好老婆的标准是什么：什么样的妻子是称职的

 haolaopodebiaozhunshishenme?shenmeyangdeqizishichengzhide?xifushinengyibeizishouhouzaishenpangdeairen,doushixiangshienaideqinglv. nanshengxinzhongdexifuzhongjiushinage?

一、好老婆的标准是什么：什么样的妻子是称职的

1.合理地表述您的体会和要求

 nidezhixiqinshumeiyougoutongxiediaonengli。jiarunixihuanshenme，woxiangwenyixia。jiaruchuxiannanti，qingshuochuqu。haolaopodebiaozhunshishenme?shenmeyangdeqizishichengzhide?bubianshizhehuoanshizhetamenhui“sichu”huoshinizhongjiuburongyizuoyiqieshier。

 jiaruniyaobiaoshuzishendetihui，niyingdangkeyiyijijizhudongdeyudiaoshuohuabingtingquyijiannidezhixiqinshuchangshuodeerbingbushichize。xialieshimouxiefangshi ：

 tuisong“wodexinxi”。bubichizetamenbufuhenindeyaoqiu，zhishijiangtanhuaneirongjizhonghuazaizishenshoushang。biru，gaozhitamen，“dangnimeiwan6dianbancaijianniyimianshi，wonengjuedebeihulve。”

 yongxintingyourenshuodehua。dangtamenduinishuomoujianshishi，fanfutamenduiyourenshuodehua，bianyutamenlejienilejie。biru，“tamenshuonidanyouhuijinanti，zheishinigongzuozhongdaotaiwandeyuangu。”

 fangzhigenjufenbian。zainizuochuhuiyingyiqian，rangtamenjinxingtamenchangshuodehua。jinxingtanhuaneironghou，chushijiejuefangfa。liru，“jiaruzheidaibiaowonenggengjingchangdijianniyimian，woyuanjienagengyankedefeiyongyusuan。”

2.挑选恰当的方法沟通交流

 yixienantizuigaizhengzhi，yixiezebuzhi。dangnihuaxiaoniquanbudeshijianlaikekenidezhixiqinshuyouguanzheixiebingbushiguanjiandexiaonanti，neimadangchuxianzhongtedanantishi，tamenjiuburongyitingnide。

 zhizenenggouhuihuaimeiduanguanlian。biru，yaoshicaishihuanjingzhengjie，jiububixutaonidezhixiqinshuzenyangyi“qiadangdefangfa”zhuangcheshuicaoxiwanji。rangtamenyizishendefangfabanshi。bubiliuhanxiaowanyi。

 fangzhizhizenidezhixiqinshu，erbingbushiquanjuxingdizuo。jilaoyaoweichilizhihekeguan，youyumingxiandexintaifeichangrongyijiangtantaozhuanhuanweizhengzhi。dangnizhizetamensuozuodemeiyijiansuoshi，neimatamenhuixunsujiangnidiaochuqu。

 niyingdangzanyangnidezhixiqinshutamensuozuodeshier，erbingbushiniyutamenzhengzhitamenfancuodeshier。zheijiangshitamengengyoujianghuiqingtingnideshengyin，erqiegengweishanyuzainipangbian。

3.当您与直系亲属探讨难题时要搞清楚

 haolaopodebiaozhunshishenme?shenmeyangdeqizishichengzhide?zuozhanqiadang。bubirangnaonuyijiao，youyutajianghuihuijinijiangchunihouhuimojideshier。jibianwobuyuanyinidezhixiqinshu，niyebixuzhongshitamendejianyihejianjie。

 yaobianchengyigehaolaopo，nibixugaoqingchunijianghuizhongjiuburongyiyuanyiyixienanti。meiyounianqingfufuyouzhetongyangdeshehuidaodehexinnian，zheidaibiaodajia2gedoubixuxuehaojiejuenimeifachulijianyidechangsuo。

 zaishihedeshijianyutamengoutongjiaoliu。bubisuiyizaitamenshoushangjiejuekunnan。zaiwanfanqianfangzhichuxiannanti，lingwaitamenmaidandanhuopengdaogongzuoyalizhuangkuang，liruchuliqichewenti。zhongjiububizainixiaohaiyanqianjinxingzhengzhi。

dangnibudui，jiurenkeba。nibixuxuehaodafuzhengzhibingweichikeguan，bianyuzainifancuoshikeyirenchulaibingzhiqian。