夫妻婚后冷战怎么办？经历过这种婚姻的夫妻，应该怎么做

 zenmechulijiatinglengbaoli？dangbicidehunyinshenghuotaguoleshushinian，laonianfuqideqingkuang，jianghuihuiganjueshishizhijinkoua，zairenyanqiandekenengshiyijianhenguoyibuqudeshier，guoduzaihutarenruhexiang，jiqizenyangkan，neitianmeidejuedezaoyizaoyihuaweiwuyou。shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？shuobailesiwuhunyinshenghuoshinasiwuni？xiamianhuazhenwangbianweinijieda：

第一，便是没有话说。

 shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？fuqijianhuayuelaiyuedi，jianghuishiyouyuajiaowangdeshijianzhangle，niyaoweizhangkouzaoyigaoqingchulingyifangyaoxiangnaxie，zenmechulijiatinglengbaoli？zheileixinxinxiangxideqinggan，zhongjiuhuanshijishaoshude，neidaliangdeshi，shijianyuezhanghuifajue，xianghelingyifanggoutongjiaoliudehuatitaolun，shiyuelaiyuedile。

 danyoushixiangshuodehua，xiangyixiangjianghuijiangguodoumeiyouyong，yincijiubuduoshuole。danshijianyizhang，fuqijiandegoutongjiaoliu，jiuyuelaiyuedi，jiaruzaitongyigefangyanzhizhong，yeganjueshiyouyuanwufenle。

第二，便是无搭起可吵。

 jinguanshuohunyinshenghuozhongzhengzhi，huisunhaozheiyixianghudeqinggan，keshishijishanghuangejiaodulaikan，danglingyifanghaixiangyaoshuo，youyuyijianbudadenanti，eryuniquzhengzhi，nenggou qubianbodeqingkuangxia，zenmechulijiatinglengbaoli？zuishaozhengshitahuanshizaiyineijianshierde。shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？

danghunyinshenghuolaidaoxianghulianzhengchaoquanshiganjuezaixuduguangyinshechilangfeihuolideqingkuangxia，jianghuibianshiqueshizoudaozuihou。

bicigenxianghubianchenglechedishiwuguanjinyaodelurenle，neineiyangdehunyinshenghuoyoumeiyoushenmewenduni。

第三，便是无名之火。

 zheiershuodewumingzhihuo，shijishangshilingyifangchedishishiquxixin。bicikandaoxianghu，bianhuinaoxin，fanlebianhuizaochengwuminghuo，tongchangshiwuyuanwugudexinfan，buguantanqishenmehua，huanshikaibanshilai，biciduixianghudoumeiyounaixinhengxintilile。jiusuanshimangranwucuodejianghua，jiqizuoshi，yejiyoukenenghuiyinqizheiyizhengyide。

第四点便是，无热情可循。

 dangbicidehunyinshenghuotaguoleshushinian，laonianfuqideqingkuang，jianghuihuiganjueshishizhijinkoua，zairenyanqiandekenengshiyijianhenguoyibuqudeshier，guoduzaihutarenruhexiang，jiqizenyangkan，neitianmeidejuedezaoyizaoyihuaweiwuyou。

 hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？yibianfangzhizishendehunyinshenghuojindaozheiyiqingkuang，yingdanglijidiaojieqingkuang，fajuecunzaidebuzubinglijiyouxiaogoutong。