如何正确理解恋爱与婚姻的关系

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一、婚姻生活并不是感情的确保

 tingguoneiyangyiduanhua，kuaiwanhun，hunhoutajiudiaozhengxintaile。dudududuganjueshenweigaoxiao。1gejiehunqiandoubuqingchuzhongshideren，zenyangnengrangyizhanghunyinshenghuokunfuzhuzishenfangsideshengming？youyouneimaduodenanrenhemeinv，yibianbiaodazishendezhenxinshiyi，yiwufangudeshanhun、luohun，jinjinlaidaozuizhong，hunyinshenghuobingbushiganqingdequebao，zhishibianchengwanbiganqingdekuaizishou。

二、婚姻生活并 不都是感情幸福的持续

 shenxihuanyigeren，douhuixiang，jiaruzaitashenpang，wonengjitamenmeilideganqing，shidezhaoliao，tayehuigengweirenzhendeshuoaiwo，bangwoshuzuiduodechongni。danshiruguojindaohunyinshenghuo，youfeichangduodegouxiangjiangyuelaiyuebiantilinshang，nijiuhuifaxian，ruguojindaohunyinshenghuo，zheixiegouxiangbianweileshewang，naizhiyiqiandexingfuyexiaotuikanbudao。

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三、婚姻生活并不是感情惟一的下场

 ganqingyoutaixingshiduoyang，yixieganqing，jianghuiyishengmeiyouxiangyongguoyihui，quenengzaixianghudeneixinshenshendiguanian，shenshendiguanian，huxiangaizheyisheng。wangbianhaijideyouyipianwenzhanglianaiyuhunyinbiyelunwenshuoguo，yixieganqing，bixuzangxinliyisheng，zhongjiuburongyihehunyinshenghuocheshangyiqieguanlian，hunyinshenghuo，bingfeiganqingweiyidexiachang。yuanyi？tigaofengcai，xunsugaobiedanshen？tahuiyuelaiyueaini，baituowaidizuzhou？wanliuxinyideta，qidongercixiyin？

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四、婚姻生活并不是感情的墓葬

 youxuduonianqingren，huiyouhunyinkongjuzheng，youyudanxinjindaohunyinshenghuodeganqingbianweiemeng，yincishizhongzaizaodongbuanzhongjingyingaiqing，queconglaibutanjihunyinshenghuo，yincimeiduanyoumeiduandeganqingbianchengleyiqian，yincihendadeqingchunnianshaojiuzaidanxinzhongguoqu。rutongxiayizhanhunyinxiangtong，hunyinshenghuosuiranmeiyouganqingdeneiyangdanchunxing，quenengjirentashi，feichangshiyigenvhai，hunyinshenghuo，nenggoujinvxing1gexiangxiderenshengdaolu。

五、婚姻生活不可以给感情是的交待

 youguoduoxiangaideren，qipandijiutianzhangmeishimeikedexiangsui，qipanduridexiangpei，zongganjueshizhijinkouzouruhunyinshenghuo，suanshijiganqing1geshidejiaodai。wojuedenibudui，youshiduoshaoxiangqinxiangyuandehunyinshenghuo，yuaiqingwuguan，youshiduoshaokegumingxindeaiqing，quebushejidaohunyinshenghuo。