对外遇的错误认识

 niduiyuwaiyuderenshishizenyangdeni？kenenghenduorenduiyuwaiyuderenshihaishichuyubijiaomohudezhuangtaide，jintianhuazhenqingganxiaobianjiujidajiajiangjiangguanyuduiwaiyudecuowurenshimeixiwangnengjidajiadailaiyixiebangzhu。

一、对外遇的错误认识

1、waiyuzhishiweilezhuiqiuxing

 henduorenrongyijiangwaiyuhexingkuaiganlianxizaiyiqi，renweirenmenshiweilezhuiqiuxingkuaiganerchugui，dangenjuyixiangsuijidiaochaxianshi，zai100gewaiyuzhezhong，jinyou1renbiaoshitawaiyudeyuanyinshiyinweiheqizidexingshenghuobumanyi。erzaiwojiechudaodewaiyugeanzhong，meiyourenshiweilezhuiqiuxingdemanzu，tamendoushiyinweiqingganchuxianlewenti。

 haiyouyigeshishi，waiyuzhedourenweiqishihunyinzhongdexingshenghuozhiliangbiwaiyuzhongdegenghao，zheishibushihenfengcini？ruguozhenshiweilexing，dangwaiyuzhongdexingshijishanglingzijiganjuebingbuneimemeihaoshi，waiyuzhezaojiuhuitoule，erxianshizhongwomenkandaodewangwangxiangfan，waiyuzhebingmeiyouneimekuaihuitou。

2、waiyushiwanjiuhunyindefangshi

 duiwaiyudecuowurenshihaiyouduoshao？cengjingyouyigegean，zaishuoqifuqijiandejiaozhuoxianzhuanglingzijishenxinpibeishi，jingranbiaoshi：youshiwozhenxiwangtanenglaiyichangwaiyu，haorangtagengdongdezhenxi。

 zheixianranshitaduihunyinwujikeshishidewunai，danwocongmeitingshuoguowaiyukeyiranghunyingengjiawenguzheiyangdemiulun。benyijingqianchuangbaikongdehunyin，zaijiashangwaiyu，neiwuyishimiedingzhizai。yongyigegengzaogaodewentilaiyangaixianzaidewenti，jiukeyirangxianzaidewentixiaoshima？zheizhibuguoshixiaohaizidehuanxiangbale。

3、外遇不会伤人

 “wozhibuguoheneigenvrenwanwan，fengchangzuoxi” zheiyangdeshuociyijingfanlan，zaiwaiyuzhekanlai，waiyubuguoshizijideyule，bingbuhuishanghairenheren。shenzhijihusuoyouwaiyuzhedourenwei“wodehunwaiqingbuhuishanghaidaowodepeiou，yinweita/tajuebuhuizhidao。”

 zheiyezhibuguoshitamendemeimengbale，shishishang，ruoyaorenbuzhi，chufeijimowei。jihusuoyoudewaiyuzuizhongdoubeijiechuan，erwaiyuzhebuxiangshanghaiderenzuizhongyedouhuishoudaohuimiexingdeshanghai，baokuopeiou、zinv。

4、waiyuzhinengtongguolihunlaijiejue

 dangzhidaobeipeioubeipanshi，dangneizhongdianfuxingdeshangtongwuqinglaixi，niyidingrenwei：zheigeworucishenxinderenbeipanlewo，congciwobunengzaixinrenta/tale，woweiyinengzuodeshilikaita。bu，nandaolikainijiunengfangxiashangtong？nandaolikainijiunengkaishizhongxinxinrenlingyigeren？daandangranshifoudingde。

bupaichulikaizheigepeiouzhihou，nihainengyouxingzhaodaoxiayigenenggoujinianquangan，mibunichuangshangderen，danzheijihuihenmiaomang。

yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti？zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme？