婚后冷战，夫妻做的这几件事是最伤害感情的

 henduorentongchangzaijielehunyihoubumingbaibawojiyu，jinerrangzishenbenlaiyishizhuxinghenwenxindejiazaoshouhuihuai。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？yaoxiangyiduanhunyinshenghuokeyizoudehenyuan，neimajiubixuliangrenqulijigoutongjiaoliu，zhineng2geneixinyuxindegoutongjiaoliu，caikeyishitamendejiatingyishizhuxingdezhenxingfu。suoyishuohunyinshenghuozhizhongyidingyaoshikeqieji，bukeyizuoxialiezheizhongshier，burannideyibeizidoushiguodeshifenlangbeibukan。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

1、外遇

 womenlejieyiduanhunyinshenghuozuibihuidejiushishuopanbian，tongchangzainitiaoxuanwaiyudeqingkuangxia，jiudaibiaonihennanhuibushangtoule。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？henduorenyizhiyibucuobubucuo，laidaozuizhongfanyingtouxiangyixiacaizhidaodangshishizishenzhimibuhui。danshiquanshijiemeiyoumengpotang，butaikenengzainifancuowuyihou，haijinihuidaoqidiandezishen。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

 zheiyeshiweishenmexuduofufuzaijielehunyihouguobushangyiqiqudeyuangu。youyulingyifangzaitiaoxuanwaiyudeqingkuangxia，zishendelingyibanyedianjizheyongyiyangdefangshiqucuicanneiren，shijianjiulezongshirangliangrenyuelaiyueyuan，zuizhongmaixiangliyizheitiaolumian。danshizhenshiliyideneiyike，2geyouxiurencaifajueyagenjiubukehuoquelingyifang。danshiyiduanbeitarenchanhedehunyinshenghuo，jibianronghedaoyiqi，yebuhuixiangyiqianneibanzhongguiyuhaole。

2、有暴力行为

 womenlejiemeiyinvxingdouqipanhuodeyifenzhenzhideganqing，jiehunhouhezishenxinaiderenguoyibeizi，neimatamenjiumeishenmequehankexunle。danshizaijielehunyihou，jiaruneigerenbuzaiyinvxingdeqingmian，changchangyouyuyixiexiaoshierjiuduitatuixingjiabao，yici2cibuzaihu，pinciduole，meiyinvxingdoushijuededaohanxin！

 youyutaxiangzhaodejiushishuoyigekeyijizutaguishuganhewennuandenansheng，xiangzheileiyoujiabaodenanshengzongshirangnvxinglitayuezouyueyuan，youyumeiyinvxingjibianzaikuanhongdaliangyechengshoubushang！yincijingshizheixienanrenmen，buyaozaizishenxinqingyumendeqingkuangxia，jiubaquanbudexintaidouxuanxiezaizishennvxingdeshenshang，guohouwulunnizenmeqiqiuta，tayeburongyizaikuanrongnini。

3、看不上另一方

 womenlejiequanshijiemeiyoushiquanshimeideren，dangshizainimeiyoulejietadeqingkuangxia，tayeshixuduodeqingganshi。jinguanyiqiandetashifendehaiziqi，danshimuqiantawangwangtiaoxuanhenizaiyiqi，yeshiyouyutashizhenxinshiyideaizheni。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？bubiyizhibazijishenpangdeneirenyuwaibuderenduibi，youyunineiyangzuozongshisunhailiangrenzhongjiandeqinggan，bubiyizhizaizishenxingzishangqudeqingkuangxiajiuyaojielingyifangdebahen，tayiqianjinguanyouzuodebutaihaodediqu，danshimuqianjirantiaoxuanhenizaiyiqi，jiubiaomingtazaoyilejieyoucuojiugaile。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

dangninengyiweidequdanxinneijianshier，neimadajialiangrenzuizhongdejiejujiushishuofenli。

4、喜爱猜忌

 womenlejieyiduanhunyinshenghuobixudeshiliangrenbicixinren，neiyangcaikeyirangliangrenbaitouxielaodiyishizhuxingxialai。jiarudajiadouduilingyifangbuxinren，erqielingyifangzuodeshiernidoubuyuanyiqushiyongta，neimadangshidajialiangrenyouweishenmetiaoxuanyishizhuxingzaiyiqi？jirandangshidajiadoukeyichaoyuekan，weishenmerujinbunenggouqulizailingyifangdeshijiaoduokaolvdaoyixienanti？

 quanshijiebingmeiyouwanmeideren，zainilaishuotarenbusanbusideqingkuangxia，youmuyouxiangyixiazishenjiujingshishenmeren？erqieyounaxiezizhiqupingjiatarendeshier？yinciyaoxiangfufuerrenzhongjianqinggantiandexiangmiyiyang，neimajiuduojilingyifangyixiesimikongjian，xianghuzunzhong，huxianglijie，neiyanglingyifangyehuidongdezhenxini。

 jieshuyu：yinciyaoxiangyiduanqinggankeyixiuchengzhengguo，jinjiyidingbubizuozhishangzheiyixieshi，sunhaifuqijiandeshier。youyuyidannimaikailezheiyibu，neimajiuyuzhaozhenihennanwufahuitoule。

 henduorenquanshizaizishenyouyuyishichongdongerzuochuleweifanshehuidaodeliangzhideshier。hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？guohoudishengxiaqilingyifangkuanrong，danshinihuanweisikaoyixiayixia，jiarulingyifangyezuochuleyiyangdeshier，niyaohuiquyuanliangma？rutongyigefensuideyushijingzi，zaishuaihuaideneiyike，jiudaibiaohennanmeifaqingtouyihele。