婚前准备有哪些

 daduoshudezhongguorendouqueshaohunqianjiaoyuzheimenke，lisuodangrande，hunqianjiaoyuyouliyulianggerenjiaowang、xiangai，ziranjiuzoudaolechoubeijiehunzheijianshishang。ruguozaihunqianmeiyourenzhendetaiqitoulaisikaoyixiawomenxianzaishibushizuohaolejiehundezhunbei，wangwanghunhoubanniankaishi，jiukaishiletongkudeshetouheyachidajiademolian。hunqianjiaoyushihenzhongyaode，meiyigexinniangzihunqianzhunbeiyoushenmexintai，yougaizenmeyangkefuhunqianxintai?

一、婚前准备有什么心态?

1、逆反心态

 duiyushuangfangnidingdehunlishixiang，nizongshihuixiangbumingbai，zongshijuedezheiyangbuxing，neiyangyebuhao，buguanshishenmezhuangkuang，nidouhuijuedehenbumanyi。zheizhongnifanxintai，zhenghaoshuomingcishidenitebiejiaolv，duiyuhunyinzongjuedebuanquan，shenzhishichongmanleweizhi，suoyi，buguanhunlizenmeanpai，nidoushibumanyide。

2、恐惧心态

 jibianshiniheyigezijiyijingrenshilehenduonianderenjiehun，zhenzhengdanghunqidingxiazhihou，nifanerjuedetebiebuanle，kongjujiehunhoukenenghuichuxiandewenti，changjiandewentijiushi，lingyibanshibushihuiyibeizizhongchengyuziji;hunhoudejingjitiaojianhuibuhuiyoubaozhang;gengyoushenzhehuikongjuhunhoudeshengyuwenti……zheixiehunqiankongjuxintai，doushinihunqianjiaolvdezhongyaobiaoxian。

3、病态心态

 qishi，hunqiandeyixiebingtaixintai，yeshihunqianjiaolvdetixian，birushuojinzhang、jiaolv、kongjudeng，zheixiebingtaideqingxuxintaizhuangtai，henrongyirangnizuoyixiebuzhengchangdeshiqing。ruguozheixiebingtaidexintaibujishidiaojie，henrongyichanshengbuliangdehouguo，henduoxuanzetaohunderen，jiushizaizheixiexintaidezuoyongxiaquzuode。

4、攀比心态

 douyaojiehunle，niquezongshihuiquheqitarendehunliduibi，duibihunlidexijie，shenzhihaihuiduibizijidelingyiban，juedezijidelingyibanmeiyoubierendehao。zheixiepanbidexintai，yezhengshishuoming，niduiyihoudehunyinyecunzaiyidingdebuanyinsu，nideneixinshikongjude。

二、怎么样克服婚前心态?

1、新婚心态调适

 danglianrenmendaizhemeimiaoduozidexiangxianghetianzhenlanmandeyuanwangburuhunyindediantangshi，quefaxianzaibaisehunshadexuanmuguangyingbeihoubuzaiyouluomandikedeqingdiao，ershipingfan、dandiaode“guowanpiaopenjiaoxiangqu”。youtianmaxingkongdaojiaotashidi，lixiangyuxianshidejidaluochahenrongyirangxinhunderenmenxianrumimanghekunhuozhizhong。yinci，xinhunfuqixuyaozhengshihunhoudexintaibianhuayuchongtu，qianjishidiaoshi。

