想结婚了没对象怎么办，该如何解决

 xiangjiehunlemeiduixiangzenmeban？zainongcun，sansishisuidenanrenzhaobudaobanlv。zuiyouxiaodejiejuebanfashishenme？xianzai，zainongcundiqu，shengnandexianxiangrengranhenpubian。tamenyaomezaohun，yaomewanhun，yaomebujiehun！

 duiyuzheixie30suiyihouzainongcundenanrenlaishuo，hennanzhaodaoyigeren，yinweitamenzaigegefangmiandoumeiyouyoushi。zuijibendefangfashigaibianziji，niuzhuanlieshi！

第一，对于农村30岁以后的男人来说，找对象的第一步就是走出农村

zuoweiyige30suiyihouzainongcunhaidanshenderen，woxiangruguonixiangzhaoyigeren，neimediyibujiushizouchunongcun。

 xianzaidaduoshuliuzainongcunderendoushiliushoulaorenhuoertong。nianqingnannvwaichugongzuo。ruguonizainongcunsanshiduosui，haimeiyoujiehun，ruguonixiangzhaodaoyigehaobanlvheheshidebanlv，zouchunongcunjueduishinidediyibu。

 yinweizainongcun，nibukenengzhaodaoyigehaodeduixiang。nongcundenvhaizaiwaimiangongzuo。dangtamengongzuoshi，tamenyijingzaiwaimianzhaodaoleyigeren。buyaoyiweitamenhuihuidaonongcunquxiangqin。

 zainongcun，nizhuanbudaoduoshaoqian，yinweinongcunmeiyougongzuojihui，yemeiyouhaogongzuo。nizhinengzaijiaxiangzhongtian。chufeinihenniubi，baojibaimudi，yinianzhuanhenduoqian，fouzenibukenengzainongcunzhongzhizijidetudi，yebukenengjiehun。

第二，如果你想找对象，第二步就是赚大钱。这是一个关键的地方

 zuoweiyigezainongcunyijingchaoguo30suidenanren，ruguonimeiyoubanlv，xiangzhaodaoyigebanlvjiehun，worenweidierbushizuiguanjiande，yejiushishuo，nibixuzhuanqian。

zijiyijingguole30sui，zainianlingshangmeiyourenheyoushi，zheigeshihounizhiyouzaishilishangyouyoushi，cainengzhaodaohaodeduixiang。

 ruguonihainianqing，nirengranyouhendadejihuiheyixienianqingqingdenvhai，yinweihenduonianqingdenvhairengrankannianlinghuowaibiao，danniyijingchaoguo30suile。ruguonirengranxiangyikaonidewaibiaohenianlinglaizhuizhuyigenvhai，zheishibuxianshide。

 ruguoniyijingsanshiduosuile，haimeiyoujiehun，meiyouqian，meiyouliqi，neimenijiugengbukenengjiehun，zainongcunkaolvdediyijianshijiushiruhezhuanqian。

rujinshehuishangzhuanqiandefangshihenduo，zhiyaoninuligongzuo，neimejiunengzhuanqian。

 ruguoniyouzijidejishu，neimezuoyuzijidejishuxiangguandegongzuo，ruguonimeiyoujishu，neimezuizaogaodejiushiqujianzhugongdibanzhuan，zaixianchangkeyixuexigenghaodejishu，keyizhuanqian，meishenmedabulede。

 likainongcunhou，niyekeyizaifadadiqudegongchanggongzuo。nizhouweiyidingyouhenduorenzaiwaimiangongzuo。nikeyitongguotamendefangshizhaodaoyixieheshidegongzuo。tongshi，zaigongzuozhongxuexijishuhejineng，nidefazhanqianjingzaiweilaihuigenghao。

 zaizhaogongzuoshi，nikeyiguanzhuneixienvhaigengduodedanwei，birudianzigongchanghuozhuangpeixian。zaizheiyangyigedanweili，zhiyaonizuodehao，nijiukeyizaigongchanglijiejuenidedanshenwenti。

