对搞外遇的老公怎么办

 duigaowaiyudelaogongzenmeban？jintian huazhenqinggan xiaobianjiujidajiayixiejianyi，xiwangduidajiahuyousuobangzhu，nenggourangninenggouzhuazhuzijidexingfu，youhuoxuzhongxinzhaohuishuyuzijidexingfu。

一、对搞外遇的老公怎么办

1、控制自己的情绪

 duigaowaiyudelaogongzenmeban？laogongyijingyoulewaiyu，yibanqingkuangxia，qizidouhuichuxianzhurufennu，fenhen，jidushengqi，xiuru，weiqudefumianqingxuzhong。congxintaidejiaodulaikan，chuxianzheizhongqingxushizaizhengchangbuguodele。keshi，zaimianduilaogongwaiyudezheizhongteshuqingkuangxia，womenxianyaoxuehuikongzhizijidezheixiefumianqingxu。

 zaixintaixueshang，youyigeqingxuzhuanyidefangfa，neijiushizhaoyixiekeyiyourangnijizhongjinglideshiqingquzuo，zanshixianbazheixiebukaixindeshiqingpaozainaohou。

2、jizijisikaodeshijian

 shangmianshuodaole，dengnideqingxuwendingle，goulizhilehou，zaikaishisikaoyuyoulewaiyudelaogongdehunyinwenti。zheigezhouqiyibanshisangeyue。

 anxintaixueshanglaijiang，renzaiyudaozhongdashijiandeshihou，youqiliruqingganwentideshihou，bunengzaisangeyueneizuochujueding，yinweisangeyueshirendexinlingliaoshangqi。yinci，zheigejieduan，nishikeyizhaonidehaoyouqingsuzijideneixintongku，yekeyizhuruxiesimiderizhi，huozheshinalaogongdeyixiewujianlaichuqi。

3、责任决定

 zenyangduigaowaiyudelaogong？zaizheili，woyonglezerenzheigeci，xiangxinnvxingpengyoumenyenenglijiedao。zheigezerenshejidedongxihenduo，laogongyouwaiyu，keyibuweizheigejiatinghuozheshihaizifuze，keshinizuoweiyigeqizi，yiweimama，jiuyaoweijiatinghehaizifuze。dangran，wulunnizuochushenmejueding，doushizhengquede。ershishishang，zheigeshihou，niyezhinengyouliangzhongxuanze。yizhongjiushilihun。

 ruguonihaishiwufayuanlianglaogongwaiyuzheijianshi，jiubuyaomianqiangzijiqujieshou，yinweizaihunyinzhong，niyeshicanyuzhe，niyeyouquanlibiaodanizijidezhenshixiangfa，bingbushisuoyoudeshi，douyoutayigerenlaizuoyou。suoyi，zheigeshihou，nijiuyongnihunyinfuyunidequanlilaixuanzezijideshenghuofangshihehunyinzhuangtaile。suoyizenyangduigaowaiyudelaogong，haishiyaozijijuedingde。

yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti？zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme？