夫妻婚后冷战怎么办？夫妻之间越计较这些，婚姻越不幸福

 hunhoushenghuozhong，maodunfenqiwukebimian，zenyangkandaihejiejuefenqimaodunyouweizhongyao。yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？zhuanglongzuoya，kanqilaishiyizhongyubendegerenxingwei，yeyoudianerdihuideyuyi。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？dantaquegaozhirenmenyigejichudedadaoli：

 yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？hunyinshenghuozhongdeyixieshier，huanshibubiguoduodejinjinjijiao。jinjinjijiaodeyueda，dedaodeyuedi，bingqieyouyuguodujiuchanbuqing，fandaorangfuqiguanxiebian，weihailehunyinshenghuopinzhi。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

jiangwanzheihuahou，youderenyouhuimingquetichuyihuo：

nandaoshuobujijiao，jiunengxingfukuailema？

 ziranbingbushi，hunyinshenghuozhongyixieshier，niyoupobudeyiquzheng，pobudeyiqujinjinjijiao。shexiang，yigemobuguanxinjiawushidenansheng，zhengtianzhilejieqianrangzhelaopo，bujiubianchengnvxingsiyangdexiaochongwule？

 buyongshuoqita，lirutangdaidezhongzonglixian，guoduqianrangzishendelaopoweihuanghouheguinvanlegongzhu，daozuizhonghuanshibeitamensuocanhai。shijizhong，buhuiguoduqianrangguanzhe，bianhuizaochengxingshian，dantongchanghuirangzishenguodegengweiweiquhebushufu。

 neima，nantijiulaile。hunyinshenghuoliyouxieshibixujinjinjijiao，youxieshibuyongjinjinjijiao，shijidepingjiazhibiaoshisha？huoxuzhizhejianzhi，renzhejianren。

 danyigezuijichude、haoyongqiangdeguifanbianshi：faligenggaideshier，jiububiqujinjinjijiao。dadaolibuyaneryu。youyuneiyangdeshiernimeiyoubanfaqugenggai，jiaruqumaiyuanhuoshishiqujinjinjijiao，fandaohuijinidelingyibanzaochengdichu。zaizheizhongshiershangjinjinjijiao，bujinmeiyou"de"，fandaodoushi"shi"。

1、担心另一半的以往

 hunhou，lingyibandeyiwang，shirenmenmeiyigerendouxiangzhangwode，youqishilingyifangdeqingshiheqiannvyou。youyujibianzaiqinmiwujiandefufu，zaiganqingshang，doushiduixianghuyouyidingdebaocun，changyouyixiebuyuanranglingyifanglejiedemimi。

 chuziyuhaoqixinhuozhexianggengweishenrulejiezhenbianren，binggenjubawolingyifangsixu，duodehunyinshenghuozhudaoquandemudi，renmenquxiangbingqidaizhangwolingyibandeyiwang，bingchangshibawozhulingyifangderuanzhu，gesanchawudijiangtafanchu。

 liru，lingyibandeqiannvyou，niyizhizainidelaopohuoshishizhangfuyanqiantidao。shijishangnizhenshidemudiyebingbushichuziyuguyi，yexujinjintucao，yexujinjinliaobo，yexuzhishishixiangranglingyibanzainiliangdeqiannvyouzhongjiankaizhanjiaowei，jinerranglingyibangengweizhenxiziji。yici2cihainenggou，yexufuqijianjianyidiliaoyiliangju，bianhuiwanbizheiyinankandehuatitaolun，keshi，jiarupinciguoduopinfan，bianhuiweihaifuqiguanxi。

 nidejinjinjijiao，huiranglingyifangjuede，niyizhizaizhuatadebianzi，yehuiranglingyibanbenxiangwangdiaodeyiwang，youzaicifanhuishixia。yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？dangzaishijihunyinshenghuochuxianganqingkongquehuozhepengdaofufufenqishi，jiufeichangrongyiranglingyifangzaochengcuobaiganhuozhehuihendengxiaojiqingxu，congerweihaihunyinshenghuopinzhi。

 yiner，zhenduilingyibandeyiwang，renmenshibubitanji，zhishibazhenshidecezhongdianfangdaohunyinshenghuodeshixia，guohaomeiyitian。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

