人们为什么要结婚：究竟结婚有什么好处

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一、人们为什么要结婚：究竟结婚有什么好处

 renmenweishenmeyaojiehun?jiujingjiehunyoushenmehaochu?jinjinwanhundejingshenjituo，bingbushiwanhundeyuanyin。hunyinshibeiweihudeganqing，shijiangganqingzhuanhuachengzhenqing。wanhun，qiantitiaojianshiyaozhaoyigeshifenzuiaideren，bulunshijihunhuanshizhaoxunhunyin，doubixuquexinhunyinzhidu，xianghuyunying。

1.美好时光和艰辛時期

 diyiweilaiyuanyuwodemama，tadeshengminggaowei。neishihoutazaoyi95suile。jiandaoneimeduofufufenshou，ertayubabadeguanlianbiandegengjiaqiang，xiangyaozhidaotademimishisha。

 wobabamamaqinshenjinglilexuduojianxinshiqi。yinweidanxinbeisha，tamenshucitaochujiayuan：tamencongxiongyalitaodaofaguo，congfaguofeidaoaodili，suihoucongaodilitaodaofaguo，zuihoudaodayingguo，zaineibiantamenyishizhuxingpinku。henduonian。woshuowodemama，“nihebabazhongjianyouzheibanduodeganqingshishenmeyuanyin，suirannishoushangchanshenglerenhe，dannidouhaimeishenxianshiluo?“

womamaxiangxiangyiduanshijian，suihoujianyidijiangdao：“shijishang，wonaizhijuederenmenburongyineimagaoxing。“

 tapanduanlidiguanniandaohunyinbujinshiyibiandedaokuailebingxiangyoukuaileshiguang。zaiyingpianzhong，yourenshuoxingfujiushihunyindemudi。zaiyoutairenzhong，xingfujiushirenmensuochupengdedaziranshouyi，yurenmensuotiaoxuandeairenxianghuyishizhuxing，fuwuchengnuo，yiwuheyiwudeyishizhuxing。

 hailunkailezaixiedaoshibiaoshuleyigekegumingxindedadaoli：“xingfukuailebingbushilaiyuanyuwaijie，zhishilaiyuanyuneibu。zheibingbushirenmenjiandaohuochupengdewupin，yebingbushitarenzuodewomenyiqigaoxingdeshier。fanguolai，tashirenmenzishendetihui，sisuohetongyixingdong，zuixianshiduibieren，suihouduirenmenzishen。“

 xibolaiyuzhongdeaidegenyuanshiohev，zheiyeyiweizhewonengjiyu。zhenshideaizuixianyaoguanzhulingyifangdeyaoqiu，erbingbushitazishen。shuo“woxihuanni”buyingdangshizheizhongzhuzhong“niyingdangweiwoganshenme”defangfa，zhishishuo“woxiangyaoweilenizuoxienaxie，youyutayaowogaoxing”。

 zongdelaishuo，fufuzaiwanhunyiqianqiandingdehetongshu：jiarutashaocai，tajiangpobudeyiquchufeiqiwu; meigerendoujianglunzhetiqianzhunbeiwanfan。zuiguanjiandeshi：meirenbibierenzuodedaliang，tashicuowude。huoxu，meirenhuigandaogaoxing，youyutamendoujuedezhongjiushicuode。

 dangniwanhunrenweitahuiquebaonidexingfukuaile，niyouquanliliyi。gangkaishifeichanglejiehunyinweinindailaileyuninsuozuiaiderengongxiangyishizhuxingtiaozhandejiyu，buguantiaozhanyouduoshao。nijiangcongwusifengxiandegerenxingweizhongdedaojidadekaixin。

 quebaoxingfuhunyindeshouxianshiyaolejierenmenburongyizhongjiuxingfukuaile。renmenzaidianliwanbishijinianqingfuqidediyiweixinxineirongshibaituoheyibei。yishizhuxingdoushiyoufensuideshikedaozhide，renmenbujinjinxiao。keshi，yongbuqiuhuibaodeailaidikangta，youliyuzhanshengkunnan，xunzhaozheizhongdajiazaizhuiqiuwanmeizisizilidexingfushenghuozhongzhongjiuburongyilejiedekaixin。

