围城中对待婚姻的态度

 hunyinzhongweihemeiyouganqing？qishi，xiangxinmeiduanhunyindezuichudoushiyouganqingdecunzaide，zhishiyouyushenghuodepingdanyusuosui，jiangganqingyidianyidianhaojin，erbushanjingyinghunyinderen，jiuzhinengrenyoufazhanxiaqu。jintian huazhenqinggan xiaobianfenxiangyibenshu《weicheng》，kankanweichengyouguandedehunyinwentishiruhejieshide。

一、围城中对待婚姻的态度

 zuoweiqianlaoweiyideyibuzhangpianxiaoshuo，weichengyouguandedehunyinwentililaibeishouguanzhu，duzhezhongyourenduitadajiazanshang，chengqiyoumodeyuyan、duishenghuoshenkedeguanchashizaishichuse；yeyourenjuedezheibenshuxiedetaijiansuankebo，shizuozhezaimainongwenzi。

 buguanzenmeshuo，tidaozheibenshu，henduorennaohaizhongfuxiandekenengshineijuguangweiliuchuandeweichengzhongduidaihunyindetaidudejuzi：“hunyinshiyizuoweicheng，chengwaiderenxiangjinqu，chengliderenxiangchulai。”qianzhongshudewenzishiyoumo、fengcide，dantabingbukebo。

 lianaishidelangman、meihaozaizhujianliwomenerqu，liuxiadeshimomingqimiao，youcengchubuqiongdedefannao、maodunhezhengchao。chifandefangshi，shuijuedexiguan、shuohuashengyindedaxiao，zheixiezailianaizhongwuguanjinyaodexiaoshi，quechengweihenduofuqizhengchaodejiaodian。zheixiezhengchaobuduanshengji，zuizhongranghunyinhuashanglejuhao。

 chengran，aiqingshilianggerenzhijiandeshi，hunyinshilianggejiatingdeshi，keyidanzaitiaoxuanpeibanyishengdebanlvshijiashangleguoduoduiwuzhi、diweideyuwang，bicijianhengliangsuanjidetaijing，zheihenrongyishihunyinzheijianbengaimeihaodeshiqing，chengweiyizhong“jiaoyi”。

二、婚姻中为何没有感情

1、“chaimiyouyan”chengweihunyin“ruanlei”

 weibaozhengfangdaishourudewending、shengdeqi“erbao”，“chaimiyouyan”chengweileshuangzhigongjiatingyanqiansheiyewuxiagujide“gouqie”。danhunyindeweixiquezhengshilaiziyuzheitianzhangrijiudexijiejingying。

2、不愿为对方妥协

 hunyinzhongdeshashoushiganqingzhongbuyuanyiweiduifangzuochutuoxie。zaishuangfangyalideduichongxia，ziwodenianqingfufuyinggaixuehuishiduderennai，dengqingxuxiaohuahouxunzhaowentidegenyuan，congerlixingdijiejueerbushirenyouqingxudexuanxie。

 ermianduixianshizhongcunzaidemaifang、shengwahejiawufendanzheixieyali，fufumenxuyaoxuehuigenjuxianyoudejingjitiaojianhejiatingzhuangkuangzuochuhelidefenpeiyudiaozheng，tongguokexuedelicaijihua、gongzuoshijiancuofeng、liyongzhinengjiajugongjudengfangshilaifenjieyali——jiaruyikouyalikuaiguokeyijiejuedewenti，jiumeiyoubiyaozaiyalizhongbaofa。