被家暴了应该怎么办？男人喜欢冷暴力？

 jiabaolihunxuyaoshenmezhengju？zaiyiduanqingganli，jishiliangrenmeitiandachaodanao，jiabaonanrendexinggetedianshishenme？yemeiyoushenmekongbude，zhenshikongbude，fandaoshiliangrende“jianmo”。youyuzheileichenmoshiyizhongjingshenshizhisunhai，shizaifalvfaguiyiwaide“baolixingwei”，beijiabaoleyinggaizenmeban？shashanglijiqiang，ranghenduorenwujikeshi。

 zheilei“jianmobaolixingwei”shiganqingdemanxingzhongdu，rangaishenxianchuyubeidongdekunju，bicimingzhidaotashihaofei，quezhiyourenqisunhai，falifanji。

 yinci lianrenjiantongchang“tanlengsediaobian”，jinridajiajiulaijiaoni3zhao，heliwanbilengbaoli，ranglingyifangcongcihaipasuibiansunhaini。

第一招：以其人之道还治其人之身

guyuyun：“yiqirenzhidaohaizhiqirenzhishen”，hanyijiushitaduinileng，nibianyeyongcifangfahaishibishen!

 budanyaoduitaleng，yeyaoduitarenre，liruhepenyouguangjiegouwu、juhuihuodong、gezhonggeyanghai，queweiyouduitaleng，shitazhenshideganshoudaozheizaiqizhongdeluochagan。

 danyaoliuyideshi，zheierdelengbaoli，bingbushiyouyide，bingbushizhaoshude，zhishishunlichengzhangde，tagennijianghua，ninenghuiying，danjuebujiji，nenggouxianliao，dankendinglengmo。

shitaganshoudaonisiyousiwudeleng，danyouzhaobuzheniyiqielengbaolidezhijiezhengju，caisuanshizuigaojibiedeleng。

 jiabaonanrendexinggetedianshishenme？zheiyifangfabixukezhizijidexuqiugan，duitabaozhengbuzhudong、buchengdan、buhaoqixin，yingduitadeyiqietichuzhiyi，nidouxuyaodandingcongronglizhidifouding，guanjianyaohaijide，huishenyaokuai，zitaiyaoshuai!

 yaolejiezheiyiquanshijie，jihujiumeiyouzhenshide“gantongshenshou”，jinyoushitakegumingxindiganshouguobeilengbaolicaozongdehaipa，caikeyishitadadaotonglixin。

beijiabaoleyinggaizenmeban？zhenshiganshoudaozaiqizhongdesunhaiyutongchu，caikeyishitazhujiangenggai。

第二招：自主供暖，把握主导权

changchangbeilengbaolideren，xinlitongchangshibijiaomingande、buzixinde、meiyouanquangande。

 zheileifumianqingxuhuiyizhiweiraozheni，shiniyuelaiyuehusiluanxiang，chuyubeidongwunai，zheileikuanrongdaduyeranglingyifangyuelaiyuegengweidecunjinchi，gengweibuzaiyinidetihui。

 erweiyikeyiwanbidefangfa，bianshixianzinuan!bubibeilingyifangyizhidaizhezou，bubiquhelixinglingyifangdelengbaoligerenxingwei，gengbubiyiweidexianglingyifangrangbu，neiyangzongshishitagengweitandewuyan。

eryaoxiangzinuan，jiuxuyaoniuquxinlizhuangtai，bubibuzixin，gengbubirangzishenshenxianlengbaolidejiaolv。

buguanlingyifangganshenme，nidouxuyaobaozhengbuzaiyi，gaichidian，gaihehe，youshiqingbiewangneixinge!

 tabuyuenibianxunzhaozishendejingcaifencheng，gongzuozhongyeba，xihaoyehao，naizhishichupenggengchusedeyixingpengyouyeba，buxubazijifangdaoyigechuyubeidongdebuweishang。

 danglingyifangfajue，zishendelengbaolichediduinizaobuleyiqieweihaisunhai，naizhinihuodegengweijingcaifenchengdeqingkuangxia，tafandaohuijinghuang，zhujiandanxinqueshicongcishiquleni，neishizhudaoquandangranhuifanhuinideshenshang。

第三招：抬起尺标，展示道德底线

yingduilengbaoli，rangbujiuhaoxiangyibazishenqinzidishangqudexiaodaoyiyang，renqilaisunhaizishen。

 yinci yingduilengbaoli，budanbubirangbu，yeyao“lianhexingdong”，gaozhilingyifangnidedaodedixianzainaer!tadangranhuigaoqingchujiujinggaizenyanglaiaizheni。

 jiabaolihunxuyaoshenmezhengju？zaixianglingyifangshuomingnidedaodedixianshi，bukeyiranglingyifangkandechunidexintai，zuihaoyiyizhongyouxianzizaidefangfayulingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，niyuefabaochiweixiao，dandingcongrong，yuefahuiranglingyifangjiaolvbuan。