2、心态失落感调适

 relianyuhunyinshiyouhendachabiede，yixiazicongwuyouwulvdelangmandiejinlesuosui、caolaodexianshishenghuo，xuduoxinhunfuqi，youqishiqizi，huichanshengxintaishiluogan。tarenwei，chenglejiajiugaiyangjialiye，zhiqingqingwowozenmexingni?yushitajiujianghendadejinglitourudaolegongzuoyushiyezhong，ziranbuxiangyiwangneimeyinqinle。lingwai，lianaishishuangfangdouzhuyijiduifangyilianghaodeyinxiang，jiaoshaoxianluchuruodianhebuzu。hunhou，suizheshenghuodeshenruheshijiandetuiyi，shuangfanggezideruodianzhujianbaoluchulai，yerongyichuxianganqingdemoca，congeryinqixintaishiluo。jiejuezheigewenti，zuiguanjiandeshishuangfangyaohuxianglijiehetitie，buyaoqiangpobierenanzhaozijideyiyuanxingshi;yaozhengquelijiebingjienalianaihehunyindezhengchangchabie，nulibaochijiqingyusuosuishenghuodepingheng。

3、xinggeyushenghuoxiguandemohe

 xinhunzhihoudeyiduanshijianshilianggerende“moheqi”。lianggerendejiatingchushen、wenhuabeijing、xinggetezheng、xingquaihaodoubujinxiangtong，shenghuozaiyiqinanmianfashengmaodun，biru，yifangxihuanzhengjieerlingyifangxihuanluanfangdongxi;yifangbuxiubianfuerlingyifangyou“jiepi”;yifangjiejianerlingyifangquedashoudajiao;dengdeng。hunhou“moheqi”yizhishaoyaobannianzhiyinian。zheiduanshijiannei，fuqishuangfangyaozhengquerenshi“moheqi”neimaodundebiranxing，jinliangzhanzaiduifangdejiaoduqukanwenti，xinshangduifangyoudiandetongshiyeyaojienaduifangdequedian。buyaotaiguzhi，yaoxuehuirongren、biantong，jiuxiangfulankelinshuode：“jiehunyiqianzhengdanideshuangyan，jiehunyihoubishangnideyizhiyanjing。”shuodejiushizaihunhouyaobaorongduifang。

4、huajieziyouyuzerendechongtu

 buruhunyinhou，shuangfangbixufuqiyingyoudezerenheyiwu。lianaishisuiranyexuyaofuqiyidingdezeren，danbijingbijiaoziyou。haiyou，ruguonideairenzaijiashizuixiaodehaizihuoshidushengzinv，zaijiashiyibandoushibierenxiangzheta(ta)，neita(ta)dezerenxinduoshuyaochayixie，jiehunhoujiubuzenmedongdeweibierenzhexiang，maodunyekenengyaobaofachulai。maodunshizaisuonanmiande，guanjianshishuangfangyaoxianghutiliang，huajiezerenyuziyoudechongtu。zongzhi，jiehunhou，shuangfangdoubunengzai“weisuoyuwei”，yaozengqiangzerenxin，zuoyigexiangyangdeqizihuozhangfu，zheiyanghunyincainengchijiu。

5、diaojiexingshenghuozhongdemaodun

 xingshenghuoshihunyinshenghuodezhongyaozuchengbufen。xinhunfuqidoumeiyoutaiduodejingyan，nanmianhuipeihedebuhexie。nvxingrongyiduitengtonggandaojinzhang、jupa，danyeduixingshenghuochongmanqiwang;nanxingzerongyiduizishendenengli、duifangdemanyidugandaojinzhang、youyalidengdeng，zheixiedouhuiyingxiangxingshenghuodehuanyu。xinhunxingshenghuodemeimanyufou，huiduiyihoudefuqixingshenghuohezhiliangchanshenghendadeyingxiang。yinci，yaozhuyinulihuajiexingshenghuozhongdewenti。

 duiyuxinhunjieduannvxingfangmiandezhongzhongwenti，fuqishuangfangyingyiqikefu。hunyinbushiaiqingdefenmu，yebushilangmandeaiqingtonghua，tashishishizaizaideshenghuo。shenghuozhongbunengmeiyouguowanpiaopen、youyanjiangcu，hunyinzhongbudehexie、maodunyeyaoyoufuqishuangfanggongtonghuajie。xingfumeimandehunyinxuyaofuqigongtongchuangzao。