导致外遇的原因

 dajiazhidaodaozhiwaiyudeyuanyinyounaxiema？jintianhuazhenqingganxiaobianyaojiangdezhutizhengshigaowaiyudeyuanyin，zhenduizheigewenti，xiaobianyouzijideyixiekanfa，jiangchulaijidajiatingting，xiwangnenggouduidajiayousuobangzhu。ruguonijuedehaibumanyidehua，ganqingwentishangyixiedongxizijijiejuebuledehua，keyixunqiuyixiazhuanyede huazhenqingganhuhuashizhemen bangzhuni。

一、导致外遇的原因

gaowaiyudeyuanyinqishiyouhenduo，zheililiejujidianchangjiande，neirongruxia：

1、渴求情感弥补

 gumingsiyi，mibuxingshiduihunneibuzudeneiyifenqingganjinxingbuchang。tashiyizhongzhuyaode、duofade、daiyoupubianxingdexingshi。rendeqingaishishifenfengfude，zhiyaoshiyigeshengli、xintaijianquanderen，zongshixuyaobierendeailian。

 danshenghuobingbuzongshijinrurenyi，youdeduibenshenhunyinbumanzu;youdeshijiehunshijiuhenmianqiang，xiantianbuzu。youdeshihunhouganqingfashengleliehen，daozhi"houtianshidiao";youdehunyinbenshenjijingpolie，eryouwufazailihun，dengdeng。

 zaishenghuozhong，yifuyiqizhibenshenjiuduirendeganqingjinxingleyixiexianzhi，beixianzhideneiyibufenjiuqianzangzairenmendeqianyishizhong，yidanyoujian，jiuhuixiangwaifazhan，duibumanzudeneiyibufenganqingjinxingbuchang。zhengyinruci，zheizhonglianqingchijiuqiechire，youdeyanrenermu，jueduibaomi，youde"youbaopipabanzhemian"，banmingbanandiwanglai。

2、偶然邂逅

 daozhiwaiyudeyuanyinhaiyounaxie？mibuxingshisixiangshangyouzhunbei，zhudongkeyizhuiqiuhunneibuzudeneiyibufenaiqing，erxiehouxingzebutong。yibanshuolai，xiehouxingdehunwailianzhejiatingshenghuobujiandebumeiman，shenzhihenmeiman，tawuxuteyidaohunwaiquxunqiumibu。

 yecongweixiangguotiyanhunwaidelianqing，ershiourandejihuihuoyiwaideshiqingjiangliangrenlianxizaiyiqi，zheidangranyebaokuo"yijianzhongqing"zhe。

 meiyigerenzaihuaichundejijieli，zongzainaozilisuzaochuzijilixiangdeyigeouxiang。suizhenianlingdezengzhang，buduandibeimeihua，erqierenshiyezaibuduandibiandeshenke，mingzhishenghuozhongzhaobudaoqiren;queyebunengwanghuai。

 youyuourandejihui，zhongyupengdaoleyigeyuzijiduoniansuzaoqilaideouxiangxiangwenhedeyixing，zhuruqizhi、xiangmao、xingge、gexingdengdengjibenshanghexiangxiangdeyizhi，zheishibianhuichanshenghunwailian。

3、怀旧

 zaihunwailianqingzhong，huaijiuxingyezhanyouhendadebizhong。jiuqiyuanyin，dadoushiduixianyoudejiatingshenghuobugoumanyi，suizhesuiyuedeliushi，huaijiuxintairiyizengzhang，zaixindimengshengchuduijiuqingdeyilian。zaixianshishenghuozhong，lianggexiriqingrenzuizhongweinengjiehedeyuanyinshenduo，youdeshishuangfangwujie，youdeshijiatingganshe，youdeshiyifangduanjueyinxin，youdeshiyifanglingyouxinai，dengdeng。

 danshijiehunhouquefaxianzhaodepeiouburucengjingzhuiqiuguodeneigeren。zheixierenyushichenhezaihuaijiuzhizhong。yourenshuo，yigenvrenzhiyoudengjielehunyihoucaizhidaozijisuoxuyaodeshishenmeyangdenanren，yigenanrenyezhiyoudengjiehunyihoucaizhidaozijisuoxuyaodeshishenmeyangdenvren。

 shaonvshaonandeneizhongmenglongdeqingganzaitamendexindiliuxialehenshendeyinxiang，ruogannianhoushenghuoruobuqieyi，zonghuixiayishidijiangyanqiandetayuxiridelianrenzuobijiao。ruguoyouyiriyujiulianrenxiangyu，biankenengshengchuzhongwenjiuqingdeniantou，chuxianhunwailianqing。

yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti？zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme？