现在都在说情商，什么是情商？

 yigerendequdechenggong，iqdegongxiaozhizhan20%，qita80%shiqitadeyaosu，zaiqizhongqingshangzhanhendayibufenyaosu。 ——dannier·geerman。rujindouhuishuoqingshang，shenmeshiqingshang？

一、情商是什么意思

 xuduorenrenweihuishuohuajiushishuoqingshang，zaijuhuihuodonghuoshiquntilinengkankanertanjiushishuoqingshanggaodedaibiao；erzaiyixiechangsuobushanyancihuoshichenmoguayanjiushishuoqingshangdidedaibiao。

 shijishangyizhaoshehuifazhandajiadelejie，wangbianyiqiandezhuyaobiaoxiandequeguishuyuqingshangdidebiaoxian，qingshangshishenmeyisi？dahuoerduiqingshangdelejiejiushishuoyaoshuohaotinghua，huiliuxupaima，nenghedajiahundaoyituan。

yijudannier·geermanduiqingshangdejieding，qingshangfenchengsangekexuexipeixundeyibufen：

1、zhangwozishenxintaidenengli

zheiyizhangwozishenjiushizhi：keyimashangchajuezishenxintaidenengli，erqielejiezishenxintaizaochengdeyuangu。

 renshizijidexintai，juedaduoshurennenggoubaozheng，keshixintaizaochengdeyuangu，bingfeirenherennenggouzhangwo。youshituruqilaidefanmen、youchou、beitong，zishenfalidiaozhengqingxu，jiushishuoyouyuzishenbuzhangwoxintaizaochengdeyuangu。

jiaruninenglejiezishenxintaizaochengdeyuangu，jiujuyouqingshangnenglidediyiceng。

2、guanlifangfazishenxintaidenengli

 guanlifangfazishenxintaidenenglijiushishuo：keyifuweizishen、kefumingxiandejiaolvqingxu、youshangdengmingxianxintai，erqienengdiaojieqingxuzaochengdegenbenyuanyin。

 jianyieryan，shenmeshiqingshang，shinizhidaozishenxintaixingfendeyuangushisha，jianghuishilaozongjinqimaleniyidun，yincinixintaihenxiaochen，yizhiyuyoudianeryayigan，zheileixintaiduinideyishizhuxingyouweihai，ninengfuweizishen，guanlizijikefuzheileiqingkuang，neimajiujuyouqingshangdedierceng。

3、gulizishenxintaidenengli

 gulizishenxintaidenenglijiushishuo：keyigenjuzhutihuodongdezongtimubiao，diaozhuan、zhiyinzishendexintai，tishengjizhongzhuyili、xiangxianglihuoshibaofali。

 birunijiangqubaomingcanjiayichangweihainifazhanqiantudeyanshuo，nihuangkongbuan，shouzhangxinquanshihan，jiaruninenggenjuziwoanshi，diaozhengzishenjiaolvbuandexintai，rangjiaolvbuandeqingxubuwendingweiqudongli，huoxuninengzhuyaobiaoxianchubipingchanggengdadedongneng。jiaruninengdiaozhengzishendexintai，bingshizhizaochengjijizhudongdejingjixiaoyi，neimajiuzuodaoqingshangdedisanceng。

 shijishangshuobailedeqingshangjiushishuoganshouxintai，nenggoudiaojieqingxudeyizhongnengli，gennishifouhuishuohuamiqiexiangguan，shijishangbuhuiliaotianmeiyouguanlian，nengguanlizijidexintaicaisuanshizhenshigaoqingshangderen。