患得患失是什么意思

 renweishenmeyoushihouhuiyouhuandehuanshideganjue？huandehuanshishishenmeyisi？weishenmezheizhongganjuerangrenbaizhuanaoxin，jiujiewubi，cixintaihuizhijieyingxiangrendexingweimoshi，zhishibenlaiyigejiandanshiqinghuibianfuzahuodijishiwu。

一、患得患失是什么意思

huandehuanshideyisishimeidedaoshipadebudao，dedaohouyoupashidiao。

 《lunyu·yanghuo》：“qiweidezhiye，huandezhi，jidezhi，huanshizhi。” yuanzhiyouhuanluweizhideshi。houyonglaixingrongduigerendeshikandetaizhong。

二、爱情中的患得患失

 weishenmeyouderenxiguanzaiaiqinglihuandehuanshi？aiqinglihuandehuanshideyisishidangmianduixihuanderenshi，henduorenjiudouchanshengzibeixinergandaohuandehuanshi，erqiesuizhexihuandejiashen，zheizhongxintaiyueyanzhong。xiamianjiulaijiandanjulitantanzheizhongaiqingdexintai。

 tanlianaicishuduodenvhai，zongaixianruyigeguaiquan，zhidaonanhaiyoushenmejudongshiaizijide，yezhidaoshenmeleixingdenanhaibuguoshixiangfengchangzuoxibale，danyidanyouzhongxinyushangleaiqing，youshahuhudidiaojinlesuoyoude“quantao”，xinganqingyuan，lezaiqizhong。youzhongdigankaidao，aiqingzheidongxizhendehen“diaopi”，rangnicaibutou，pengbuzhe。

 jiujingyouduoaiyigeren，caihaipazijishuochudeneiju“woaini”shiyijuwanxiaohua。yidanxianruleaiqing，jiubiandehuandehuanshi，zuosiyouxiangdenvhaizhendetebieduo，yidanaishangleyigeren，jiuxiangshigeshilelingdezhinanzhen，shunjianmeilefangxiang，duoxiwangyourennenggouqianzhetamendeshou，gaosutazuizhengquededaan。

三、治疗患得患失的感觉

 1、xiangdeshaoyixie，buyaotaimingan，duoaizijiyidian，baduifangdezhongyaoxingkandediyidian，buyaozongshiweizhetazhuan，duozuozijideshi。

2、dingqiyuenideyourenjianmian

 chengran，nidepengyoujiushiwodepengyou，fanzhengwuyileijurenyiqunfenma。danshihejiatingchengyuanguanxichulihao，zaiwaimianyenenghebicidepengyouyujiarenguanxirongqia。qianwanbuyaochengweiyigequelilianaiguanxizhihou，buheduifangzaiyiqijiumeiyourenheshejiaohuodongderen。

3、zhaoxunrangniyoujiqingzuodeshiqing

 haijidedangniyujianmingzhongzhudingdezheiweishi，rangnitebiereqingyangyideshiqingshishenmema？zheijianshiqingkenengjiushiduifangaishangnideyibufenyuanyine。suoyi，buyaodiushinidezheiyijiqing。

4、fajuezijixindetezhi

 ziwofazhanzaibaochidulizhizhongshiyizhongguanjianyinsu。qucanjiayichangyantaohui、canjiapeixun，zheixiejihuidounengrangnixuehuichenxiaxinlaisikao，faxianyigexindeziji。qinmiguanxizhizhongxuehuidezhongsuziwoshiwujiazhibao。