对付男人冷暴力你不妨这样“晾”着他，被家暴了应该怎么办？

 fenshouzhihou，nizhaohaoguimisuku，matashigehuaxinnan、pianzi、hundan，shuohaoleshizhongbuhuilikaini，jiabaonanrendexinggetedianshishenme？jieguoyanhuolidechenai，nimaletabansu，kedaozuizhonghuanshigaobudong，weihetahuineimewuqing，beijiabaoleyinggaizenmeban？shuofenkaijiufenkai?

 nandaoshuotameiyouyisishebudema?bingbushide，tichufenshoudetongchubingbushiyigerenlaidanfude，tayehuishangxinnanguo，dantagengbixushineikongjian。

 nvrenhenanrenbuyiyangdeshi，nvrenxihuanqingrenqingtu，ernanshengquexiguanxingzishenxiaohuaxishou，yinci niyuefasuku、taogongdao、huozhejiuchanbuqing，tayuefayaoxiangzishenlizhi。

 zheijiushiweishenmenvrenyuefayaoxiangyigejiaofadeqingkuangxia，nanshengyuefawuqinglengdanweiyuhuiying。neimayingduizheileizhuangkuang，nvxingjiujingyaozenyangjiejueni?

终止一切低使用价值个人行为

 jiabaolihunxuyaoshenmezhengju？nanshengyuefayaoxianglizhiyigerendeshihou，niyuefashangganzhejiuchanbuqing，zongshishitayaoxiangbuguansanqiershiyi。youyuzheiduanshijian，chongyileguoduodefenqihenanti，tayeshiyoushebudedanhaipayicuozaicuo。

yinci ，niyuefanao，yuefahuishitayaoxiangduobi。

 shijishangnidanenggouwuxulita，nijitamenshijianzishenxiaohuaxishou，duinishiyouyichude。youyujinyoubicilizaiyigelizhideshijiaoquduidaifenbienanti，caikeyiyougengkegumingxindehuida，erqienidelizhixintaifandaohuiranglingyifangduinizaochengqiuzhiyu。

 jiabaonanrendexinggetedianshishenme？jiaruniyongyixiedishiyongjiazhigerenxingweiqiqiulingyifang，huojiduanhuagerenxingweiweixielingyifang。bujinburongyijuyouyiqieshijixiaoguo，haihuijixuweihaitadefenbian，shitajuedenishimeiyoushiyongjiazhide。

dajiayiqianqingganzhongdenantiyeshimeifahelichulide，congergengweijiandingbuyileyaoxiangtichufenshoudexinxin。

剖析他为什么无情的缘故

 rutongmeiyouyiduiqinglvdefenlishikeliandeyiyang，beijiabaoleyinggaizenmeban？dajiazhongjiandefenlichulaiyidingbingbushiyijianshidaozhide，rutongyidunebuleshouren，yikouchibuledapangziyiyang，dajiazhongjiandefenqihenanti，yidingconghaojiuhaojiuyiqianjiuzaoyifashengle。

zaitanlianaiqianqi，dajiabeilingyifangdeshenshangdeyixiebuyiyang，jiqishiyongjiazhisuoxiyinzhu。

 danzhujianjiaowanghou，zheizhongwupinmanmanbianchenglebianjiao，dajiabuhuizaihaoqixin，jierbianchengle“wohuo”。tabumingbainideniantou，niwohuo;tagaobudongzenmehongni，niwohuo;tabuxiaoderangzheni，nigengqiangqi。

 yiyangde，tayunideniantouyiyang，yeshitingwohuode，yinci caiyaoxiangyigeshineikongjianlizhidexiangyixiangzheizhongyiqianyizhibuzaihudeshiqing。

ziran，zheiyejiushinibixuquyingduide，liruzishenyiqianbulijielingyifang、gaobudonglingyifang、buxuzhelingyifangdediqu。

 haohaodixiangyixianglingyifangjiujingxuyaoshenme，zishenjiujingyoushenmebugou，weihedajiazhongjianyizhihuichanshengfenqizheixie，zheizhonghuidabianshilingyifangwuqingdeyuangu。

运用冷静期，再次塑造自身架构

 yiqiandeni，huoxuzishenduoyixie，neimarujindajiajiuxuyaocongneidaowaizuodeyigegenggai，zaicisuzaozishendeganqingjiagou。huoxuninengshuo：“lianrenyiqianxianaiji，weihewoyebukeyizishenni?”shijishangshandaizijimeiyouyiqiecuo，danzaiganqinglixianghuzhijiantourudedingyibuyiyang。

 ganqingzhongnizisizili，yizhibuzaiyilingyifangdeniantou，gengbuzaihulingyifangderichangshenghuo，nijuedezheishiaizishen，woyaogaosunibingbushide。

 shandaizijidezhuyaobiaoxianshi，xiangshoushenghuo，xiaizishen，buyilingyifangyishizishendezizunherengetezhi，kezisizilizishen，queshibuguanbugubierenrichangshenghuo，buguanbugubierenxiai，gengbuguanbugubierendezizun。

 yinci ，xuduo nvshengyemeiyouyishidaozheiyidian，yizhiguzhidijuede，nanshengwubiyaozuoshenmecaishiaiwo，wubiweiwotourushenmecaishiaiwo，zheishijishangshicuode。

ganqingshangdoushigongpingde，bixushuangzhongtourucaikeyihuxiangguanxin，jinyouguanaiaidezhongzi，caihuihuodeaidehuaban。

yingduinanshengdelengdanwuqingshi，nvxingjinjibubibulizhitaitianzhentaogongdao，neiyangzongshirangzishenpengyibizihuieryi。

 jiabaolihunxuyaoshenmezhengju？jinyoupingjingxialai，xunzhaozhenshidenantigenbenyuanyin，duofangmianjiuzheng，caikeyizhenshidizhaodaoniyaoxiangdehuida。