夫妻婚后冷战，女人不要这么做

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 zhenshiqingshanggaodefufu，jibianzhengchaoyeshihenyoulixingde。hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？tamenhuijingxialaigoutongjiaoliuhesikao，yipiangaiquan，jiangli，bashiershuoqingxi。danshiyeyouyixieburongyihunyinjingyingdefufu，yidanfashengzhengzhi，jiuyifayifabukeshoushi，sheiyebuyuanlixingdisisuoyixia。yincichaozhechaozhe，jiubaqingganchaodanle，zhujiandebianchengleluren，naizhishiyinererliyi。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？

 zheixiezaizhengchaoshifeichangrongyisangshilixingderen，shijishangquanshibuzuconghui。feichangshiyixienvxing，feichangrongyirangzishendexintaisangshicaozong，zuochuyixiesunhaizhangfudeshier，zuihoushiliangrenyuelaiyueyuan。

 nvxingdezhei3zhonggerenxingwei，zuibuyinggaichuxianzaifuqizhengchaohou，zhenshibianshibazhangfuwangwaitui。youzheizhongbuliangxiguandenvxing，yidingyaolijizuochugenggaile，buranhuirangfuqiguanxideliefengyuelaiyueda。

一直对丈夫提过去。

fuqijianzhengchao，chaowanyejiuguoqu，meiyoushenmegeyechou，ruoshiyizhijilaowangrideenchou，zongshijixianghujiantianmafan。

 danshiyoudenvxingpianyaofeichangaijihen，meiyicichaowanjia，jiubuduandetiguoqu，bazheixiebuyukuaideshierdoulishuyibian。shijianzhanglezongshirangnanshengganjuedichu，yuanbenxinliduinideneidianneijiu，yejinimojinle。

 shijishang，fuqizhengchaohounvxingtiguoqu，queshibudanwujiyushi，haihuijixurangdajiadeguanxijinzhang。fuqizhengchaoyihou，nvxingneiyangzuo，queshihenshangnanrendexin，biezaizaicile。

解开丈夫的软助。

meiyigerenneixinchangyouyikuaibuyuanbeitarenpengchuderuanzhu，meimeigeruanzhubeitarenpengchushihouhentenghenteng。

 fufushishuxideren，lejiexianghuderuanzhuhekunrao，nenggou yiyudazhong。nanshengzaiaiyigenvren，ruguonvrenyizhitiguoqu。dangnanrenxinbeinishangguoyihou，yejiushidajiagebendongxideshikele。

 suyushuo：darenbudalian，mazanghuabujieduan。yigexindishanliangjiangchudehua，juebunengbatarenwangshangxinnanguodesilushangbi。jianghuaconglaibukaolvdaotarentihui，jiebierenduanderen，doujiaoguyizhisi。

 hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？fuqijianzhengchaohou，nvxingzuibuyinggaizuodebianshiyongjiezishenzhangfuruanzhudefangfaquxuanxienaonu。youyushuochulaidehuashipochuqudeshui，buguanzhihouzairuhetianbu，doushizailianggerendehunyinshenghuoshangliuyoubahen。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？

对自身的丈夫应用家庭冷暴力。

enaifeichangrongyi，jiaowanghennan，qingbuyaoyonglengdanlaikandaizuiqinmiwujianderen。

 fuqizhengchaoyihou，youdenvxingqueyouyihenanshengzhiqi，weichizhelengbaolideqingkuang。duinanshengmobuguanxin，buwenbuwen，yifubinglengdezishi。

 shijishang，nvxingneiyangdezuofashihenbukequde，youyulengbaoliguoshijianzhangle，nanshengbianhuibeinisilexin，congcibuyuanyiyunigoutongjiaoliu，zhujiandeyehuizaochengyaoxiangfangqinideniantou。

 nvxingyidingyaojilao，jishizaiaideren，quanshixixinbijiaoyouxiande。jiaruniyaoxiangzaiciyishizhuxingxialai，dangtajijigenniyubijiaohaodeshihou，jiujitamenyigeloutixia，qiewuyizhiduqi。

maizizengyan：nvrenyaoxuehaoshoulianxingxingzi，biejinidehunyinshenghuohuizaizhengchaoshang。

enaifeichangrongyijiaowangnan，wuhuabushuodefufuzaihunyinshenghuozhongmianbulechanshengzhengzhi。

 zhengchaoshijishangbingbukongbu，danjiarubukeyishidangdijiejuefenqi，naizhiquzuoyixiechunshi，zongshirangxianghujiandeqingganyulaiyudan，jiediyeshiyulaiyushen。zongeryanzhi，fuqizhengchaohou，changchang“neiyangzuo”denvxingqueshihaosha，nishizaibazhangfuwangwaitui。

 “bainianlaoxiudetongchuandu，qiannianxiudegongzhenmian”，bingbushisheidounenggoulaidaoyiqibianchengfufu。fuqizhengchaodoubukongbu，padeshizhengchaohourangxianghudeqinggan，yuelaiyueyifabukeshoushi。

 hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？fuqizhengchaohou，zhenshicongmingdenvrencongburongyirangfuqijiandefenqiburongyiyuelaiyuejilie，zhishiqubimianfuqijianqingganliefengdezengjia。zheiban，caihuirangzheiyifenhunyinshenghuozhangqierpingwendizouxialai。