这三种冷暴力婚姻你很难才会幸福，你要学会放手

 youneimayizhongbaolichengwei“jiatinglengbaoli”，tabingbushiroushenshangbiandecuican，zhishinideneixinheneixinshijie。lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？zheileizhuangkuang，zaifufudangzhonghuanshijiaoweipubiande，youshihoudajiayexuyixiexiaoxiaozhengzhi，douhuiqitoushangmian，sheiyemeilishei，keshixunsujiuhehaodechengwei“lengbaoli”。zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

 lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？“jiatinglengbaoli”tongchangshineileiyoufuqizhishi，meifuqizhiqingdeneilei，danliangrenyouburongyifenli，yigerenxingfu，lingyigemeiai，zaigerenxingweishangbiansuichuduineiren“jiatinglengbaoli”，kaizhanjingshenshizhishangbiandecuican，bizhelingyifangliqu。zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

 shenpangyouyigepenyoujiuzheiyangde，hewomubiaoshilijingxiangqinyuehuilejiede，meiyouruhesuzaoguoqingganjiuxunsudetaruhunyinshenghuodeshengdian，keshilijingshijiandemolian，fajueliangrenzaiyiqibuyi。danchongfenkaolvbiededeyaosuliangrenjiuneimecouhuozaiyiqi，“jiatinglengbaoli”jiutongchangchanshengle，penyouyouyixiangdeyaoxiangzengjinganqing，keshinvxingcongbulita，naizhiyijuhuadoubuyuanduojiang，yizhiquanshifuyanleshideqingkuang。

 youyicigenpenyouyinjiu，wenqijinqiderichangshenghuoruhe，tashuo“lile，liangrenzaiyiqi，yitianyebuchaochuwujuhua，hekuzhemozijile，tabushuangkuaiwoyebushuangkuai，haibibushangyigeren”。

 jiatinglengbaoli”dequeyoushilingrenwanbanwunai，jishiyifangyaoxianggenggai，keshilingyifangbuzuochugenggaihuanshimeiyouyongde。neiyangdeqingganqueshihuilingrenbenkui，yizhiyuzuizhongliangrenliqu。youshibenlaixinaiderenjiuzaiyanxia，keyeshineimashengshu，duitarendeqingkuangxiajiqingkandai，duizuiaiderenbianshibiyiquxiao，ruoshiqueshibuyi，jiuliquba，meiyoubixuxianghucuican。

 fuqijiandejiatinglengbaolifangfayouhenduozhongduoyang，xiabiansanzhongfangfashijiaoweipubiande，ruguoyoujianghuidehua，nenggou liangrenyongxindeliaoyixia，ruoshiqueshibunengzaiyiqi，neimejiuhepingfenshou，queshimeiyouhuxiangcuican，nibugaoxingyinweiwobugaoxing，neihaibibushangyigeren。zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

对你不想“奢侈浪费唾液”

 zhendui“jiatinglengbaoli”zuipubiandeyigefangshi bianshi，buyuanduogennijianghua，yexujianghuadeqingkuangxiayeyizhizaifanzhini，daduoshushuoquanshi“ng，e，hao”。lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？zhangjiuyiwang，qingganbidingbutaikenengzhangqide，yingduineimeyigeqinggan，jishiyouyigefeichanghaodexingzi，yehuiyouyitianbeipaoguangleba，yexutajinjinzaibizheniliqubale，jiranruguobuaile，neimajiuliquba，neiyangxianghujiubaituola。

 liangrenzaiyiqi，ruoshiyeyouyidingdeqinggan，tabiranzaixiabanlehuijiadeqingkuangxia，duinimaiyuangongzuofangmiandebumanyi，gennishushuoneixindekukoushui，yongyouliaobuwandehua。danshibuqingchuweiheyouyitian，tahuranmeiyouhuale，buyuanyuniduoshuoyijuhua，xiabanlehuijiayizhihenfanzhini，yexucikedajiadeqingganjiuchuxianleweiji，yidingyaogaoduzhongshi。

对你的体会“毫不在意”

 hunyinshenghuoyikaishideqingkuangxia，tadeneixinnongnongdequanshini，jishinideyigechoumeikulian，lingyifangdoudanyougebansibuhuo，wenniganmani？chuxianyidiandianxiaoxiaonanti，doushiguanxintitiede。keshi“jiatinglengbaoli”degangkaishi，bianshiduinidetihuihaobuzaiyi，genzishenwuguandeneilei。

 bieyiweiliangrenzaiyiqi，nenggou xianghuzaiyilingyifangdetihui，danshizhongjiuhuanshiyigeren，haoxiangneirenbianshizuilejiedelurenyiyang。yinci，neiyangde“jiatinglengbaoli”shizuibukeyirongshoude，weihezaitanlianaideqingkuangxianiduiwoyehenhao，daozuizhongyeyaoneiyangcuicanwo？

对你一直“冷眼相对”

 kandaitarendeqingkuangxia，yizhishuoshuoxiaoxiao，keshiyihuidaojiaduinijiushi“lengyanxiangdui”，naizhijuededoubuyuanduokankanniyiyan，zongganjueyihuijialebianshibugaoxing，huoshikeyishuoyijiandaoniyejiumomingqimiaodeyouyizhongfanmendejuede，yexuzheishiduinizaoyibuailela，duiniyaobibushangyigeluren，zheiyiduanqingganhuanshijiuzheiyangba。

 lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？benlaishitanchengxiangdaideliangren，weishenmeyaokaizhanneixinshangbiandecuican，yexuduini“jiatinglengbaoli”deqingkuangxia，shijishangliangrendouxiangguoyaoliqu，keshiyinweigezhongyuanyinxianghuhuanshizaiyiqi，meiyoubanfaliqu，keshineiyangdehunyinshenghuoqueshihuixingfukuailema？