冷战是什么意思？夫妻相处的10个禁忌

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？xiangyaohunyinxingfu，fuqiyaoxuehuihaohaoxiangchu。danshifuqifashenglengzhanshiyinggaizenmejiejue？jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？xiamianhuazhenwangbianweinizhenglihaolefuqixiangchude10gejinji。

1、不必随意猜忌

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？“jinritongdianhuashenbeiwo，shifouganlenaxiebaoqianwodeshier?”“tajinrichuanzhedabanneimahaokanshiqujianshei？”zaihaodeqingganyejingbuzhusuiyidecaiyi，wenguoshifeidecaiyirangliangrendouyuelaiyuenaonu、wufagoutongjiaoliu，zuizhongguanlianliekai。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？

tiyi：pengdaoyihuoshi，shidefangfashilijiwenqi/ta。

2、不必觉得恋人给你做的事理所当然

 fufuyuanlaishimeiyouyiqieqinshuguanxideliangren，liangrendexiangzhixiangshoubixugongtongfendou。lianrenduizijizuodeshieryaomingjiyuxin，shidubiaoshuzishendeganxie，youyiyulianggerendeqingganjiazhong。

 tiyi：xiechulianrenjinisuozuodedaxiaoshi，menxinziwenshibushiduizheizhongshierbiaoshuguoxiexie，biaodaxingshizenyang。jianchibuxiebiaodaganxie1zhou，ninengfajuezaiqizhongdezhuanbian。

3、不必互相抱怨

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？“zhiyinweini，.woxxx”，bujinshizaifuqijian，hepengyoudejiaowangyefeichangrongyizhijiandaotarendebuzhengque，erfeichangshaozhuyidaozishendebugou。baoyuandehuafeichangrongyishuo，keshibaoyuanbingbukeyijiejuekunnan，haihuijixujiangjihuamaodun，zuizhonglianggerenbugaoerbie。

 tiyi：jiangniduilianrenbaoyuandehuaxiezaizhishang，zaijiejinquanlishizishenbaochiqingxing，wenyiwenzishenshifouyebixudanfunaxieyiwu。

4、不必随便斥责

 “nikannineimebuxiubianfu，gentamayigeyang！”neiyangdechizetongchanghuiyishunjianrenaolingyifang，tajiangmaotoupianxiangleciwaidejiaren，fandaobulifenqidechuli。

 tiyi：xianrenshizijifahuodeyuangu，xuehaoyiduiwaikaifangheaixidefangfaqulingtinglianrendejianjie，yiyanguangdengfeiyuyanfangfaranglianrengaoqingchuniyizhizaiyongxinlingting，zuizhongmingquetichuquanjuxingtiyi。

5、不要害怕说“不”

 meiyouliyoudikaolvlingyifangdeyiqieyaoqiu，budanrangzishenshenxinpibei，genghuijianghuiranglingyifangduinidenulibuaixi。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？lianggerenzhongjiandejiaowangliyingshilianggerenlingwaijuedeshufude，erbushiyiweidishuncong。

 tiyi：youyishuoyigengnenghuodelianrendexinlai，jiazhongfuqiguanxi。dangyijianshiqingweifanlenideyixiangdeqingkuangxia，shizhezhehelianrengoutongjiaoliu，jianxingongpingchengzhidegoutongjiaoliuhuirangdajiadeqinggangengjinyibu！

6、不必缄默

fuqijianzuipalengbaoli，jianmohuirangshierwufadedaochuli，weihunyinshenghuozhongxiaanquanyinhuan。

 tiyi：jiarudangzhongkaibulekou，hebujiairenxiefengxin，biaoshufahuodeyuanguhezishendekunhuo，yongjijizhudongdexintaizhengdefufudegoutongjiaoliulejie。

7、不必有意激怒

 youshihoudehujiaomanchanshiqinggandeshiyongxiangliao，keshiyaobawoshudu，guoduodefangsizehuihaofeilingyifangdeqinggan，liruhuluanhuaqian、zijindeng。

 tiyi：zhaogebicinengpingxinjingqigoutongjiaoliusanshifenzhongdediqu，bicibingzherangqinggangengqiangdemudilaijiejuekunnan，ziwofansifansheng。

8、不必蔑视恋人

fuqijianyingfangzhiyixiejianshaolingyifanggerenjiazhidehua。liru，“nizenmeneimelan!”

 tiyi：liejuquanbu“niruheruhe”deyuju，suihouba“ni”huanwei“wo”，shizheyong“wo”kaishideyujuyulianrengoutongjiaoliu。

9、不必威协恋人

yuyanhuoshentiweixiejilingnvebidingzaocheng hunyinshenghuomaodun。

 tiyi：ruguoniduilianrenhenshengqishi，jinliangxuehaozhinu。liru，xianliqujinijuedefahuodediqu，rangzishenpingjingxialai。qixiaohou，shizhehelianrenhuodegoutongjiaoliu，liuyibubibaoyuan，bicixianghulijiexianghuzhijianqianjiu。

10、不必找别人适用

 lengzhanshishenmeyisi？fufuchuxianfenqi，jinkenengbubirangtarencanjiajinqu，gengbukeyirangzishendebabamamazimeiqianshejinqu。buran，huizaochengyizhongwuxingzhongdebeiyapo，yebulishierdechuli。biciyinglizaigongpingdeyingxianglishanggoutongjiaoliu，caikeyihexiejiejuekunnan。