面对冷暴力婚姻，夫妻应该如何化解冷暴力

 zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？fuqiguanxilaogu，xianghuzhongshi，xianghuzhijiankuanrong，goutongjiaoliuliji，zongtimubiaoyizhi，weilingyifangkaolvdaodedaliangzheixie，tashisuoyourendouqidaidehunyinshenghuo，keshijitongchangbingbuzheiban，yishizhuxingdejiulegezhonggeyangfenqiyejiezhongerlai，fufufenqi，poxiguanxizheixiewushiwukedezaiweihaizhefuqijiandeqingganlaogu。hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？

 hunyinshenghuozhong，youyizhongjiatingbaolibizhengchaolingrenkongbu，shilingyifangruqiti，buguanniganshenmedoushinimeicunyou，jiatinglengbaoliduifuqiguanxisunhaishijiaodade，zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？youxuduodejiazhongdouyiqianhuoyijingqinshenjinglizhejiatinglengbaoli，zhangqixingdejiatinglengbaolibujinhuiweihaifuqiguanxi，yeshiduijiazhongpingwendaozhihuizhibuqudeweihai，jiatinglengbaolishiduifuqiguanxitizaodehenduotouxian，touxianwanhou，liyijiushishuoshunlichengzhangdeshile，xuduoliyidefufujiushishuoyouyuzhangqixingdejiatinglengbaoli，shibicipobudeyimaixiangliyi。hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？

hunyinshenghuoli，jiejuejiatinglengbaolidehaoduogefangfa，niqingchuma？

1、找到家庭冷暴力的缘故

 zheigeshiwubidele，buguanshishenmeyuanyin，yaoxiangchulizuixianjiushishuoyaozhaodaoyuangucainenggouduizhengzhiliao，jiatinglengbaolishibicichangyouyiwude，kenengshibujingyizhongdeyijuhuahuoyigegerenxingweishanglaidaolingyifang，yekenengshiduilingyifangdeguanzhuqianque，zheidoukenengshijiatinglengbaolideyuangu，zhaodaobingchulidiao，jianxindajiahuilijiatinglengbaoliyuezouyueyuan。

2、用短消息和纸条

 yaoshibingbushizhenxianglihundefufu，douburongyibajiatinglengbaolibuduandekaizhanxialai，youshijinjinxiangjilingyifangyigejingyanjiaoxun，ranglingyifanglejiezishencuozainaerle，yifangxiayicizaicifashengyiyangdebuzhengque，youxierenshilejiedaobuzhengque，keshiguoyibuquxianglingyifangchengrencuowu，zheigeshihoujiukeyigenjuduanxiaoxihuoshizhitiaodefangfaxianglingyifangrenkenidebuzhengque。

 jiaruxiangyaozhidaolingyifangshifoukuanrongleni，nenggouzaizhitiaoshangtiyigexiaoxiaoguiding，liruzaizhitiaoshanggaozhilingyifangyelinixiangchishenme，jiaruyelihuijiajiandaolingyifangkaolvlenideguiding，zheigeshihouxiangqianwenroudejinbaota，yiqiedelengbaolidoushizaizheiliyibaozhongwufawanliu。hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？

3、小孩

 zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？xiaohaishifufubicidexinganbaobei，zailengbaolidefufudouburongyinaxiaohaichuqi，yincizaijiejuefuqilengzhanshang，xiaohaiyoushihuijuyouhenzhongyaodegongluqiaolianggongxiao，liru：xiaohaidouxiaichixuegao，danbukeyiduochi，nenggouzaixiaohaichileyizhihou，dangzhonglingyifangdemianzhuangzuozaijihaiziyizhi，zheishihoulingyifanghaowuyiwenhuibuyuanyide，niyejiunenggouchenjihenhendidezanmeilingyifangyidun；keyirangxiaohaidangdajiazhongjiandedaihuayuan，yiyangdehuayongxiaohaijiaonendexiangshengshuochulai，shijixiaoguohaowuyiwenbingbushiyiyangde。

 keshibixuliuyideshi，zaixiaohaixiaodeshihouzheiyifangshihenheli，keshixiaohaibiandayihoujiubuyaoyongle，ziranneigeshihoudajiagaichaodedouchaole，neiyeyouneimaduosouyaochaoa。

4、向另一方忍让

 lengbaolidefufu，shijishangxuduo qingkuangxiazaoyihouhuile，ganjuebuyinggaineiyanglengbaoli，xianghehao，keshimobukaiqingmian，guoyibuqujijitaojinhu，yincijiuxianghusichengzhe，zheigeshihouyaoshijilingyifangyigeshidudelouti，ninengfajuelingyifangyidingshijiupoxialvde。

 suoyishuorenrangshinenggoudadajianshaofuqilengzhandeshijian，danrenrangnibunengranglingyifangganjuenishiyouyide，neibanzongshiranglingyifangxiayicidecunjinchi，renrangbingbushizhuangkeling，yebushijiuhulvelelingyifangdebuzhengque，renrangjinjinxiangjiangdifuqiguanxidetouxianeryi。

 jieshuyu：yinweiduixianghudegengweizhangwo，zhengzhiyemanmandeduoleqilai，fuqizhijiandezhengzhijiushishuo“woshichuangzhengchaochuangjiaohe”，tashifuqizhijianjiejuezhengzhizuiqiadangdefangshi，zhongjiuzaichaodajiahuanshiyaoyishizhuxingzaiyiqide。

 youdefufumeiyicichanshengyiqiezhengchangdouganjueshilingyifangdecuo，manmandechanshengjiatinglengbaoli，jiejuefuqijiandefenqi，zuizhongyaodeshiyaoxuehaofangxiajiazi，bubiganjuezishenxianchengrencuowuduodiumianzi，qingmianbukeyiranghunhoushenghuogengxingfukuaile，yebukeyirangjiatinglengbaoliwanbi。

 zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？yiduixingfukuailedefufubiranyouyigexianhuishendeneiren，xianhuishendeneirenbeirenmenchengzhiweihunyinshenghuozhongdetianshizhi，nixiangyaoneigetianshizhima？