怎样预防外遇的发生

 zuijinbijiaoduoderenwendaozenyangyufangwaiyudefasheng？zhenduizheigewenti huazhenqinggan xiaobianjidajiayixieguanyuwozijidekanfa，xiwangduidajiayousuobangzhu。

一、怎样预防外遇的发生

zenyangyufangwaiyudefasheng？shouxianwomenyaogaoqingwaiyushizenyangchanshengde，zaixintaixuedecengmianqufenxi。

1、waiyuxintaixue：hunwaiqingshizenmechanshengde？

1.1、感到伶仃

 lingdingganxintaixuejiatongguoyanjiufaxian，pingchanglingdingganshicuchenghunwaiqingdezhuyaoyuangu，dangfuqizhongdeyifangwufayuciwaiyifangfenxiangshenghuozhongdadaxiaoxiaodeshiqing，huozheshiqingtuhouwufadedaolijie。

 miqieyouhaodejiaoliuzairenzhijiannanyikaizhandehua，lingdingganbianhuiyoukeshisheng，zheishihouyidandedaohunwaiqingdejiyu，gandaolingdingdeyifangjiuzikeshirandechuguile。zheiyeshiweishenmeyidilianzuirongyifashengchuguiwentideyuanguzhiyi。

1.2、得不到满足

 xintaixuqiudebudaomanzuxintaiyanjiubiaoming，zairenjilaiwangzhong，rendexuqiukefoubeimanzuzhijieyingxiangzherenmenzhijiandeguanxi。jiaruxuqiudedaomanzu，dajiaodaoderenzhijiandeqingganlianluojiuhuizengqiang，fanzhijiarudebudaomanzuchanshengjuewangzhigan，jiuhuixueruorenmenzhijiandeguanxi，naizhilingrendeguanxishuyuanhuotingzhi。

 renmenchangshuo“jiufengzhijiqianbeishao，huabumoulibanduo”，shuodejiushizheigeqingli，duifangdesixiangmanzulenideshouhouhexihao，guanxizengqiang，tanhuadeyichixu，xiangfan，errendexiangfagegeburu，tanhualikehuitingzhi。zaifuqiguanxizhong，tongyangshiyongzheiyiyuanli，jiaruyifangzaishenglihuoxintaishangdexuqiuzhangqidebudaomanzu，jiuyexuzhaozhihunwailiandechansheng。

1.3、shenghuoguofenkuzao

 shenghuoguofenkuzaolingrenyanjuanyouyuguofenkuzaoerdaiyanjuan，jinyibuzaochengqingbianyeshihunwaiqingfashengdeyidayuangu。richangshenghuoshifeichangsuosuiwuliaode，jiehunshijianjiuleshuangfangderechengkaishilengque，yehushilezaishenghuozhongshengchanqingdiao，zheizhongqingkuangfenwairongyilingrengandaoyanjuan，yincishouhouhunwaiqingdeciji。

zheizhongqingkuangxia，yingdangjinyexudezuogeyouxinren，shishishizaishenghuozhongshengchanyixiexiaojingxi，yicidiaojirichangshenghuodefawei。

2、ruheyufangbanlvyouwaiyu

2.1、qiewushishenghuobiandedandiao

 nannvjiehunhoureqinghuisuizhexiangchushijiandezengduoermanmanlengque，erjiushizheigeyuanyinyinfalegezhonghunyinfenliedefangshi，suoyiqianwanbuyaoxiaokanleta。

2.2、buyaoshiduifanggandaogudu

 zheizhongqingkuangjiushitixianzaiyifangfanpinminggongzuoerhulvelelingyifang，manmanduixingshenghuoyekaishilengdanle，zheigeshihouhenyekenenghuixunzhaoxindeguanxi。

2.3、liuyizunzhongpeioudeganqing

fuqizhijianchaojianeishibukebimiande，danruguosantianyidachao，ertianyixiaochao，neizheirizigujiyeguobuzhangle。

2.4、zhengquechulixingaigaochaoshenghuo

yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti？zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme？