zongshirenbuzhudegandaoxinlifanzao,shenmeshiqingdouwufatuodangdichuli,shenzhihaihuiyingxiangpanduannengli,zongshichuxiandexintaijiaolvshishenmeyuanyin?fanzaohejiaolvshirenzhichangqing,danshiruguoyichengxiguan,jiuyaozhongshiqilaile,bierangtajileichengji,zaocheng jingshen yali,ruhejiejuexintaijiaolvdewenti?
一、如何解决心态焦虑的问题
1、拥抱不确定性
jiasheninkeyijiangnindeershouchejiaoyijijingxiaoshang,jiagewei40000yuan。ruguonizijimaidiaota,nikenenghuidedao60000yuan,dannibuzhidaotaxuyaoduozhangshijiancainengmaichu。zaizheigejiashezhong,jingxiaoshangdebaojiabuhuixiaoshi。zaizheizhongqingkuangxiabucunzaisunshifengxian,yinweininkeyisuishixiangjingxiaoshangchushou,danshiyouyuyuanyichengdanbuquedingdeqingkuang,ninkeyikaipigenghaodekenengxing。
jiaolvderentongchangtaoyanbuquedingxing。xinlifanzaodetamenwangwangqingxiangyugengqingxiangyugengjiaqueding,dankeguanshanggengzaogaodeqingkuang(ruxiangjingxiaoshangxiaoshou),yigengbuquedingdankeguanshanggenghaodeqingjing。ruhejiejuexintaijiaolvdewenti?
2、认识到焦虑的大脑可能产生的优势
zheigelizishejijisuanfengxiandegainian。fengxianyubuquedingxinglveyoubutong。fengxianshiyizhongshijicunzaisunshideqingkuang。liru,yixiangkenengshiqujiazhidetouzi。suizheshijiandetuiyi,nikenengyijingzhidao,zaijisuanfengxianchengdanfangmian,jiaolvxingshijishanghuidailaiyixieyoushi。
niruguojiaolv,xinlifanzao,jiuhuiqingxiangyuxiangdaokenengchucuodeyiqie。zhidaonidedanaohuichanshenghenduoguanyukenengchucuodexiangfa,zheishijishangrangnizaimaoxianshigengyouxinxin。dangshejidaoyigetedingdejihuishi,nidebennengshifouyinggaiquzuo,zheizhongbennengtongchangshizhengquede,yinweiniyijingzaixintaishangkaolvlefengxian。nidepianjian wangwangguoyujinshen,suoyidangnide“zoukai”dengliangqishi,nizhidaoniyibandoukeyixinrenzheigexinhao。
3、更快地做出小决策
作为一个忧虑者是能源密集型。为了让你有足够的时间来思考重大决策,你学会了更快地做出小决策。通过小的决定,你的意思是小家庭购买或是否去度假五天或六天。 遇上难解情感困扰?
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