冷战是什么意思？婚姻中走向失败是从冷战开始

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？“renmenxianfenbielizhiyixia”，zheihuoxushihenpingshideyijuhua，danzaihunyinshenghuozhizhongyexushiyichanglengbaolidekaishi。zaizheiciwuyindezhanshizhong，haoxiangsheixianjianghuajiubianchengleshibaizhe，zaibicidejianmojiaofengzhizhong，zuihoutongguiyujin。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？tongyigewuyan，tianjingdekongqizhong，qinmiwujiandeliangrenquezaishituyizhilingyifang，qingganbianweidouzheng，meiyouxiaoyandoumeiyoumantiandebianpaosheng，youxieshierzhexintaidehuxianglache，zongsuanyuelaiyueshanghenleileiyeyaoyangqitoubu，jiangchuzuizhonggezouyifangdejuebie。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？

“你压根搞不懂我在想哪些”

 zaifuqizhengchaozhizhong，zheihuachuxiandepinlvhengao，zheidayueshiliangneixinyuelaiyueyuandeyuzhao。dangyouyanjiangcuzhujianrangbenlaidexingyingbulimenglechen，guoqudewuhuabutanbianchenghuxiangtuixiezeren，fenqishiyongyutaobide，gongzuoyalishiyongyuxuanxiede。

 gouxiangzhongdemeihaodeshenghuozongsuanhuanshiyongyouliefeng，yincifufubicigangkaishizhengzhi。“tayagengaobudongwojiujingzaiqishenme”huoshishi“tachedidoumeitiwojuedeguo”，daozuizhongbianchengle“wobuyuanyigenshuohuale”。lengbaolikaishile。

谁先说话谁就输掉

 zaiqingganzhongjiangnulihehunyinshenghuozhongjiangshengfu，tongchanghuandedeshixianghujiandesunhai。zaibenlaichunsuidexiangchuzhong，yexuhaikeyixuehuifangxiashenzi，danhunyinshenghuozhongzhangjiuyiwangdefenqileijiquezhujianpeiyangleburangbudexiguanxing。

 huxianggoutongjiaoliudequeshaozongshirangliangrengengweixinfanyiluan。renweishijilexianghulizhideshineikongjian，shishishanglianggerendouhuichizelingyifangdebuzaiyi，caixianglingyifangshibushiyouyihushilezishenxinlideyuanhen，jieguojiushishuobubaoqidaibianchenglewanquandexinhan。

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？lengbaolibianchengjiancezishenzailingyifangxinliyingxianglidewuqizhuangbei，sheixianshuohuasheijiufushu，hunyinshenghuobianchenghuxiangboyidejingjichang，haowuwennuankexun。

人们并不是小孩，何苦争那不必的一口气

 meiyiduanhunyinshenghuodouyinggaishi2gechengrenzhongjiandehuxiangmoheqi，erbushiyongzishendeniantoulaigengxingaizaolingyifang。lengbaolibuyinggaibianweigezizhenzhongdekaishi，zheibushiliangrenronghedechuxin。

 youshijiuyingdangxuehuifangxiazishendexintai，pingjingxialaisisuobicisuozaidebuwei，huanweisikaoyixiayexumeiyouneimajiannan。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？renmenbingbushixiaohai，bunengyonglengbaolilaiheaiduiduxieyi，xiaoqianbicideganqinghejiqing。

neiyangdechulifangfabushiwanshande，zongyaoxuduorenxiandixiatou，bingbushisheixianshuzhishiyibianzheiyiduanqinggandeyunying。

怎样妥善处理冷暴力

 zailengbaolizhizhong，fufulianggerennenggouchubulaisheng，keshixinlideyuanhentongchangnenggougenjushuaipanzishuaipanchuandachulai，erzheizongshigengweishiliaobuji。wangerdeshuoguo“wanhunshixiangxiangjibailelixing”，danhunyinshenghuoyemeifabaituolixing。

 zuixianyifangyaoxuehuifangqizihao，xiangxiangwangrizhongduinidewanbanzhaogu，dangshiderouqingmiyidoubuyingdangbeiyishideyiqierfuzhidongliu。danglingyifangxiandixiatou，haiyaoxuehaoyanzheloutixialai。

 lengbaolihuisunhaiqinggan，danshidelingdanmiaoyaoyiranshiqinggan，yincibubitaiguonaqiao，yebieshuodaodishisheizuizhongdeshibaizhe，jiaodadedayingjiashihunyinshenghuojibailelengbaoli。

 xuduorenyiqianxushuzishenzufuzumulengbaolidexiaogushi，danglianggerenchanshengzhengzhihoumeihuadeqingkuangxia，yeyemashanghuijiangquanbudeshuiguoguantouwaigainiujin，neiyangnainaijiukeyizhangkouheyeyehehao。

 wojuedejiushishuorenmenlixianghuadehunyinshenghuoqingkuangma，keyizailengbaolizhongyirandianjizhehelingyifanghehao，zhongjiusheidechuxindoubingbushibenzheliyiqude，zhibuguoshibushidangdejiejuehuishinantichixuebian。

 dehunyinshizhengchaowaichuhaikeyishundaimaishuiguohuijiaderen，yeyounagezhengchaoyihouyirandianjizherangnixinyongkahaikuanren。zaigongzhuhewangziwanhunyihou，yaoyingduidelingsuiyishizhuxingcaisuanshijiaodadezuai，danjingliguofengchuiyudadeganqing，buyinggaizailengbaolizhongqiechu。

 lengzhanshishenmeyisi？jiuhaoxiang《fumuaiqing》zhongdejiangdefuhelaopoanjie，zhiyouaideziruncaikeyijiangguoqudefengchuiyuda，doubianweilaolaiyihounenggoushaizaitaiyangxiadebaoguiwangri。