为什么中国传统婚姻外遇率高

 jintianhuazhenqingganxiaobianjidajiajiangjiangyigehenqiguaidexianxiang，guanyuweishenmezhongguochuantonghunyinwaiyulvgaoerlihunlvjiaodidewenti，duiyuzheigewenti，wojichuzijideyixiekanfa，xiangnenggouqifadaodajia，bangzhudaodajia。ruguohaibunengrangnimanyidehua，dajiakeyixunqiugengweizhuanyede huazhenqinggandaoshi debangzhu。

一、为什么中国传统婚姻外遇率高

weishenmezhongguochuantonghunyinwaiyulvgao，erlihunlvxiangduijiaodini？

1、bingbunengzhengquerenshihunyin

 tamenbukaolvyifangzaibuxinghunyinlidebukuaile，yebukaolvchuguiduilingyibandeshanghai，zhishidanchundirendingbunenglihun。zaitamendeyishili，hunyinzhuzhongdebushigerenganshou，shibierenzenmekanni，shisuizheshehuidechaoliuzou。bierenjiehunniyedejiehun，bierenshenghaiziniyedeshenghaizi，shenglehaizijiubunengli。

 bulihun，hunyinjiuweichilexingshidewanzheng，lihunshirangrenxiaohuade，chuguiquekeyibeilijie。zaitamendeguannianli：hunyindexingshiwanzhengbishizhigengzhongyao。

2顾虑孩子

 buzhiyigewangyouqiuzhu，xianglihun，danfumubutongyi，shenzhiyisixiangbi。napalaogongyijingchugui，hunyinmingcunshiwang，shenzhishijiabao，quantamendehuawufeishi，dajiadoushizheimeguode，youlehaizi／nianjidalejiuhaole，fanzhengyijuhua，hunbunengli，zhiyuxingfubuxingfu，naneimejiaoqing？

 youlehaizide，bunengzisi，bunengweilezijizhuiqiuxingfuranghaizimeilebaba／mama。jishineigedangbahuozhedangmakenengjibenbujindiemadeyiwu。youxierenconglaibumingbai，biqiwanzhengdejiating，fumudebuxiangaihezhengchaogengyoushashangli。

 buzhiyiweixintaixuejiagaojieguodajia，fumujingchangzhengchaodehaizi，henrongyiquefaanquangan，duiaiqinghehunyinshenzhirenshengbeiguan。buwanzhengbudengyubuxingfu。buxingfudejiatingjishiwanzhengyehuidaijihaizishanghai。

3、zhishizuobiaomiandeziji

 jinguanwoguoyiwangdehunyinshi“chuangdoumeishangjiujiehunle”，danlaoyibeimenduihunyindequekandehenshensheng。tamenxinfeng“jiajisuiji jiagousuigou”，yidanjielehun，buguanriziduojiannan，doubuhuiyouerxin。yushiduoshaorengongtongfuyangdayiqunernv，haizouguolejinhun。

 dankandaotamenduidailihunhewaiyudetaidu，caifaxian：tamensuorenweidehunyinshensheng，kongpabushihunyinshizhi，ershihunyinbiaomianba？buguanhunyinshenghuoduobuxing，napaliangrenxiangchourenyiyang，napayouwaiyu，danhunyinbunengjieti。

 zhiyaobulihun，yiqiedoushiwanhaohezhengchangde，tamenbudong，hunyindeshenshengbujinzaiyuxianghufuchi，haiyouhuxiangzhongzhen。dangbicibuzaichengweiduifangdeyikao，buzaizhongchengyuduifang，hunyinyijingmingcunshiwangle，zhiliuxiayigekongqiaoeryi。jiehunbushizhaogerenlingzhengzheimejiandan，gengbushizhaogegudingchaojiadeduixiang，huxiangshanghai。

4、观念问题

 jiehunshizhaogexiangaideren，huxiangwennuan，zairujingaolihunlvdexianshihuanjingzhong，“ningchaiyizuomiao，buchaiyizhuanghun”dechuantongguanniankansiyoujijiyiyi，danshijishangquehenningba。

yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti？zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme？