什么是冷暴力？如何化解婚姻中的家庭冷暴力

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hunyinshenghuoli，jiejuejiatinglengbaolidehaoduogefangfa，niqingchuma？

1：找到家庭冷暴力的缘故

 zheigeshiwubidele，buguanshishenmeyuanyin，yaoxiangchulizuixianjiushishuoyaozhaodaoyuangucainenggou duizhengzhiliao，jiatinglengbaolishibicichangyouyiwude，kenengshibujingyizhongdeyijuhuahuoyigegerenxingweishanglaidaolingyifang，yekenengshiduilingyifangdeguanzhuqianque，zheidoukenengshijiatinglengbaolideyuangu，zhaodaobingchulidiao，jianxindajiahuilijiatinglengbaoliyuezouyueyuan。shenmeshilengbaoli？lengbaolihunyindeyuanyinyounaxie？

2：用短消息和纸条

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3：小孩

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4：向另一方忍让

 lengbaolidefufu，shijishangxuduo qingkuangxiazaoyihouhuile，ganjuebuyinggaineiyanglengbaoli，xianghehao，keshimobukaiqingmian，guoyibuqujijitaojinhu，yincijiuxianghusichengzhe，zheigeshihouyaoshijilingyifangyigeshidudelouti，ninengfajuelingyifangyidingshijiupoxialvde。

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