婚姻是爱情的坟墓吗

 “hunyinshiaiqingdefenmu”，zheihuayizhizaishehuishangliuchuan。henduoderenjiandingdirenweihunyinjiushiaiqingdefenmu，zheixierendadidoushiaiqingyijiangbufucunzaideba。xianzaihenduoderenzaijiehunqianhaiyouyigezhengzhuangjiaohunyinkongjuzheng。suizhe huazhenqinggandaoshi yiqiqukankanba。

一、婚姻是爱情的坟墓吗

 ruruozhishiyinweixiangjiehunerjiehun，huoshichongdongzhixiaxuanzedehunyin，daozuihouziranhuijianghunyinbianweiaiqingdefenmu。ruoshizhenaiyoucun，youzenmehuibahunyinbianchengleaiqingdefenmu。suiranyoubushaorenbahunyinshiweiaiqingdefenmu，wozerenweimeiyouhunyinderenlianfenmudoujinbuqu，youzhishiyizhiguhunyeguibale!yanxiazhiyi，maizangaiqingdebushihunyin，ershirendexinling，ruguoxinlingyijingyaneduifang，jishibujiehun，aiqingyejiangmaizangzaizijixinzhong。

 hunyinshiaiqingdefenmu?biezheimewuduan，yiduanchenggongdehunyin，shinengjingdezhukaoyande。zaizheigewuyuhengyideniandai，hunyingengshinengkaoyanchuyiduanaiqingshifouzhenzhi。suoyishuo，hunyinshiaiqingdekaishi、shiaiqingdeyanxu。hunyinshibushiaiqingdefenmu，zheizhuyaohaishiyouhunyindexuanzezhehejingyingzhejueding。yiduanchenggongdehunyin，biranshijianlizaishuangfangyouaiqingdejichushang。meiyouaiqingdehunyin，bijiangyishibaigaozhong，yebijianghuiranghunyinlunweiaiqingdefenmu。

 dangrijiutianzhangdeaiqingzhuanhuanweixiangruyimo，bulibuqideqinqingshi，womenyinggaiqingxing，qingxingwomenchengweitashengmingzhongzuizhongyaoderen。yinweiqinqingshiyonghengbubiande，caiyongyuanbuhuiyoubeipan。womennengchengweitaxinzhongrucizhizhongyaoderen。zhiyoumingbaizheidian，womenziranhuitanranjieshoujiqingxiaotuihoudepingdanshenghuo。pingdanqishibingbushisuranwuwei，ershiyizhongxinanlide，yizhongtatashishideshenghuo。

二、什么是婚姻恐惧症

 suizhehunqidelinjin，henduodezhunxinrenhuichanshengyizhongmomingdekongju，shenzhihuichanshenglinzhentuotao，taohundeniantou。qishizheizhongzhengzhuang，shiyizhonghuibixintaizaizuosui，xintaixuejiachengzhiweihunyinkongjuzheng。neishishenmeyuanyinzaochengdeni?

 hunyinjiushiaiqingdefenmu，zheizhongkongjuyouxieshilaiyuanyuyixieshehuiyulunduiyuhunyinshenghuofumiande“xuanchuan”，yijiyixiemeitiduiyugezhonghunyinshenghuodewentipouxiguoduodi“baolu”lehunyindeyixiebuhaodedifang，shidaoyixieyou“jiehunyixiang”derenganshoudaoyizhongwuxingdeyali，yizhiyuchanshengleduiyuhunhoushenghuo“zouxiang”guofendeyoulvheduihunyinshibaidekongju;lingyigezhongyaoyuanyinjiushi，yifangduilingyifangdemougefangmianbushihenmanyi，huoduiduifangmouxiequedianzaichengjiahounengfougaibian、zijinengbunengshiyingdengxincunyilv。

 hunqianbushizhengzhuangdiyiciyibanshichuxianshizaitanhunlunjiadejieduan，chanshengdeyuanyinzhuyaoshiduiyuhunyindechijiuxinghuaiyihekongju。diergejieduanzeshijiehunqiandeyigeyuehuozheshiyigexingqisuochuxiandeyixiejinzhang、jiaolvdengzhengzhuang。yudiyijieduanbutongdeshi，zheishichansheng“konghun”deyuanyinshiduiyuhunhoushenghuokunnandechengdude“kuoda”。