冷暴力是什么意思？妻子总是对丈夫冷暴力怎么办

 hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？hunyinshenghuozhongzuikongbudenanshengjiushishuonijiangquanbuqingchunnianshaodejiqingdouhuitadeshenshangxiaoshidaijin，zhongjiuquekanbushangzhediaoxiedeni，nidehaotabikoubuyan，nidekuyeshizhiruowangwen。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？

一，我不会嫌你青少年穷，你可以不嫌我老来丑吗？

 nvxingnengbaozhengde，nanshengbuyidingnengbaozheng。renmenqiyewoyigerenyigenvshi，jianghuigenyixingpengyouxiangchujiule，wokandaodequanshinanshengrenxingdeyoudian，hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？quanshitamendenvpengyouhelaopokanbujiandemimi。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？

 xiuxirizaigezhonggeyangshengsechangdilixiuxianyule，yebugui，weixinliliaozhenvhai，dianhuaneitouhaizhuangqiangzuoshidiyingduiqinglvchaqin，pengyougaosuwotacaisuanshihaolaogong，zuishaotameiyouxintaichugui，meiyouweidisanzheliyi，pingchangzhuangbanchengyigehaolaogonghehaobabademoyangshiduihunyinshenghuodezhongshi。

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 woquandaopengyou：“nidelaoposhigehaolaopo，nibuyaozuobaoqiantadeshier，tabuxianqiniqingshaonianqiong，nibuyinggaixiantalaolaichou。”pengyoushuoconglaimeiyouxiangguoliyi，keshiyixieshiertabuqingchujiukekeqiqi，yexuzheizhongshiertadelaoposhizhongbuqingchu。

 rujinwaiyudechengbenfeitaidi，dajiadouhuaizhexincunjiaoxing，yaoshiairenbuqingchujiuwuxujieshouxianshi，jibianbeifajuehou，nanshengyehuiweihubaoyangzijishuo：“wozhishihetawanxia，renmenmeiyouganqingde。”yinciwodoushezhanqunru，weinvxingshenzhangzhengyi，changshiquanshuotamendegerenxingwei，keshitamenquejingxiangquxiaowoxiabanlejiuhuijiale，meiyouyeshenghuowenhua，burongyixiangshourensheng，chaoxiaowoguodeshiqishisuilaotaitaideyishizhuxing，meishenmereqing。

 heshipaojiubayechang、chiyexiao、gechang、xisangnabianchenglegaoduanyishizhuxingdeguifan？nandaoshuozheijiushishuobailedereqingma？woyebuzhidaocongheshigangkaishi，shizheiyishiqishengbingle？huanshidajiashengbingle？shishifeifeiyishisuoyoudiandaoshifei。nanshengxinzhongzhonglixianghuadehunyinshenghuoqingkuangjiushishuojiazhongwuxinghongqiyilibudao，waibiancaiqipiaopiao，ernvxingdekerongrendixiadao：“rongxunirentiwaiyuhaijidedaitao，xintaichuguiwubihuijiale”。

二，媳妇不穿着打扮只了解照料小孩这件事情沒有变为传宗接代的贡献，反倒变成了他外遇的原因。

 hangzhoushiyixiaohuohua400kuaipiaochangshibeizhua，jutajiaodai，zishenzaoyiwanhunbingqieyongyouxiaohai。duiyuzenmehuineimezuo，tadehuiyingzelingrenherenchengmujieshe：“laopomeiribuchuanzhedaban，yixinzhijinjinweiraozhexiaohaizi。”

 haozai，fabiaopinglunyoujuhuashuodedui——nixifuerruguochuanzhedaban，jiumeinishashile，haibuzhidaoaixi。taweichangbuyuanmeiruotianxian，buyuanqingchunnianshaoyiran，danyandixia，tapobudeyiqushiyanhaolaopoderenwujiaose、shiyanhaomuqinderenwujiaose。wojuede，dayuezheijiushizuikongbudenanshengleba。

 wokanleyibujiao《shenyedeqipalianaitujian》dedianshilianxuju，nanshangsizaishuxiayanqian，haobuchiyididiaokanlaopo，erqieyouhuoshuxiazuotadelianren。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？

 ertadediaokanzhenshihuisanguan，tashuo：“shenyeqilaijiandaomuruweinaidelaopo，deshenshangzaoyimeileyidianernvrenqizhi。”hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？zheifanhuihuajiarushitadelaopotingjiangaiduomedeshiluo，zishenyangyuxiaohaidejianxinmeiyouhuodelaogongdeguanhuai，fandaozaoshoulaogongdezhizeshenzhiwaiyu，neiyangdeshierzairenmenshenpangyeyouxuduo 。

 youyigenvgukegenwotidaotabuxingdehunyin：“nilejiezhuajianshizhongnaxiedejuedema？wodeqianfuyizhewojitamenmaideneiyikugenyigeyizheqingqushuiyidenvxingtangzairenmendehunchuangshangbian，renmenzhengzhishi，tasihaomeiyouliuqingmiandedangzhongdisanzhedemianlaiyonghendudeyuyanlaijingongwo，bizhaowodeshenxingherongyan，xianqiwochanhouhoufubushangderenshenxianshitaexinxiangtu，songchixiachuidejifushitameishenmereqing，daiwashihuitoutulianshitaxinglengtanzheileideyuju。

 xiaohaishengchulaiyihou，wojianggongzuozhongyecile，dianjizhexiaohaizishendaicaianxin，tashuohuihaohaodizhaoliaorenmen，diaozhuantoujiuheqiyedexiaonvhaigouyinzaiyiqi。”gukegaosuwo：“qianwanbiexiangxinnanrenshuodenaxiewoyangniazheileiguihualianpian，beiyangzhedangranbixujieshouxianshide，fuchudaijiajiushishuoliangbinbanbaishibeijueqingpaoxia，

wofeichangxiaiyijuhua：”shixiayulaiyuduonvshidoubujiehunle，queyeyounanshikongxiangqugejiatingbaomuhuijiale。”

三，我认为，的婚姻，是精神实质上的门不当户不对。是心存感谢，相互理解，而且在心态状态和工作上保持奋勇向前的发展。

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