分手了我该如何挽回？一起看看

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　　首先，从理性的角度来看，分手了我该如何挽回？纠缠行为通常表现出不健康的心理状态，如强迫控制、依赖、自卑、孤独等。这些心理问题往往导致人们无法真正接受损失，并利用纠缠和其他情况来寻求心理安慰。因此，分手后，首先要仔细分析自己的心理状态，尽量保持冷静理性，合理处理双方关系，重建真正健康完善的人际关系。

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