2 - 被遗弃的祝愿

 renmenweishenmeyaojiehun?jiujingjiehunyoushenmehaochu?xiayigemimiqujueyu - yiwaijingxi! - zaifajuewangdiaoshizheizhongzhuyuan。

nanrenduitadepenyoushuo：“meiyiciwoliangzhenglun，wodelaopodoushibianchenglishishijian。“

“nidehanyishishengsilijie，bingbushima?tahuiying。

“bu，wodeyisishilichengbeishide。tahaijidewo20nianyilaiduitasuozuoderenhe，renmenzaoyijielehun。“

 midelashenshengxianwenweihelaotianyeyongzheileichengzhiweijiyijiantuidequedianzaojiulerenmen。tabennenggourangwomenchongzuderendedanaolaijilaochanshengzairenmenshoushangderenhe!tamenhuiyingshuozheibingbushiyigebuzhengque，zhishiyigechonggaodefangan。meirenshijizhide，womenfancuo，zheiliwomendoushiren。

 jiarurenmenfanlebuzhengque，renmennenggouhuihen，jiarurenmensunhaibieren，renmennenggoukenqiutakuanrongbingzaiciyishizhuxing。wangdiaoshirenjiantiantangdelipin，womenyiqikuayuebuzhengquedehuanjie。dangnihuodezhuyuanshi，renmenburongyishuo“wozhongjiuburongyiwangdiao”，dangxuduorenzaiyumeihuonaonudeshikesunhairenmenshi，“woningkewangdiao”

 shihuaizheshuo：“shenmeshixingfu de bujin shenxinjiankang，jiyilicha。 tayejianghuishiqudechenggonghunyindeqiaomen。yihandeshi，renmenkongzhibulezishendeshentizhuangkuang，danrenmenhuoxunenggoujuecewangdiao。jiarurenmenzhiliyuzhixiqinshudequedian，neimarenmenzongshijiandaotamen。keshidangniyingyongqianzibidexiangpicagongjulaiqingchulingyifangdebuzhengqueerqiewodexiechutadechuantongmeide，neimarenmenjiuburongyiwangdiaoweiherenmenjiagetale(e)。

3. 让步

 zheijiushiwojinxingmingxidezuihoutixing。wozhongjiuburongyiwangdiaoyiweinvxingzenyanggenwoshuotafuqixingshenghuozhongwubiyingduidejiaodananti：“woshizhongxiwangzhejiagelixinglaoxiansheng。zhizhiyouyiriwoguanniandaotadexingmingshi“zhongjiu”，yuanyiweiwozhaodaota。

 nilejiezenyangtongdianhuajishizhongjuedetashidongniderenma?lilehun。meirenyizhiduide。meirenyizhicuode。dangnijuedezishenzhongjiushiduide，nijiubudui。

 2gezaiyiqiderenbukeyiyizhiyuanyi。jiaruzaimeiyiciyiyizhongtamendouwubilapiaonenggoulejiedaodishisheiduide，neimajiuzhongjiuburongyiyoufazhanfangxiang。jiejuefangfashibuyaneryude：buguanzenyangshiduide，zailiangzhifuqizhongniwubirangbu。

 youguanyoutairenguazaidamenkoudezongjiaoxinyangdaibiao，youzheitiaorangrenchayidefalvfagui。mezuzahbeizhifangzaimendemenmeiyigouqichonggaodecunyou。shishipinglunyuanjiumezuzahwubijuyoudeguandiankaizhanleyihuizhumingdetantao。youxierentawubishuzhizhifang，biedezhifangzaishuizhunzhifang。

 gaizenmeban?tashiquanbuyoutaifalvfaguizhongweiyimeiyoujueceshiyongzaiqizhongyigedediqu。renmenmeiyouzuochujuece，zhishicaiyonglerangbu：jiangmezuzahfangzhiyigeshijiao(ashkenazidianli)。meirentijiguozheileigailv，danzheiyijiejuefangfazuinengtixianyigezhiguanzhongyaodekeguanshishi，jiarutayuanyizhangwoxingfukuailehexingsheng，jiuwubizaimeiyiyoutaijiazhongdejibenshang：rangbu。dangyigenvrenyutadelaogongxuehaohuxiangtuoxieshi，jibiantamenmingquezishenshiduide，erqieningkerenkeerbingbushizhengfu2，tamendejiangshangdoushizuiguanjiande：tamenhuodeleshaluomudezhuyuan。