婚姻男女不宜做的7件事

 zhiqiankanlehunyinneixieshizheigejiemu，lejiedaoyuanlaihunyinyouneimeduoyaozhuyidedifang，yidanchulibudanghunyinbianzoudaojintoule。xiamianshicongyicizaixianhunyinqingganzixunzhongzixundaodehunyinnannvbuyizuode7jianshi，xianglejiedekeyikankan。

一、不宜以自己的生活习惯为主

 jiehunhou，fuqishuangfangdouhuiyouyixielouxibaoluchulai：xiangyagaojidewaiwainiuniu，chuangbianyouyanhui，luanrengzangwazidengdengwenti。duiyuzheixie，shuangfangdouyaojinliangxuehuirongrenheqianjiu，bubiyiweizeguaiduifang。youqishizuoqizide，buyidingfeiyaozhangfuzhaozijidefangshilaizuo，tixingtaxiacizhuyijiuxingle。

二、不宜回家撒气

 fuqishuangfangdoubuyaobazaiwaimiandebukuaiqingxufaxiedaojiazhong，yinweifapiqideyuanguhuiyinqiquanjiabuyukuai。zheibingbushishuorenmenzaiwaimianshoudaoweiqudouyaomanzhejiaren，ershiyinggaizhaoyigeheshideshijian，zaibaxintoudeyumenxiangduifangqingtuchulai。wulunshizhangfuhaishiqizi，cishidouyinggaiyiwenroudetaidugulihuoquanjieduifangcaidui，bangzhuduifangjinkuaixiaochuxinzhongdenaxiekumen。yinggaixiangxin，zainandeshiqingyehuisuizheshijiandetuiyierguoqude。

三、不宜在经济问题上“一言堂”

 ruhehuaqianbingbushiyijianxiaoshi，youhenduofufubianshiyinweijinqianerbuhe。renmenzaijiehunqianhuaqianjibenshizijishuolesuan，bianyangchengle“dulizizhu”dexiguan。jiehunhoukejiuyaozhuyile，yaoyoujiatingdeguannian，youshihuaqianyaogongtongshangliang，helianpai。zaijiatingjingjitiaojianbingbukuanyushi，qishifufushuangfangdouyingyouzizhili，buyaozizuozhuzhangluanmaidongxi。

四、宜面对过去总想“也许……”

 fufujianyouleliehen，qiejizainaozilizongshixiang“yexu”liangzi：“yexuwohelingyigerenjiehunhuibiheta/taxingfuxie”、“yexuwobujiehunfanergenghao”、“yexuwomen……”。zheixie“yexu”doushixiaojidexiangfa，qishiyuewangzheifangmianxiang，shiqinghuiyuezao。fufuliangyingdangduohuiyixiangchushidexingfukuaileshiguang，zhiyouzheiyang，cainengshirenzaibuzhibujuezhongyukuaiqilai。shuo“hunyinjiushiaiqingdefenmu”，daduoshimeiyoulingwudaojingyinghunyindejiqiao，zaihunyinshenghuozhongzaoyulewentimeiyouhenhaodeshudaojiejue。

五、不宜无故迟归或外宿

 dangqianbushaojiatingdoushishuangzhigong，zaihunyinneixieshiyeyoutixian，changchangzhiyouzaigongjinwancanshicainengjuzaiyiqi。jinzhangdegongzuoheshenghuojiezoushifuqijiaoliuganqingdeshijianbenyihenshao，ruguoyifangzaiwuguerchiguishenzhihuwaisu，jiugenghuijiduifangxintaishangzengtianjiaolvhefannao。zheiyangjiuerjiuzhi，fuqizhijiandeganqingjiuhuichengwei“wuyuanzhishui”，henrongyiganku。

六、不宜在子女面前互相“揭短”

 zheizhongzuofahuiyanzhongdajiduifangdezizunxinde。ruoshishijianzhangle，fuqishuangfangdeganqingjiuhuibinlinbengkui。gengyanzhongdeshi，zinvyehuiyincierkanbuqizijidefumu，yizhishijiatingzaijingshenshangfashengjieti。

七、不宜相互无端猜疑

 ruguoshuoxinrenshihunyinnannvzhijianaiqingdejichu，neimecaiyijiushiganqingdezhuchong。ruguoyinzhangfuhuoqiziyuyixingjiechuerwuduanqiyixin，shenzhifazhandaojianshiduifangdezuofa，qishiduifuqiganqinghejiatingwendingdoushiyoubaihaierwuyilide。