigeren。zhishidangnichangshizhihou，nihuifaxian，yiqiedoubushiheni。bierenyexukeyizaihuocheshangyujianyigezhitongdaohexijielianlideairen，danshinideqiduyuhanyangrangniwufaquxihuanshangzaiditielisuibianyushangdeyigezhangxiangjiaohaodeqingfunanzi。

五、你有了自己的人生观和价值观，你有自己对于爱情的坚持和信念。

 dangbierenwennixihuanshenmeyangzideshihou，nibuzhidaogairuhejieshi，yushinishuozhuyaoshiyoumeiyouganjue。ganjueduile，jiushiduideren。“jimiaozhong，jiuzhidaotashibushinixiangyaodeneigeduideren。”

 yexuzainihuaiyizijishifouyecuoleshihou，nichangshiguoqugenshenmerenaimei、qianshou，danshidangnimenzaiyiqimeiduojiuzhihou，nihuifeichangweiquhenanshou。nimeiyouxinxinbazijideyishengjiaofujita，bushiyinweibiede，ershiyinweizaimeiyicifenkainizhuanshendeshihou，tadoubuzhidaonizaixiangxieshenme。houlai，zheiduanganqing，jiuwujierzhong。

 yexuniyijingkaishizaishenyelikonghuang，youhuozheyinweinitaiguolejieaiqingzheijianshiqing，yijingkaishizuohaodushendezhunbei。jinguanpingrili，niyijiuzairenqunzhongtanxiaofengsheng，xunmiaiqing。danshibuguanniduomeweijuhejuewang，nishizhongbuyuanyiquxiadingjuexinqianjiu、fangqi。yinwei，guanyuaiqingzheijianshi，womenyueshixunbujian，yueshixiangyao“ningquewulan”。