婚后冷战怎么办？其实家庭冷暴力一直在你的身边

 jiatinglengbaolizuipubiandefangshi——buzhengquede“shouhou”jinjinlingyizhongfangshide“jiatinglengbaoli”。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？jiatinglengbaoli，yijingcuihuinidejiazhong——fumude“jiatinglengbaoli”cuihuidezeshixiaohaideyisheng。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

huijuejiatinglengbaoli，fumugaizenmezuo？——mingquefangshi ，daobiebuzhengquedeshouhou

 lengbaolishishenmeyisi？xuduo gongzuozhongjianxindeyitiandefumu，fanhuijiali，yingduixiaohaidouyanfan，meiyoubanfaxixindequjiaoyuxiaohai，henbunengtangzaishafashangwanzheshoujishang，shuazhexinlangweibo。suihourangxiaohaiduziyirenyigerenzaipangbianzuohaozijideshier，biaocengshangshipeizhewoxiaohai，zaixiaohaideshenpang，shishishangshizaiyingduixiaohai，jinxingshuobailede“shouhou”。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

 fumudoushimaiyuan，weihezishenbenlaimeiridouhuixiaohaideshenpang，xiaohaiquebuxiangtarenjiadexiaohaideneimacongming，neimatinghua，ganjueduixiaohaihualehenduodeshijian、henduodeqiancai，yemeiyouzaixiaohaideshenshangjiandao“liangdian”，kanqilaiyizhipeizaishenbian，quanshihualehenduoxiamangdeshijian。

 ruguonibijiaomang，huoshizaoyiyanfandeqingkuangxia，xiaohaizhaohuanni，nijianghuijiufuyansaizeduixiaohai，naizhijiumeilixiaohai，rangxiaohaizishenzaiyipangdaizhe。

 zaiqinzijiaoyuzhong，xiaohaizhangqixingzaiyige“lengmolian”dejiatingfenweizhongshengzhangfayu，feichangrongyidaozhixiaohaixinggeneixiang，buyuanyihetarengoutongjiaoliu、bukenjiangchuxinlihua，xiaohaibukeyiyouyigeyouliangshufudejiatingfenwei，xiaohaiyehuizaierrumuranzhongyuelaiyueduibierenyelengdan，bulixiaohaideshentijiankang。

一、家庭冷暴力最普遍的方式

1、父母欠缺细心，对小孩冷淡

 tashizuichangchanshengzaijialidezhuangkuang，yibanquanshijiazhanggongzuoyitianbijiaomang，fanhuijialiduixiaohaiyuelaiyuelengdan，youshizaijialichenjinzaizishendeshierzhong，huoshiyouyushierguoduo，yanfan，jibiantingjianlexiaohaixiangyaoni，keshiyinweizishenhenlei，doumeiyouchongzudeshijianquyongxindequjiaoyuhaizi。

2、对小孩冷暴力

 changchangfumuzaixiaohaifancuowuzhihou，fumudoushihenshengqi，ganjuexiaohaitaiwanpile，yaojihaiziyidiansediaokanyixia，xiaohaizaizhaohuannishi，jiuganjuelilexiaohaimashanghuirangxiaohaiganjueneijianshierzaoyiguoqu，yongneiyangdefangfawangturangxiaohaiganshoudaozishendebuzhengque，yibiaochufa。

3、表层陪小孩玩乐，却不耐烦

 lengbaolishishenmeyisi？xuduo fumudouganjue，wojilexiaohaichongzudeshijian，meiridoupeixiaohaizaiwanle，xuduo babamamajiaoyuhaizideqingkuangxia，doushichuzaizheileiqingkuang，biaocengshangshizaipeixiaohai，keshiqueshoushanglingwaiyezuozhebiededeshier，zheileishouhoushijishangjiushishuozaiyingduixiaohai。

 zaihaizidechengzhangquanguochengzhong，fumushizuizhongyaodeyibufen，xiaohaiquanshibijiaominganyoumingande，babamamaduixiaohaidesuozuodexingwei，duixiaohaideyuyan，doushiweihaizhexiaohaideshentijiankang，duixiaohaijibunengyong“baoli”，lingwaiyebunengyong“jiatinglengbaoli”。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

