如何认识交友、交友识人？你怎么看？

 womenruherenshijiaoyou？wangluoshangjieshijiaoyoushirenmenweilebaituozijidanshendeshenghuoerqujiejiaorenshitarendeguocheng。guanyuruhejiaoyoushiren、ruhezhenxinjiaoyouzheixiewentixiaobianxiamianweidajiayiyijieda。

一、如何认识交友之交友的意义

 pengyoushirenjiguanxizhongshenweizhongyaodejiaojiduixiang、shizhirenjiguanxiyijingfazhandaomeiyouxueyuanguanxidanyoushifenyouhaoderen。duidabufenrenlaishuo、pengyoushinenggouxinrendehuoban、yeshikeyixianghubangzhudeyinletianshi。

 renyurenzhijianshihuxiangxuyaode：niyujiarenzhijianshihuxiangxuyaode、niyushehuizhijianshihuxiangxuyaode、niyunizhouweideyiqiezhijianyeshihuxiangxuyaode。

二、如何交友识人

 1、buyaoqingyixiangxintarenshuoshenme。yanyuyongyuanzhishiyanyu，tingliuzaiyanyucengmianshihenfuqiande。yuyandemihuoxing、qipianxinghenda。

 2、“junzizhijiaodanrushui、xiaorenzhijiaoganruoli。”junzizhijiandejiaowangbingbushirujiaosiqi、ershizaishiqingmianqianbukanxiaohuanengchushoubangmang。zhiyouxiaorenzhijiandejiaowangcaihuixujiadexianghemiyiyang，danshiyudaoshiqingquezhihuizaiyipangkanxiaohua。

三、如何真心交友

 1、jiaopengyoudeshihouyaohuodeduifangdezhenxinxiangdai，shouxianyaozijixianzhenxinduidaibieren、yixinhuanxin。zijizhenxin、duifangcaiyoukenengzhenxin。suoyizaijiaopengyoudeguochengzhongjiuxuyaozijixianzhenxinduidai。

 2、dongdegoutong。goutongbushijiandandejiaoliuhetanhua，ershinenggoudongdeduifangdexuqiu、nenggouzhidaoduifangdexinqing、nenggoulijieduifangdezuofadengdeng，zheiyangdegoutongcaishide、zuijiade、caihuihuodezhenxinxiangdai。

 3、jinzijisuonengqubangzhuduifang。youyijuhuashuodehao：duoyigepengyouduoyitiaolu。zaijiaopengyoudeguochengzhongyaohuodeduifangdezhenxinxiangdai，yexuyaozijiqujinsuonengdequbangzhuduifang。enhuiyurenziranyehuihuodehuibao。