人到中年，离婚和丧偶哪个更痛苦

 rendaozhongnian，jiuxiangyigefenshuiling。zhongnianzhiqian，hundehaoderen，jiuhuiyueguoyuekaixin；hundebuhaoderen，rizizhihuiyueguoyuecan。rendaozhongniandeganwujiuyuelaiyueduo，shangyoulaoxiayouxiao，shenzhiyouxiehaiyaojinglisangou，sangshileyaopeibanzijiyishengdeairen。

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一、夏女士：42岁，离婚7年

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二、马先生：40岁，丧偶2年

 woqizizouleliangnian，woshangxinnanguoleliangnian，daoxianzai，wodounanyiwanghuaitadeliqu。liangnianqian，womenlianggebenlaishuohaokeyiyiqiquxizangchaosheng，wanchengwomenlianggerendemengxiangde。keshiyichangturuqilaidechehuo，jiuzheiyang，duoquletadeshengming。

 wohenhenlaotian，bumingbaiweishenmelaotianyaozheimedicanrenduiwo，bumingbaitaweishenmeyaodaizouwowenroudeqizi，daizouwohaizidema。tazouleyihou，wobamadouquanwozhaoyige，wojujuele，zheibeizi，wojiuzheimeyigeqizi，zaiwuqita。zhende，ruguokeyidehua，woningyuanzheshou，yebuyuanyitalikaiwomen。zheiduanshijianwoyijingsangshiledouzhi，buzhidaoweilaiyaoruhezouxiaqu。

三、向先生：52岁，再婚4年丧偶

 wogenwodeqianqijiehunle8nian，lianggerenguodehentongku，zongshichaojia。danshilianggerenweilehaiziyizhizairenzhe，yizhixiangzhezaijianchiyixia，danshidaozuihouhaishirenshoubuzhufenkaile。houlailihunhou，wojiuyujianlexianzaidelaopo，tarenhenhao，duiwoheqianqideerzihenyounaixin，yeconglaibuhuijieyiwodeguoqu。bingqieduixiaohaiyeshihenwenroude。

 wohenxihuanta。zaiwomenjiehundediernian，tajiuyoujiwotianleyigehaizi，shigenver，zhangdehenxiangta，henkeai。keshihaizihaibudaobansuideshihou，tabeijianchachulaileai，wanqi，budaoyinianshijian，tajiubeibingmodaizoule。tazouleyihou，wozhenggerendoubengkuile，wohenbudegenzhetayiqiqule。keshikanzheneimexiaodenver，tahaimeiyouhaohaodikanzheigeshijie，woyouyuxinburen。houlai，zaijiarenhepengyoubuduandikaidaohebangzhuxia，wodexinqingshaoweihaoleyixie。xianzai，weilelianggehaizi，wozhinengjianqiangdihuozhe！

 tinglezheixierendehuida，wodeneixinhenyouchudong，zheixiedoushirendaozhongniandeganwu，qishibuguanshilihunhaishisangou，doushirenshengdangzhongdeyidakaoyan，doushiyixietongkudejingli。danshirenshengzaishi，henshaoyouyifanfengshundejinglide，suoyizhiyaowomenyongbaobufangqidezhenxin，tongkudeshiguangzonghuiduguo，guangmingdemingtianzonghuidaolai。