二、家庭冷暴力，已经催毁你的家中

 youdefumuyongjiatinglengbaolilaikandaixiaohai，ganjuetashiduixiaohaideyizhongshidechufa，meiyouyongchuantongshide“baoda”debaolifangshi，zhishiyonglengmojihaiziyizhongjingshenbaoli，ganjueneiyangyemeiyoushanghaidaoxiaohaideroushen，yebuhuirangxiaohaijuededaotongteng，quebuzhidao，jiatinglengbaolibizhenshide“baoda”gengweidejubeipohuaili。

 xiaotianshiyigeqisuidexiaohai，zixiaojiuhenwanpi，xiaotiandemuqinyigejixingzideren，xingzifeichangkuangzao，yizhiwuyuanwugujiuhouxiaohai，yaoshixiaotianyifancuowu，yiwanpijiuduixiaotiangaoshengmanma，meimeipengdaozheiyizhuangkuang，xiaotiandefuqinmashanghuizaipangbiangaozhixiaotiandemuqin，gaozhitajiaoyuxiaohaibunengyongma。

 lijingfuqindeyifanjiedu，zongsuanxiaotiandemamababaxiaohaiyibugaoshenghouma，zhishiduixiaohaiyuelaiyuelengdan，juedeyibuduixiaohaineimekuangzao，jiushishuohaodejiaoyu。

 keshixiaohaidexingqingqueyuelaiyueguaiyi，yuelaiyuebuyuanyihefumuzaixiangyuanxianyiyanghefumujijiqujiaoxin，benlaiwanpidexiaohai，yeshiqu“meili”。

 zaiyuanxiandechuantongjiaoyuzhong，xuduo fumuzhenduixiaohaifancuowu，jiuduixiaohaihou，danxianrujin，shiqidezhuanbian，lejieduixiaohaixuanyongbaolibushiduide，zhishiyongle“jiatinglengbaoli”，keshiyoushijiatinglengbaoli，querangxiaohaiganshoudaogengweibaolidejiaoyufangshi，jihaizigengdadesunhai。

1、信心挫败

 xuduo fumuchangchangyizishengongzuozhongmangweituoci，huijuexiaohaimingquetichudeguidingshouhoudeguiding，zhangqixingchulai，huirangxiaohaijuededaobushangbabamamaduixiaohaideguanzhu。

 ganjuefumuhulveleduizishendeai，juedebushangbabamamaduizishendeai，jinerqianquexinxin，juedeshizijizuodebuzuhao，fumucaihuineiyangkandaizishen。

2、给孩子导致心态病

 zhangqixingduixiaohaijiatinglengbaolihuirangxiaohaidexingqingyuelaiyuebijiaomingan，xingqingyuelaiyueneixiang，rangxiaohaideneixinzaierrumuranfashenglegenggai。

 zhujiandeduifumubuguanzhu，duishenpangdequanbushierquanshiyifuyujiwuguandemoyang，zhangqixingbiezhubuyuanyihewaibugoutongjiaoliu，feichangrongyirangxiaohaidelexintaibing，feichangrongyideleyouyuzheng、jiaolvtongkuzhengdeng。

 xianrujinyishizhuxingbiaozhunyuelaiyuehaola，danzhenduixiaohailaijiang，yiweidekaolvxiaohaihuaxuewuzhiyaoqiuhulvexiaohaijingshenshizhishangdeyaoqiu，huirangxiaohaiyuelaiyuequefaanquangan。

 jiaruduixiaohaiguoduodejiatinglengbaoli，neimaxiaohaidexinshenjiangbukeyihuodeshenxinjiankangdechengcai，zaitamenzhangdayihou，tamenmashanghuifajuezaishenghuozhong、hetarenjiaowangshangmianyoutingdadeweihai。

zuoweifumu，zhenduijiaoyuxiaohaigengyingdangxuehaozaixiaohaifancuowuhou，ruhequjiaoyuxiaohai，ruhejujue“jiatinglengbaoli”。

三、回绝家庭冷暴力，父母该怎么做？

 xiaohaizaichengzhangjieduanzhong，zuoweixiaohaidebenxing，wanpishixiaohaideshizhi，zhenduifancuowu，yeshiwukebimiande。yincifumuyingduixiaohaifancuowu，yingdangzuixianxuehaofangpingxintai，baxiaohaizuoweishizishendeershi，ruguoshizishenzuocuoshi，yingdangruhequchuli，xiabian，rangwomenyiqikanyixiazuoweifumu，yinggaizenmezuo！

1、高品质的守候

 jiarujiaoyuhaizijiuyidingyaogaopinzhideshouhou，yaobushijiejinquanlideshouhouzhishisanxineryi，huirangxiaohaixiaofangnidegerenxingwei，rangxiaohaiyeyuelaiyuezuoshiqingsanxineryi。

2、学好接纳小孩的不正确

 dangxiaohaifancuowuhou，zaijiaoyuxiaohaidelingwai，xiaohailejiebuzhengqueshi，yaolijidekuanrongxiaohai，bunengyong“jiatinglengbaoli”quchengfahaizi，neiyangjiunengrangxiaohaiganshoudaozishenfancuowu，yaoshilejiezaiqizhongdebuzhengque，lijijiuzhenghefumuzhiqianjiuxing。

 hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？jiaoyuxiaohaiyeshiyimendaxuewen，qiadangdeyingduixiaohaibuzhengque，bubirang“shouhou”bianweijiatinglengbaoli，jihaizichanshenggengdadesunhai！