当丈夫有外遇 不再爱你时怎么办

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一、 抱怨没用，伤心伤肺。勇敢做自己就好

 ruguoniyinweizhangfuchuguieryijuebuzhen，neizhinengshuomingniderenshenghuodetaidanyile。qishimeiyouta，nizhaoyangkeyiguo。zhibuguoshigentazaiyiqi，tazhizaodeyixiewenti，xuyaoniquchengshou，ermeiyougujidaonideganshou。

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二、改变以往态度，宽容为上，培养恩爱氛围

 jiranjiajileta，ruguoqingyidiyinweitadewaiyujiulihun，neizhinengzhengmingzijideruanruowuli，zhengmingaiqingdebukanyiji。“chuncandaosisifangjin”，zheishigushicizhongdeaiqing。zhongguogudaimeiyouaiqingyici，eryong“enai”：suowei“yirifuqibairien”；suoyi，zaijiatingzhongyaoduopeiyangfuqienaidefenwei。

 ruguoninenggouyongxindepengren，yongxindizhenglifangjian，yongxindizhaoguhaizi，yongxindiduidaigongpo，haohaodidaita，xiangxintayidingnenggouganjuededaode。zaizheizhongshufudeqingjingzhixia，jilaogongbiaodaxianiduigongtongjianshemeihaojiatingdeqiwang。ranglaogongganjuedaonideburongyihenuli，zijihuitourencuo。

三、是婚姻就要经得起谎言、欺骗和问题

 dianshiju《haizhugege》limiandezhutiqu《dang》，qizhonggeci“dangshanfengmeiyoulengjiaodeshihou，dangheshuibuzailiu，dangshijiantingzhuriyuebufen，dangtiandiwanwuhuaweixuyou，wohaishibunenghenifenshou，bunenghenifenshou，nidewenroushiwojinshengdeshouhou。”

 zheishougecidangnianhongbianledajiangnanbei，zhisuoyizheiyang，shiyinweizheigecilimiangesongleweidadeaiqing。erhunyinbushiyinweitawanmeicaiaita，hunyinjiyuaiqing，gengshiyinweiaitayeaishangletadebuwanmei。jishitazuocuoleshiqing，shanglenidexin。yinweinizhendeaita，caihuiyuanliangtadeguocuo。

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