婚后冷战，婚姻中遇到冷暴力的正确做法是……

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？haijideqianbujiucongzaiwangshangjiandaoguoyijuhua，“wanghouyusheng，guduyishenghaibingbushizuibujinrenyideshi，zuibujinrenyideshihejinijimoderenxiangbandaolao。”zheijuhuatingqilaizhenshirangrenshiluo。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 hunyinshenghuobenlaishirang2geaidaojizhiderenlaidaoyiqi，qinsehexie，xiangjingrubindeguoyisheng。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？keshizaiyouyanjiangcudeshirili，bujingyijianliangxinjiuyuelaiyueyuanle。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？yanzhongzaoyiyouyuanwufen。zheijiushihunyinshenghuozhongdejiatinglengbaoli，feichangzhisideyibakanbudaodeliren。

 zhihushangyouwangminjinxinghunyinlengbaolidebiaodaxingshiheshanghaidetantao，wangminmenborandanu，lijuchudefuqijiangezhonggeyanghuayangjiatinglengbaoli，kandeneixinrutongzhuiluoleyigebingku。aizheniyouduojiqing，lengniyejiuyouduochaojibiantai。

 youdewangminshuo，zishendezhangfuhuijialejiuhuaizheshoujishangzaibuyishafakaiyan“geyoutan”，chiguofanbawanyituizaicitanzuo，meiyouyuyandegoutongjiaoliu，meiyoushentidechupeng，naizhiyemeiyoumuguangdechupeng，zhenshishilingyifangweiqiti。

 zuiyaorenmingdeshi，huidaojiadexiaobiaoqingbisaomuhaiyoushang，yifuxinbuganbukendemoyang。liangrenzhongjianmeiyouyidiandiandewennuan，meiyouguanzhuhetiexin，youshihouneileilengdanjinijuedeshenpangdunzhedebingbushiairen，shigelaibaochoudechouren。niyaobukeyibataganzou，zhiyoubabiequheyuanfenyanmaixinli。

 pengyouxiaominyiqianjiubangwoxushuguotazhangfudejiatinglengbaoli，jiushishuobulicaini，gezhonggeyangkanbushangdemuguang，xiaobiaoqingheyudiao，neizishinengrangnijiangzishendingjintuli。xiaominmeirixiabanleyaoqujiexiaohai，huidaojiadahoudajiaozhaohuxiaohaixianzao，zuozuoye，zishenyitoucharucantingchufang，pengzhazhengchao，wancanshangcaile，zhangfumantengtengdigandaocanzhuo，yaobuxunchixiaohaichifanmeiyouchixiang，yaobuyanxianbingcusuandetiaofeijianshou，xiaomindangzhongxiaohaidemian，butaihaohetachao，zhinengyiduziqiyongcan。

 youshiqueshishizaikanbuxiaqu，jiuduitajiju，xiayiciniquzhufanba，woshenmeyebutiao，guangchijiufeichanggaoxingle。keshilaogongbujietadehuacha，biqiangsishe，danzhoushizuichundoupiedaohoucaoyale。

 neiyangdeshiriyiguo2nian，xiaomindahuzishenqianshizaolenaxienie，caiyitazhangfushilaifuchoude，jishuzhuanyetianmafanhu。taganjuezishendexintaijijiangbengkuile，yishizhuxingyuanbenjiuzaoyihaohaodehuozhele，zheiyichengzuozhangfuderenquezaizhishenshiwai，nidexinqinhenulizaitayanzhong，ruliangbaikaishuibanmeiyouwendunaxiemeiyouyiyi。niyongyuanbuzhidaotadecezhongdianzainaer，tajiujingzaiyixienaxie？lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 youjuhuashuodedui，buzaihuniderenpanikeyideguoduo，zhenzhengainiderenyexurangnidebuzu。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？zhenqingjiuburongyineimalengdan，neimafeijinxinji，zhenzhenzhengainiderenzenmeshedenishangxin。hunyinshenghuolipengdaojiatinglengbaoli，renmenbubijizhenanguo，xianzuoxialairenzhensikaoyixiayuangu，zhaodaoyixiefangfancuoshi。

 doushuonanrenlaizihuohua，nvxinglaiyuanyutianwangxing。2gebuyiyangxingqiuderenmen，bidingyouhemuxiangchudefangshi heduice，renmenhebulejieyixiazheizhongxiaoqiaomen。

千万别自身舍弃

 youdenvxingpengdaohunyinshenghuozhongdejiatinglengbaolizhihou，mianbuleyuantianyouren，sheqiziwochengzhang，yitiandaowanchoumeibuzhan，basixudoufangdaoruhequyuelingyifang，beilingyifangdexintaiqianzhezou，neibanshijishangshizhongdouzouchubulainagexuanwo。bibushangxuehuifangqi，qufengshuozishendexinli。nenggouzuolianxiyujia，yangyixiehuacaozhiwu，zuoyixieleisishizixiudewupinxiaomoshiguang，nianshuxuexipeixunyeshifeichanghaodetiaoxuan，qianwanbiebashijianhehuolidoufangdaoxinfanyiluanshang，neibanzongshirangshieryulaiyuzao。

积极主动试着改进

 hunyinshenghuolichuxianjiatinglengbaoli，yidingshiliangrendegoutongjiaoliuchulenanti，yidingyaojijizhudongshizheyouxiaogoutongfangfa。suyushuo，fanraozhichuyeyaoxinyaoyi。youshihouqueshibuqingchulingyifangruhexiangde，pengdaoleshenmewenti，nenggouxunzhaobicidepenyoulaibangzhudatanlingyifangdexinji，suihouduizhengzhiliao，baxinsuokaiqi，quanbunantijiudedaojiejuele。

千万别自暴自弃

 youdefufupengdaojiatinglengbaolinantihou，bicifangfodouhuijieliweihubaoyangzishendezizunheshuobailedeqingmian，sheiyebuyuandixiatou，bingqiehaiminglianlichengneng。nibushibuliwoma，haoya，yinweiwoburongyijinishushi，guoduansheiyemeilisheineicaiyouxian。

 zhangciyiwang，zheileijiatinglengbaoliduirendesunhaishitingdade。yixuelinchuangyanjiushuoming，dangrendeqingxuzhangqixingchuzaiyizhongbukaixinqingkuangxia，shentidemianyinenglihuibuduanjiangdi，jinerzaocheng bingzhengchengxuerru。

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？youcikejian，huanshiyaoweichijijidexintai，bajiatinglengbaolidangzuotigaofuqiguanxideyidaozuai，jijizhudongxunzhaofangfachaoyueyiwang，jiushishuotianmeihexingfukuaile。jiaruxiaochendenghou，buzaihudexintai，neimajieguozongshiyulaiyubujinrenyi。