henduorendoubuzhidaohunyinzhongdecouheshishenmeyisi?hunyinjiuxiangchuanxie,shubushufu,zhiyouzijizhidao,danshixianzaishehuirenmenyinweigezhonggeyangdeyuanyin,duihunyindoushirenyirendengyidengdetaidu,hunyinshangkeyichuxiandewenti,bunengyiyilieshu。jiusuanshangxinnanguo,yeweibihuirujiehunbanchongdongdiqulihunle。zheiyangjiuxingchenglesuoweidecouhehunyin。
一、凑合婚姻背景
20shiji80niandai,zuojiachenrongyouyipianxiaoshuo《landelihun》,shengdongmiaohuiledangshidaduoshurendehunyinzhuangkuang:aiqingdechengfenbuduo,gengduodeshishuangfangtiaojiandeyouhuazuhe,jishiganshoubudaohunyinxingfu,yezhinengmianqiangweichi。
xianzaidangrandabutong,zuijin,yixiangchouyangdiaochaxianshi,81.7%derenbaganqingzuoweiweichihunyindezuizhuyaoyinsu,12.1%derenrenweizinvshiweichihunyindezhongyaoyinsu,jingjiyinsudejinzhan1.5%。danshimianduihunyinshenghuozhongchuxiandewenti,44.1%derenbiaoshizanshibulihun,31.1%derenbiaoshiyaokanwentideyanzhongxing。yourenrenwei,zheishiyinweiyouaiqingzuojichudehunyin,cainengbimeiyouganqingjiehedeqianbeimengengrongyi“couhe”。
youhunyindengjizhongxindegongzuorenyuanshuo:meitianbanlixieyilihunderenqueshibushao,buguolaipaiduisancihaishihui“linzhentuotao”defuqiyehenduo,yinweizongyouzheiyanghuozheneiyangdeyuanyinqianban,shitamenzoubuchuzheizuihouyibu。
二、凑合原因
1、kaolvdaohaizihaixiao,danxinlihunduizinvfumianyingxiangtaida;
2、danxinlihunjiangmianlinjiatinggongtongcaichanbeiyifafenge;
3、chuyuduishenghuofeiyongdeyilaihuozheweilaishengcundekaolv,nengtuojiutuo;
4、kaolvdaodanweideshengqianyufazhanqiantuhuozaiqinqipengyouqiandemianziguannianerbulihun;
5、duiyugonglixingdehunyin,dangqiwangdemubiaoshangweishixian,yexujianchijiushishengli。
三、凑合婚姻的危害
ruguohunyinwanquanpolie(rufuqishuangfanghaowuganqing、jiatingbaoli,yinweihaizicouhefanerhuiduihaizizaochenggengdadeshanghai。
“fumukuailedehunyinnengbangzhuhaizizhangdahouxingchengzhengquedeliangxingguanxi,daodeyishiherenjiguanxi。”wangyurushuo,jishishilengzhanhuobiaomianxianghe,yichangminganhecuiruodehaiziyenengminruidixiudaoqizhongdehuoyaowei。
shouxian,zheirongyiranghaizijujueqinjinhebangzhu,chengnianhouchuxianrenjiqinmizhangai。qici,haizixinlimingbaifumudemianqiang,kenengyincibeishangchenzhongdefuzuigan,renweizijimeiyoucunzaiyiyi,youdeshenzhiyinciziyifangzongziwo、chengweibuliangshaonian。zuihou,mianqiangweixidehunyinwangwangdaozhijiatinghuanjingyayi,quefaai、jiaoliuhegoutong,ranghaizidebuliangqingxuzhangqiyuji,rongyihuanshangtongkuzheng。
四、专家观点
hunyincouheshishenmeyisi?youbiyaoma?chuyuhunyingongnengdekaolv。duihenduofuqilaishuo,qinggandexuqiubushihunyindezhuyaoyinsu,haibaokuojingji、houdai、xingshenghuodengduozhongxuqiu。
hunyincunzaiyufou,yezhuyaoshiconghunyindegongnengheshehuiduilihundekuanrongdulaikaolv,lirutamenzaidasuanlihunshi,huicongzheixiefangmianlaihengliang,lihundailaideshouyiyuchengbenhebulihunxiangbinayigegengda。danglihunhougefangmiandeshouyixiaoyubulihunshi,henshaorennengxiajuexinjieshuhunyin。“shehuikuanrongdu”,zaijintianjinguanyijingxiangdangda,dandangshirenrenghuiyouyidingchengdudemianziguan。
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