第三，根据自己的实际情况，决定找哪个班的女生

 zouchunongcun，zhaodaoyifengenghaodegongzuo，kaishizhuanqian，neimenijiukeyigenjuzijideshijiqingkuanglaikaolv，juedingyaozhaoshenmeyangdenvhai。

 woyijingsanshiduosuile，laizinongcun。worenweiwomenyinggaixianshiyidian。zaixunzhaoduixiangshi，womenbuyinggaimubiaotaigao，gengbuyongshuokaolvneixiebuqieshijideshiqingle。

 zaizheigeshihou，zhaoyigebutainianqinghuotaidaderenshihenhaode。tongshi，zhaoyigenengguanlijiatingderenshizuishihenide，yinweizuoweiyigenongcunren，buyaoshituzhaodaoneixietuhaolieshen，gengbuyongshuoneixiefeichangfuyouderenle，yinweitamengenbenbuhuixihuanni。

 woyijingsanshiduosuile。zaizheigeshihou，wobixuyouyixiezijidexiangfa。wokeyigenjuzijidexiangfazhaodaoshenmeyangdenvhai。dangran，ruguowozhendezhaobudaoyigefeichangfuhenitiaojianderen，woyinggaituijudier，zhaodaoyigexiangside。

nidenianlingfangzaizheili，yuewanghoutuo，nijiuyuenanzhaodaoduixiang，yeyuenanzhaodaoheshideduixiang，nianlingshiyigeyingshang。

第四，如果你有实力，在县城买套房，结婚也不难

 zaiqianmiandejichushang，ruguonizhaodaoleyigeheshidenvhaibingqiezhengzaitanlunyigeduixiang，niyinggaizhuandaqian，nulizaixianlimaiyitaotaofanghelingyiliangche。zheiyang，nidehunyinjibenshangmeiyoudawenti，duifangdefumujibenshangbuhuifangaini。

 shishishang，xianzaizaixianlimaiyitaotaofangbingbutebiekunnan。zhiyaoniyouchaoguo10wandeshouqifukuan，nijiukeyizaiputongxianmaiyitao100pingfangmidefangzi。

 xiangjiehunlemeiduixiangzenmeban？ruguonizaixianchengyoufangzi，nidehunyinjiubuhuiyouwenti。jiehunhou，nikeyimanmandicunyixieqianmaiyiliangche，zheiyangnidejiarenjiukeyiguoshangfeichangxingfudeshenghuo。jianglai，shenghaiziheshangxuedewentijiangzhujiandedaojiejue。

 ruguonimeiyouliliangzaixianlimaifangzi，zaigongzuozhongzhuanqianhou，zhiyaoshuangfangtongyi，zaijiaxiangnongcundezhaijidishanggaifangzimeiyouwenti。zheizhongfangfadechengbenxiangduijiaodi，chengbenyejiaodi。

第五、三十以后的男人，找对象的关键是有实力

 shishishang，zhengruwozhiqiansuoshuode，worenweiduiyuyigesanshiduosuidenongcunnanrenlaishuo，ruguotaxiangzhaodaoyigejiehundeduixiang，tabixuyouliliang。

 ruguonimeiyouliliang，neimenijiumeiyouzigetanlunduixiang，yinweibininianqingderen，binideliliang，weishenmebierennengkandaoni，nimeitianzaijializhongzhijiyingmutudi，yishengmeiyouchengnuo，nagenvhaiyuanyigensuini？

 ruguonimeiyouliliang，yizhizainongcungongzuo，yexunijianglaiyoujihuizhaodaoyigebanlv，danzheiyangdeduixiangshiyigejiating，yejiushishuo，tamenyijingjiehunle，disancihunyinrengranyouhaizi，zheiyangyigerennixiangkaolvqingchu。

 dangran，ruguonizhendemeiyoushili，youzheiyangderenkanshangnishinidefuqi。ruguonilianzheiyangdefuqidoumeiyou，nizheibeizizhendeyaodanshenle。xianzainongcunyouhenduodanshenderen。

 xiangjiehunlemeiduixiangzenmeban？wulunshinongcunnanren，haishichengshinanrenxiangyaojiehundeliliangdoufeichangzhongyao，zhiyouniyouxiangyingdeliliang，niyouzigexuanze，ruguonimeiyouliliang，neimesuoyoudejihuidoubushini。