选择性障碍是什么，怎样克服选择性障碍

 xuanzexingzhangaishishenme？xuanzexingzhangaidebiaoxianyounaxie？ruguonizaimianduixuanzedeshihoujingchanghuigandaohenjiaolv，xiaodaoshenghuorichang，dadaorenshengdezhongyaojueding，jishizuihouzuochulejueding，danzijidexinqinghaishibunenghenkuaipingfuxialai。neimegaizenyangkefuxuanzexingzhangaini？

一、选择性障碍的表现

 xuanzexingzhangaishishenme？xuanzexingzhangaiyibantixianzairichangshenghuodangzhong，lirunvxingzaigouwushi，mianduitongyangkuanshi，butongyansedeyifushi，juedezheigeyexihuan，neigeyebushe，daozhinabudingzhuyi，neixinjiujie。zuizhongtiaoxuanleyijianyihou，haiyaobutingdewenbierendaodishibushiheziji，ruguozheishibierendedaanshifoudingde，zehuijiajuzheizhongkunaodexinqing。youliru，dangqizhanzaiyigefenchalukou，liangtiaoluxiandoukeyidaodamudedi，danshizaixuanzeshangyouyubujue，zongshidiguzhedaodiyinggaizounatiaolu，jibianzaizouchujishimihou，haiyoukenengzaizhuanguotoulaizouqulingyitiaolu。zheixiedoushixuanzexingzhangaidebiaoxian。

二、怎样克服选择性障碍

1、坚定自己的选择

 shouxianyaoxuehuiqingchulejiezijidewenti，jinerzaiquguanliziji，rangzijijiandingdijieshouyizhongxuanze。dangxuanzewanchenghou，gaosuzijibuyaohouhui，yebuyaoquzuorenhededuibi，xiangxinzijidexuanzeshidexuanze。

2、对比优劣法

 yongduibiyouliedefangshilaibangzhuzijijinxing xuanze ，bifangshuonikeyizaixuanzedeguochengzhong，dangnijuedebijiaokunnanerbuzhiruhejuezedeshihou，zheishijiukeyijizijilieyigeduibibiao，yibianliechuzuozheigexuanzedeyoudian，lingyibianliechubuzuozheigexuanzedequedian，huxiangduibi，jiukeyibangzhuzijigengjiaqingxidikandaozijixuanzedejieguo，congerbangzhuzijixiajueding。

3、gaishanzijideqinmiguanxiyijixuehuiziwoxinshang

 qinmiguanxishizengqianganquangandezhongyaoyihuan，nixuyaojinkenengdiqugaishanzijiyujiaren，youqishiyufumuzhijiandeqingganguanxi，bingcongzhongxuehuixinshangziji。zheishiyizhongfeichanghaodefangfa。zainideqinmiguanxizhongjianshaoxianghujiandezhize、piping，manma，ergengduocaiyonggengduodexinshanghegulideyancihejuzhi，zheiqishidoushijiaqianghecujinqinmiguanxijucuo。erqinmiguanxidegaishanheanquangandezengqiang，doushikeyihuanhexuanzezhangaiwentide。

 yishangjiushiguanyuxuanzexingzhangaishishenme，yijizenyangkefuxuanzexingzhangaidejieshao，meiyizhongwentidechuxianzonghuiyouqiyuanyinsuozai，zhaodaoyuanyin，zhaodaoqizhengzhuang，jiukeyiduizhengxiayao，henhaodejiejuechuxiandewenti。