女生一直没人追的原因：性格独立的女孩子大多没有人追？

 shenpangyouneiyangyizhongnvhaizi，congbuhuimafantaren，yegenqitadenvhaizibuyiyang，jiazhongdediandengpaohuaidiaozishenqinfenquxiu，congyidihuijianazhenuodadelvxingxiangyezishenyigerenqukang，zheileinvhaizijiulianbanxinjiazishenyigerennenggouyebuhuiqumafantaren。wuzhongnvshengzhaobudaonanpengyoushinawuzhong？jiuzheiyangxingqingdulidenvhaizi，buxihuanmaimengyebuxihuanmafantaren，weishenmemeiyouduoshaorenquzhuini？nvshengyizhimeirenzhuideyuanyinshishenme？

一个人的坚如磐石，一个人的铁马金戈

 penyouxiaomishoujijiuzheiyangxingqingdulideren，tagaosuwoguo：zijiyougongzuonenglibaozheng，woyehuijiejinquanli，weiheyidingyaomafantarenni。

 “haijidejiazhongbanxinjiadeqingkuangxia，wobuyuanyimafanpenyou，jiazhongbandediquyesuanbushanghenyuan，yemeixunche。jiugensuijiarenyigerenbanzhefeichangdadexiaoxiangzihemuju，zufangbanxinjiashiyeshizishenyigerennongde。neigeshihoupenyoushuoyaolaibangzhu，woyeshuozijinenggou，zishenpinzhuanghaomuju，zhenglidasaoweisheng。yeyoujiarutiandayupangtuomeidaisan，beijinglixiangyoushifenyuandabushangche，yinweiwoburongyidadianhuajipenyoulaijie，zhidianjizhezishenxiangbanfa。”tamanmanshuozhe。

 wuzhongnvshengzhaobudaonanpengyoushinawuzhong？xuduodulidenvhai，daduoshushoudaojiatingguanxideweihai，youhuoshishiyiqianyudaoguoneiyigerangtayuelaiyuegengweidulideren。dangyouyitianjingliguomeiyousuoyourennenggoujiezhu，dangyouyitianwaibianyutianbeidashihuijialedeqingkuangxia，bianhuifajueneileiyiqianqipanzhetarenlaiguanaizishen，guanzhuzishendetihuijianjiandijiudanle。zaizhihouderixiangzilixuehuilezhaoguhaoziji，fajuexuduojiezhuzuizhonghuandedeshixinhan，zongshiyuelaiyueduli，buyuanmafantaren。

不喜欢麻烦他人，真真正正的活出自我

 nvshengyizhimeirenzhuideyuanyinshishenme？biaomiandulidenvhaizishiyizhonghendutedecunyou，feichangrongyibeibierenhushi，beibierenwangque，youyutabuyongtaren，tarendoubuxurongjintaderichangshenghuo。weihetaiguodulidenvhaizizuizhongtongchangshiyigeren，youyutaburongyixiangyaonibangtaniukaiyinliaoping，burongyixiangnimaimengtiqinqin，yebuhuigennibaoyibaoyaolipin，gengburongyinianzhenipaniyuanqu。wuzhongnvshengzhaobudaonanpengyoushinawuzhong？

 tamendulibuxihuanzhantarendehuasuan，yebuxihuanmafantaren，zheizhongquanshinannengkeguideyoushi。keshirujindenanhaierdouxiaineileixiusexiudenvhaizi，xiaimaimengtaorenxihuandenvhaizi，xiainenggouyikaozishende，jiqichuzishendebaohuyu。danshinanhaiermenquewangjile，meiyigenvhaiziquanshiqipanbeiweihude。

 nvshengyizhimeirenzhuideyuanyinshishenme？meiyigenvhaiziquanshilaotianyepaixiadetianshizhi，tadanchunxingwuxie，jianxinyiqiemeihaodeshier，taqipanbeiguanai，qipanbeiweihu。nizhidebeiquanqiushandai，yuanmeiyigenvhaizidounengyudaoduideren。