婚姻二次吸引的正确做法

 dangconglianrenchengweilefuqi，hunyinfazhanjieduanyeyoulexindebianhua，hunyinfazhanbijinglideyouwugejieduan，hunyinzhongyaoxiangzhangjiu，haiyouyaozuodaoercixiyin，xiamian huazhenqinggandaoshi jiushuoshuohunyinercixiyindezhengquezuofa。

一、婚姻二次吸引的正确做法

 erxiangyaozhongsuziwo，jiuxianyaolejieziwo，xuyaofansizheiduanhunyindangzhongzijidejiaose，zijidewenti。hunyinshilianggerendezeren，danniyizhizhaotadewenti，neimenidedaodebushiziwodezhongsu，ershishiquziji。yeshibuduandezizeziji，ershicongkeguanfenxidejiaoduchufa，zhaochuhunyinguanxizhongnizijicunzaidewenti。

 ercixiyindemude，jiuzaiyutongguogaibianrangduifangzhongxinbeinixiyin，rangnizhangwozhudongquan。ernengshixianercixiyindenvren，bidingshiyoumeilide，neiwaijianxiu。jiranniyijingzhaodaoleyuanyinjiuyinggaizuochugaibian。gaibian，baokuowaizaiheneizai。

二、婚姻发展阶段

1、重新认知

 daduoshurendehunyinshenghuozhisuoyibuxingfu，shiyinweihushilerenshihuibuduanbianhuade。xingfuhunyindebenzhijiushiyaoxuehuijijiyingduibianhua，duihunyinbuduandijinxingqinggantouruhejingying。hunyinbukenengyifanfengshun，danyeqiaqiashiyinweizheixiekankehebianhua，caiweixingfuhunyindefazhantigonglewuxiandeqianli。

2、理解差异

 goutongfangmiandechayi。nvrensikaowentipianganxing，ernanrenzepianlixing。hunyinzhongjingchangchuxianzheixianxiang：woxiangshuodehenitingdaodebuyizhi，nisuolijiedeyegenbenbushiwoyaobiaodadeyisi。fuqizhijiangoutongbuchangbingbushiyinweimeiyoubanfazhengchangjiaoliu，ershiyinweitamenbujinxiguanzhanzaizijidejiaodukanwenti，erqiehaibuyuanyixiangduifangtanluxinsheng，dangcaibutoubicidexinsishi，jiuzhankailejiliedezhengchao。

3、理解自我

 hunyinshenghuochuxianyanzhongweiji，shifuqishuangfanggongtongzaochengdejieguo，suoyijiejueweijidediyibushiyaoxianrenshidaonizishencunzaidewenti。daduoshurenguodebuxingfushiyinweiyayilezijidehelixuqiu，weiqudizuoyige“haoqizi”huo“haozhangfu”。

4、有效表达

 youxiaobiaodazijisuqiudeguanjianshiyaotuoliyuanshengjiatingdeshufu，heduifangyiqigoujianshuyunimenxiaojiatingdegoutongmoshi，buyaozainafumuzuoweihunyindecankao。

5、宽恕和解

hunyinshidexiuxing，xingfuderenwangwangdounenggouzaibicishiyingzhongchengzhang。

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