2、斥责另一半爸爸妈妈的生活方式

 liangrenzouzaiyiqi，chuanglixianghudejiazhong，biaomingxianghujianyouxiangtongzhichu，dan，jibianyouzaiduodexiangtongzhichu，fuqijian，yecunyouzhechabiehebuyiyangdediqu。

 liru，zaiyinshidapeishang，youxierencezhongyuzhongguonanfangkougan，youxierencezhongyudongbeidiqukougan；zaidairenjiewushang，youxierenjiujiaoweineixiangxing，feichangshaogentarenxiangchu。youxieren，xiaijiaoyou，penyoushejiaoquanduo，zheixie，nenggou liejufuqijian，xuduobuyiyangdediqu。yifangmianshixinggeshiran，lingyifangmian，gengguanjiandeshiyouyudajialaiyuanyubuyiyangwenhuadetedianheshenghuoxiguandejiazhong。

 fufuzaixianghurichangshenghuo，genjuchixudemoheqijiehe，huimanmanzaiwenhuayishuheshenghuofangshishangzuodaozuizhongderangbuheyizhi，zuihouchanshengyigeyiyubabamamajiazhongdexinjiazhong。

 keshi，zheibingbuyiweizhe，genjuzishenqinfen，ninenggenggailingyifangbabamamadeshenghuofangshijiwenhua。keshi，zaifuqixingshenghuozhong，henduorendoushibujingyijianquchangshigenggaizheiyishier。liru，ninengdangzhongzhangfudemian，chizejiapojiagongdeshenghuofangshi。neiyangzuodebuliangyingxiang，tongchangshitulao，bingqiehaihuijixuweihaifufudeqinggan。

 lingyifangbabamamadeshenghuofangshishimeibanfagenggaide，tamennianjidoujiaoweida，zaoyijinrulerenshengdaoluxiguanxingde“chenmaoqi”，burongyiyinweiyigerenerqugaibianxianzhuang。lingwai，dangniyiweidichizeganyu，bianhuiranglingyibanjuedenimeizhongshitadebabamama，doubuzhongshitadeziji，mianbulerangneixinshengyuanhen。

 yingduineiyangdenankanhekunjing，zhibuguoliangtu：yaobutiaoxuanchengshou，yaobutiaoxuanjiena。daodedixianshikendingbukeyimaiyuanchize。shidejiejuefangfa，bianshi“fanghu”，fenbieguofenbiedeyishizhuxing，jidairenzhongjian，bubizaiyiqichanhe，“gehe”，shimeifagenjumoheqichupengernengchulide。bataxianzhiyibian，yongshijianmoquyiqie，daoshiyizhongcongmingdezuofa。

3、与另一半争执怎样教育小孩

 haizijiaoyunanti，zhenduimeiyiduifuqi，quanshishifenguanjiandeshier。keshi，yuefaguanjiandeshier，jiuyuefeichangrongyichanshengmaodunhefenqi。neimazaiquelihaizidejiaoyunantiyiqian，shidefangfa，bianshibamaodunhefenqichulidiao，fufuzaihaizijiaoyunantishang，zuizhongyaodebianshiyao“baochiyizhi”。

 weihebaochiyizhini？jiarufufumeiyouyizhideniantouhefangfa，zhenduihaizijiaoyunantimeiyouquelidefangwei，jiufeichangrongyirangxiaohaishouzuwucuo。liru，fuqinxiangrangxiaohaidangyinlejia，xiaohaijiuxuexigangqin。

 muqinxiangrangxiaohaidangwudaojia，xiaohaixueminzuwudao，bingweiciebiandileijia，neima，xiaohaidekechengxuexijiangyijiazaijia。errendehuolishibijiaoyouxiande，guoduodexuexipeixun，meiyouquelifangweidexuexipeixun，biranrangxiaohaifensanhuaxuduguangyinhehuoli，zuizhong，yezhongjiangbiancheng“quandoudongyidian，danmeiyouyouxiucaikeyi”deyongren。

 fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？zaihaizijiaoyunantishang，fuqijian，yingdangjinjinjijiao，keshibukeyijinjinjijiaodeguoduo，yifufuyifangzhudao，erlingyifangzhongzhongzhizhonggaohaofuzhudinglixiangzhudegongzuozhong。quelixiaohaideshijisuzaofangwei、baochiyizhi，caisuanshifufuzuiyingdangjinjinjijiaodeshier。