xiaojiqingxuzaiweixinshuoshuo,zaizhaozhaoxinqingjuzidaquanliduiyingzijidangxiazhuangtaidewenzi,yiweijiucijiunengzhaodaoweijie,dangranshimeiyouneimejiandande,xiaojiqingxubuzhengquechuli,henyoukenengjiuhuiyibubuyanbiancheng jingshen jiankangwenti,ruhechulixiaojiqingxu?
一、消极情绪如何处理
xiaojiqingxuzaiweixinshuoshuo,zaizhaozhaoxinqingjuzidaquanliduiyingzijidangxiazhuangtaidewenzi,yiweijiucijiunengzhaodaoweijie,dangranshimeiyouneimejiandande,xiaojiqingxubuzhengquechuli,henyoukenengjiuhuiyibubuyanbianchengjingshenjiankangwenti,xiaojiqingxuruhechuli?
1、识别情绪
nixuyaozuodediyijianshijiushizhaochushihezhongqingxuyingxiangzheni。ruguonibuzhidaowentishishenme,nizenmenengxiangchujiejuetadebanfani?ruhechulixiaojiqingxu?
zaimouxieqingkuangxiakenenghenrongyi,nihuimashangmingbainishibeishanghaishigudu;danzaiqitaqingkuangxia,zheikenengbushineimejiandan。kenengnideshenghuoyijingruleiyubanhunluan,dannikeyiquxunzhaoduiniyingxiang、zuirangnitongkudeneigeqingxu。
2、问自己:这种情绪是如何改变你的生活的?
jiranniyijingquedingleshishenmeqingxu,jiexialaijiuyaonongqingchutadaodiduinidegexinghexingweizaochengleshenmeyangdeyingxiang。
womenmeigerenduiqingxudefanyingchuligebuxiangtong,conglaimeiyougudingdegongshi,yexutongyizhongqingxunihuigengjiakezhiheanjing,xiangfanbierenhuidahoudajiao。suoyiyaonongqingchuwomenshiruheyinweiqingxuerbiaoxianchubutongxingweide。zheiduifangzhinizuochuzaogaode、wufawanhuidexingdongtebieyoubangzhu。
3、重复一遍:这一切都会结束
消极情绪有一种奇怪的能力,那就是让你相信这会一直持续下去,永远折磨着你。比如,痛苦可能会持续几周或几个月,在这段时间里,它甚至严重到让人想要终结生命。 遇上难解情感困扰?
danshixiaojiqingxutebiehaofeinengliang,dangqingxudadaojizhi,leideniwufajixubaochizheigeqingxushi,tazhongjiuhuijiangxialai,zheishihounihuihuodepingjing。suoyiduizijizhongfuyibian:zheijianghuijieshu,zheiyiqiedouhuiguoqu。jiuxiangnicengjingtiyanguoderenheyizhongqingxuyiyang,zuizhonghuiyanxiaoyunsan。
4、找到情绪的来源
dangnizhidaoshinazhongqingxu,tashiruhegaibiannideshenghuode。niyeyijingshuofuziji,tazongyouyitianhuijieshu。xianzaishishihoukaishinidelvchengle——zhaochuzaochengzheizhongqingxudelaiyuan。
womendemeiyigexiaojiqingxudouhuiyouyigeyaliyuan。biru,xiaodaozijiyigezaogaodexiangfadadaonisuoaizhirendesiwang,wulunshishenmewomendoukenengcongzhongchanshengxiaojiqingxu。
5、接受
xiaojiqingxuzaiweixinshuoshuo,zaizhaozhaoxinqingjuzidaquanliduiyingzijidangxiazhuangtaidewenzi,yiweijiucijiunengzhaodaoweijie,dangranshimeiyouneimejiandande,xiaojiqingxubuzhengquechuli,henyoukenengjiuhuiyibubuyanbianchengjingshenjiankangwenti,xiaojiqingxuruhechuli?
zaizhidaotongkudelaiyuanzhihou,shishihoukefutahuozhejieshoutale。jieshounideshenghuochaozheyigenimeiyouyuliaodaode、nibuxihuandefangxiangfazhan。shijianbuhuiweinitingzhi,zheigeshijiebuhuiyinweinideqinggancuiruoerzanting。shishihoushoushicanju,zhongxinzhenzuoqilaile,yinweifashengdeshiqingyijingfashengle,nirangtatingliudeyuejiu,tachixudeshijianyejiuyuezhang。
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