花镇：分手后怎么判断值得挽回

　　ganqing，shiyizhongmingyun，yeshiyizhongkaoyan。dangnanpengyoushuofenshouzheilianggezishi，nvpengyouyidinghennanguo，xiangyaozhengjiunanpengyou，yexuyaoyixiejiqiaohefangfa。neime，nanpengyouxiangfenshouzenmehuifuni？fenshouhouzenmepanduanzhidewanhui？

　　1.了解男友的想法

　　zaihenduoqingkuangxia，nanpengyouxiangfenshoushiyouyuanyinde。yexushiyinweitamenzhijiandefenqi，goutongbuchang，shenghuoshangdefenqidengdeng。yinci，shouxianyaolejienanyoufenshoudexiangfa，shishenmeyuanyindaozhitaxiangfenshou。zhiyoulejiegenbenyuanyin，cainengyouzhenduixingdijiejuewenti。

　　2.改变自己的问题

　　dangtadenanpengyoutichufenshoushi，xuduonvpengyouhuishituzhengjiutadenanpengyou，danhulveletamenshifouyouwenti。yinci，zhengjiunanpengyoudedierbushiyishidaotamenzijidewenti，bingshitugaibianta。liru，guoduyilainanpengyou，buzhuyizijidexingxiangdengdeng，doubixujinkuaigaibian。

　　3.沟通协商

　　zhengjiunidenanpengyou，zuizhongyaodeshizhaodaowenti，bingjinxinggoutonghetaolun。dangnidenanpengyoutichufenshoushi，buyaocaiquqiangyingdetaidulaizhengquxinren，ershitonglixin，lijieninanpengyoudexiangfa。zaigoutongdeguochengzhong，nikeyitichuzijideguandianhezuofa，danbuyaorangduifanggandaobeipohuoyalitaida。

　　4.捡起曾经美好的回忆

　　jiyishiyizhongwennuanhegandongdefangshi，yeshiyizhonghenhaodegoutongfangshi。zaijiunanpengyoudeguochengzhong，nikeyijianqimeihaodehuiyi，rangnanpengyoujuedenimenzhijiandeganqingkeyizhuisuheyanxu。fenshouhouzenmepanduanzhidewanhui？tongshi，nikeyiyongnanwangdehuiyichangkaixinfei，rangnanpengyoudexingengjiachengshihezhencheng。

　　5.不断给予关爱和支持

　　zaizhengjiunanyoudeguochengzhong，womenxuyaojiyunanyougengduodeguanxinhezhichi。youqishidangnanyoumianlinyixiewentihetongkushi，taxuyaojiyushidangdebangzhuheanwei。zheibujinnengrangnanyougandaobeilijieheguanzhu，hainengzengjiatamenzhijiandeganqing。