爱人有外遇怎么办

 dangzijiaiderenwaiyuleneizhongxinqingyidingshihennanguode，xinliyeyidinghennanguo。neimeairenwaiyuwozenmebanni？zhenduizheigeneirong， huazhenqinggan xiaobianjiujidajiayixiejianyi，xiwangduidajiayousuobangzhu。

一、爱人外遇我怎么办

1、xiancongkongzhiqingxukaishi。

duifangfashengwaiyuhou，qingxushikongshifeichangzhengchangde。zheizhongqingxushikong，bujinbaokuofennu，yebaokuobeishangdengdeng。

 danshi，zheishihouyidingxianyaorangzijiqingxupingjingxialai，yinweiyigeqingxushikongzhuangtaixiadeziji，shibukenenglixingdechulihaoshiqingde。

2、dangqingxuquyuwendinghou，juedinghunyindequliu。

 airenyouwaiyuzenmeban？yaoxuehuiguanlizijideqingxu，buguannizenmemianduiwaiyu，shuodaodi，wufeijiushilianggexuanze，shijixu，haishilihun。

 guanyuzheigewenti，xuyaofenlianggejieduan，diyijieduanjiushiduifangfashengwaiyu（huozheshuonizhidaoduifangwaiyu）shi。ruguonishiganqingjiepihuoduiwaiyulingrongren，neimekeyikaolvzaidiyishijianxuanzelihun，dangran，nenggoudiyishijianxuanzelihunderenbingbuduo，yinweihunyinbujinzhishiganqing，haishejihaizidenghenduowenti。

ruguonimeiyoudiyishijianxuanzelihun，tongchangyouxiandexuanzehaishizhengquyuanlianghewanhui。

3、确定对方态度。

 airenyouwaiyuzenmeban？duifangtaiduyejuedinglehunyindequliu。jiandanshuo，ruguoduifangbusihuigai，shenzhifanguolaihaigennitichulihun，xiangyaogendisanzhe，neime，lixingdejieguodangranshixuanzelihun。henduorenbuganxin，zheizhongqingkuangkeyilijie，danzheibushiyigemingzhidexuanze，yinweinihaobuqi，buguanshishentihaishixintai，dengyouyitianshenxinjupi，huorandunwudeshihou，nihuihouhuiweishenmedangchubuzaodianfangshou。

yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti？zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme？