婚姻中遇到家庭冷暴力，夫妻争吵时如何正确处理

 jiatinglengbaolidedingyishishenme？xuduolianrenwangwangmeiyouxiuchengzhengguo，shiyouyubansuizheshijiandeliushi，reqingdejiandi，yibuyounaixinkandaiqingganzhongdefenqihezhengzhi，zuizhongbaqingmiandoukanbiqinggangengguanjian。yudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？lengbaolishishenmeyisi？

 yinciqinggandeganliezaiyidiandiankuosan，beixintaicaokongderen，jiatinglengbaolidedingyishishenme？benlaienaideliangrenbianchenglehuihuaiqinggandeyuanxiong。zhenduizhengchaolaijiang，kongbushijishangbingbushizhengchaozishen，zhishizhengchaohoudejiejuefangshi 。yudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？lengbaolishishenmeyisi？

 qingshanggaodenvrenlejienanshengchenmoguayan，mingbaitingdechuhuawaizhiyi，xiaojiezhengchaodeyuangu，bazhengchaobianweituidongqinggandehaoshier，zhongjiuxiaochaoyiqingyangxing，changyandaoyuechaoyuexiangai。

 danbennvrenquehuibazhengchaodangzuozhanshi，benlailejieneimezuobutaihao，kejiushishuonanyanzheiyikouqi，renbushangnanshengduizishendebuzaiyi，yincihuodedejieguotongchangjiaoweiyiqingganbuchenggongjieshu。

 suoyourendejiejuefangshi buyiyang，huodedejieguodangranbuyiyang，yincizhengchaohoudeqiadangzuofa，congmingdenvrendoudong，bennvrenyingyaofanzhelai。

吵后要寻找缘故完全彻底消除，防止下一次犯一样的不正确

 zhengchaodeyuanguqianwanzhong，xuanxiechuqudexintaidaxiaobuyi，meiyicidezhengchao，huoxujiushishuojileishurideyuanhen，chulaiyongcannanshengyibuqiannideshou，yibupeizhenichuqukandianyingyouhuizheixie，yidiandiandesuoshi，duijichengleyigengendaohuoxian。

 zongsuanyouyitian，youyuyidiandianxiaoshi，nirenbunengrendedanaoyichang，zheirangnanshenghenyitouwushui，faxielenuhuohou，zuizhongyaodeyidianjiuzaizheili，congmingdenvrenhuibaquanbunantishuochulai，rangnanshenglejieyuangu，shitazhihoujiuzheng，bukeyizaicifasheng。

erbennvrenjinjin yiweidenao，quandoubuyongshuo，zongshirangnanshengganjuenijiushiyigejiaozongdeqianjindaxiaojie。

争吵不冷暴力，从不提提出分手

 jiatinglengbaolidedingyishishenme？chaonaoshengmanbujianglishi，nanshenghuimingquetichulizhilizhi，zheibenlaishichuziyuhaoxin，kezaibennvrenlaikan，zheihaowuyiwenshidianledingshizhadan，juedenanshengbuxihuantale，nuhuomaizanglelixing，tichufenshoukuiyangmianerchu，tashizuibulixingdeyizhonggerenxingwei。

 congmingdenvrenlejieqinggandebukeyiyizhilengzhe，yegaoqingchurujinlianggerendouhuiqitou，yincitahuizaizuishaodeshijianpingfuxinqing，henanshengtanchengbugongdetanyifan，qingchulianggerendejiedi，rangqingganxiufuruchujian。yudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？lengbaolishishenmeyisi？

 zhengchaoqiewulengbaoli，youguoduodeqingganlengzhelengzhejiusankai，jinyinlengbaolishijiatinglengbaolideyizhongfangfa，huibijiaoyanzhonghaofeiqingyi，bayigexiaoshierbianchengledafenqi。

以往的事就所有化为乌有，不提过去

 tiguoqushinvxingdechangjianfangshi，nanshengretafahuo，dianjizhedianjizhemashanghuibayiqianchenbaizhimalandaogudesuoshifanchu，yicicidezeguai，zheirangnanshengshifenshenxinpibei，naizhituokuanchuqupoguanposhuaidesixu。

 nizhijizhunanshengdebutaihao，bukendianjizhetadehao，wuyuanwugudejiaduoleyixiemeiyongdefenqi，rangnitianqi，jinanshengtianmafan，youweihaileqinggan，hebini？

 yinercongmingdenvrenhuixianchangzhengchaoxianchangchuli，jueduibuhuibafenqiyiliuxiazaijianglai，yebuhuibayiwangdeshierlachuquzaicishuo，neiyangdezhengchao，qingganzongshifeichanghao，liangrendejiaowangyegengxianyouxianzizai。

 liangrenzaiwuhuabushuoderichangshenghuo，jianyibuyiyangchulifangfabuyiyang，mashanghuizhengchao。zaiyidingshuipingshangnenggou fanyingchu，zhengchaoshilaiyuanyuzaiyi，yincizhengchaobingbukongbu。

 kongbudeshichaowanjiayigerenbuyongshuo，lingyigerenbutan，meiyoushijixingdechuli，zheijiushijizhihoumaixialebuzhadan，youqishilixingdenvxing，huimeishimeikebeixintaishangxia，buwenbuwendexintai，citenglingyifangdexin。

 worenwei，nvxingmeiyoushaheconghuizhifen，zhinengduiqinggandechihejingzhibie，bennvrenduiqinggantaichi，congmingdenvrenduiqingganyoucongmingdeyunyingzhifa。

 yudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？wulunnishishahuanshiconghui，zhaoduijiejuefangshi ，rangzhengchaoyuelaiyuegengyouyiyi，lajinxianghudexin，tigaoqingyicaisuanshishide。