发现对象有外遇怎么办

 zhenduifaxianduixiangyouwaiyuzenmebanzheigepubiandewenti，jintian huazhenqinggan xiaobianteyidezhenglichulaiyixiezijidekanfa，jichulezijideyixiejianyi，xiwangnenggouduidajiayousuoqifa，bangzhudaodajia。

一、发现对象有外遇怎么办

1、宽恕

 shouxianyaobawaiyukanchengshikekuanshudezui。waiyushiyigebingbuxianjiandeshehuixianxiang。xuduorendouxiwangnengshenghuowending，keshiyidanmianduiwaiyu，dangshirenhuichanshengjudadexintaichongjibo，jiaoderenxinlibudeansheng。jiusuanzuizhongwaiyuchengweiguoquhuogaobiehunyin，yedouhennanzaibaoyouyifenpingjingdexintai，hennanhuidaoguoqudeshenghuozhizhong。

 faxianduixiangyouwaiyuzenmeban？hunyinbenlaishiyizhongqiyue，ruguoyifangzainulizunshouzhe，erturanfaxianlingyifangweiyue，neizhongzaobeipandeganjuehuishidangshizhegandaojudadetongku，yizhongsixinliefeideganjuehuibuyoudishengtengqilai。ruguocishigaosuta，waiyushiyizhongkeyikuanshudezui，kenengtahuitingbujin，danshihaishiyaojianchi，yinweiyishidaozheidianshizouchuyinyingdediyibu。sanfangdouxuyaodiaoshi，douyaoyouyigexintaiziwobaojian。

2、baochiyizhonglengjingdexintai

 buyaorangzijibeixiesidilideqingxusuokongzhi，eryingjinliangnongqingshishizhenxiang，ranhoulvqingsilu，lejieyixiaduifangduimuqianhunyinjiatingdetaidu，zhaodaozijizuijiadeyingduicelve。

3、珍爱自己

 dangfaxianduixiangyouwaiyu，ruguoliangrendoubudasuanlihun，neijiuyouyigeruhezouchuyinyingdehunyinwenti。xianzaishehuishangyijingkaishiyoujiatingxitongzhiliao，ruguoyoukeneng，duifangnengjieshou，jianyiquzuoyiduandiaoshi，zheiyangyouzhuyuhunyinqinggandezhonggou。

 jishiduifangtichufenshou，yebubibazijikanchenglewuyiwukao、wunengwuzhuderen，shizijixianyubeipaoqidekongjuzhizhong。burunulishefabaituozijidetongku，xuezhezhenaiziji，rangzijimanmanbaituoziwocuobaidexinqing。

4、goutong──waiyudeyufangji

 buyaoyinweijingliguoyicituyudeshijianjiuzongjuedezijixianyoudehunyinjiatingshenghuomeijing。qishimangmangrenhaili，nixuanzeleta(ta)erbushibierenzheishiyouyidingdaolide，buyaohushilezheizhongneizaideyuanyin。xuehuigoutong，zheishibimianwaiyufashengdeliangce。

 waiyukeyibianchengyicibaojing，cushifuqishuangfangshefahenshendijiaoliu，tanchengdirongnayuliangjieduifang，gengduodibazhuyilizhuanyidaozinv、shuangqin、yijigezhongyingjindeyiwuzhizhong。

yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti？zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme？