夫妻相处的六大艺术

 fuqishuangshuangbajiahai，zheishiduoshaoxiaoqinglvduiweilaihunyinshenghuodemeihaohuanxiang，danshibingbushisuoyouhunhoushenghuodoushikeyifuqishuangshuangbajiahaide，yaodongdefuqixiangchudeyishu，cainengxiangchudegenghao，xiangzhidaogengduodexiaohuogen huazhenqingganxiaobian lailejieyixiaba。

一、夫妻相处的艺术

1、不好胡乱猜疑

 buhaoyiweiniduiairendexiangfaleruzhizhang，tongchangshiyoubajiu，nidouhuichucuo。zaihunyinweijizhizhong，changchanghuichuxianzheizhongqingjing：bufengzhuoyingdehuaiyi，huiranglianggerendoubiandehenfennu、nanyigoutong，zuihouguanlianpolie。

 tuijian：quyizhangzhi，anzhaozhijuezhijiewanchengjuzi“wocaiairenhuirenweiwo”。ranhou，genairenyanzhengcaicedezhengquexing。jieguonihuifaxianhenduocaixiangdoushicuode。yudaoyiwenshi，defuqixiangchushizhijiewenta。

2、buhaorenweiairenweinizuodeshilisuoyingdang

 duiairenbiaodaganjishifenzhongyao，yaoxiaochusandaxiaojitaidu：quanligan、buqieshijideqipanheguzuojianwang。 　　tuijian：xiexiaairenweinisuozuodedashixiaoshi。ziwenshifouduizheixieshiqingbiaodaguoganxie，biaodafangshiruhe。jianchibiaodaganxie1zhou，nihuifaxianqizhongdebianhua。

3、不好相互埋怨

 “quanshinidecuo!”“nirangwozuode，zhengyinni，shiqingcainongdeyitahutu!”rucidemaiyuanhenrongyishuochukou。er“wogaifushenmezhize”zhileidehuazehenshaochukou。

tuijian：xiexianiduiairenmaiyuandehua，ranhoumenxinziwen，zichazhize，zuihoushuangfangshangliangxunqiujiejuebanfa。

4、不好胡乱解释

 “wocikesuanshimingbainiweishazheimetiaotile，nijiuxiangnifuqin。”zheileimaosimingbaiairenxingweidongjidefenxizhihuidaozhifennu。

 tuijian：xianlejiezijishengqideyuanyin，xuehuiyikaifangheaihudefangshiquqingtingairendeguandian，yimuguangdengfeiyanyufangshirangairenmingbainizairenzhenqingting，zuihoufuqixiangchuzhidaoshitichujianshexingtuijian。

5、buhaohaipashuo“bu”

 xishengziwoganshoueryiweimanzuduifangdezuofa，kansiyouyi，shizeshibuzhenchengdebiaoxian。erquefazhenchengdehunyinhennanyouqinmikeyan。

 tuijian：shihuashishuogengnengyingdeairendexinren，jiashenfuqiganqing。bufangannanyichengduliechusuoyouhaipagaosuairendeshi。zhihou，congzuijiandandeyijiankaishi，shizhegaosuairenzhenxiang。

6、不好威胁爱人

yuyanhuozhitiweixiejinvedaibirandaozhihunyinchongtu。

 tuijian：dangniduiairenhenshengqishi，wubixuehuizhinu。biru，zijiduzidaizaifangjianli，yongdongxijidazhentou，zhidaoxiaoqiweizhi。biandabiandashenghanchulaixiaoguogenghao，danwubibaozhengmeibeibierentingdao。qixiaohou，jiairenxiefengxinba，tantannishengqideyuanyin，zhuyibuhaomaiyuan，xiechunishoudaodeshanghaijiuhao。