面对冷暴力婚姻，聪明的女人懂得这么做

 yinweijiatingbaolilihungaizenmechuli？qinggandeshisheiyeshuojinzhi，erzaizheilizaiqizhongyizhiyushanggezhonggeyangdejinjizhuangkuang，qiadangdeyingduifangshishilvqinglailongqumai，zhaodaozhiguanzhongyaodewentilaichuli，caihuijinliangdefangzhichuxiandadeweiji。shenmeshilengbaoli？zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao？

 keshiyouhenduorenzongshibizheyanjingzhuanglongzuoya，bukenkandaochuxianliefengdeganqing，jinjin yiweidechenjinzaixiangxiangzhongdeenaibaitouxielao，yinweijiatingbaolilihungaizenmechuli？jieguoliziquanlanle，zhiliuwaiqiangzhonggandewaizai。shenmeshilengbaoli？zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao？

 nvxingdeshaxianglaijiuzaizheili，ziyiweishichixuderenrang，jiejinquanlidenuli，keyihuandenanshengdehehaoruchu，quebuzhidaonanshengzongshigengjiaqiaobuqineiyangdeni，youdejinjin nongyudeqijue。

 youqishizaihunyinshenghuozhong，qinggangengweijingbuzhufanfutuiqiao，zuoweinvxingjiugaicongrongdandingdekandainanshengdechudeyixiliezhuanbian，buranzongshirangguanlianwanquanebian，yincizaiyingduizhangfudejiatinglengbaoli，qingshanggaodenvrenburongyiyirenzairen，zhishihuineiyangzuo。

最先会静下来，找到男生家庭冷暴力身后的缘故

 gerenxingweiweirenchushidoushiyouyidingdegenju，burongyiyouhaowuzhengzhaoyixiacongjiqingbianweilengdan，zhiyouxunzhaozaiqizhongdezhongyao，aihuirangxiankuangyoubianhuadejianghui。

 xuduo bennvrenzhidianjizhezhangfuzennengneimedaita，chenjinzaishifouyongyouhunhouchugui，yaoxiangliyidexiangfazhong，bashierxiangdeyaoduofanzajiuhuiyouduofanza，yincigangkaishidachaodanaonanxiu，kandaozhangfujiuxiangqianrupaozhangyiyangdekongxizhiyikonggao，rangnanshenggengyanjuan。

 ercongmingdenvrenyuefazheileishikeyuehuilizhixia，huiwangjinqichanshengdeshier，xunzhaoquanbudaozhizheileijushideyuangu，yincitiqianzhunbeiwentuole，mashanghuizhaoshuaigexianliao，congtakouzhongguanchachushiqing，yijukeguanshishizaijuecezenmechuli。

把活力放到工作中和小孩的身上

 nanshengduinizhixingjiatinglengbaoli，queyoumeiyoumingquetichuliyi，zheishihoudenibuyongqudijiandekenqiu，basuoyoudezhuanzhulifangdaonanshengdeshenshang，nikeyilejie，zainanshengyanjuannideqingkuangxia，niyizhizainianzhezhuizheta，fanerhuirangnanshenggengweiyouchiwukong，banimeidanghuishi。

 yinweijiatingbaolilihungaizenmechuli？congmingdenvrenfangzhizheiyidian，yinertaburongyirangzishenchuzaiyigebuhaodeyingxiangli，zhishibahuolifangdaogongzuozhonghexiaohaishangbian，rangzishenyoudaliangdezichanhezixin，zaihunyinshenghuoliyububaizhidi，jiusuanshinanxingmingquetichuliyi，tayehuiyuecuoyueyong。shenmeshilengbaoli？zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao

 ruguoniyongyouchongzudezixinhenanshengjiaojiaoxiao，nanshengcaihuiduijinigulv，haipaguofen，zheijiushirenyaoshiqiangjingqilai，gaiyoudedoushiyou。

会更善待自己

 ai，huilingrenyigerennuliyiqie，yaoshilingyifangkeyigaoxingxingfukuaile，eryingduinanshengdebuxihuanshichuchuqudejiatinglengbaoli，nvxingjiugaibaaiquhuilaifangdaozishendedeshenshang，haohaodideshandaiziji，rangzishenhuodezidegaoxingcaisuanshizhongzhongzhizhong。

 yixienvxingbuyuansangshizhangfudechongni，mashanghuibazijifangdaohendideyingxianglilaidadongnanshengbingliangdexinli，wanliunanrendexin，bianchenglebeinanrenkanbuqidetiangou。

 kecongmingdenvrenhuitiaoxuanshandaiziji，yonggezhonggeyangfangshi qutigaozijideneihan，zhaoyifenhaoegongzuozhongziligengsheng，buyikaonansheng，rangnanshengkandaotadegenggaijijizhonggui，ruguonanshengjianchibajiatinglengbaolishichujiujing，neimajiusuiyuanfen。

 bansuizhewuhuabushuo，hunyinshenghuohuimairuyiciyouyicidedongdangbuan，tiaoxuanzenyangjiejuehechulijiukannvrendexuanze。aixizheiyiduandelaibuyidehunyinshenghuo，huixiangfangshefaquchulijiatinglengbaolidezhijieyuanyin，ruguofajueyuangushinanjieshi，nvxingjiuxuyaotiaoxuanyouyiyuzishendeyimian。

 burongyiyibiannanshengsheqiyouzhedeyiqie，yebuhuirangzishenhuodepugongyoukeling，zhishiwanqiangdelingnanshenggandong，lizhiderangnanshengsunhaibushang。

 yinweijiatingbaolilihungaizenmechuli？dangdajiadehunyinshenghuoqueshibeijiatinglengbaolicuihuideqianchuangbaikong，bibushangxuanzefangshoumanzuzishen，weiyouniyuelaiyuechongzudechuse，buguanrangnanshenghehaoruchuxincunhouhuimoji，huanshizhaoyigeainidenanrenwanhun，doubingbingbushinanti。